i ripping the hair out of my head!!!

its over watered. there doesnt look to be any perlite in ur soil. water once a week, or add perlite. I water every 2-3 days with perlite. once every 9 without. Dont water till ur soil is dry, when you transplant, add about 1/4 the bucket of perlite and mix it well. dont water again for a while. u can also add holes on the bottom and bottom sides for xtra drainage.

budslubs said:

Now my other plant is doing it too for no reason. I think i am not meant to grow. I am done, packing it up, just upset I wasted $450. good luck all.

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Don't you think that, as long as a plant is alive, you owe it to the thing to stay the course? How cool would it be if you pulled it out? I agree with overwatering and some sort of nutrient issue ... possibly lockout, possibly underfeed.
In any case, don't water until the plant actually starts to droop from drought ... it has a completely different look. At least use this time to try stuff and gain experience. Jmo. cn

How I can I tell if it's drooping from being underwatered if the plant leaves are curled up so bad they spiral into each other. Now the other is doin the same things. There is a decent amount of perlite you just can't see it. Guys I am so frustrated I can even sleep I am so pissed hence I am up at 1am.

budslubs said:

Now my other plant is doing it too for no reason. I think i am not meant to grow. I am done, packing it up, just upset I wasted $450. good luck all.

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You quit everything that easily? Transplant into new soil. Only enough water to dampen the soil. Weigh the new setup. Now you will know as it gets dry. Remember the plant will add weight as she grows.

Maybe you were just not meant to grow in soil. Try a bubble bucket. Anyone can afford one, and there really isn't an easier way to grow in hydro.

I smelled fail from the first post. Hope he decides to give it another try though.

I would suggest to the OP, if they come back, to READ...Interpret...READ Interpret.....READ.

Absolutely.