i know im probley going to be embarrsed after

haha louis, this is for you man

I hope I dont get in trouble for putting this up, all in good fun, just trying to cheer up weedman.

yes, pre teen humor is always the ticket in these situations.

CrackerJax said:

yes, pre teen humor is always the ticket in these situations.

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That's the way I like to look at it.

Relax man, I'd be more worried about gettin some weed to smoke. She says she loves you, right? Then chill out, you believe her when she says that right? Sounds like you just need to get some weed, but if that guy lays one finger on your girl, you gotta set him strait! Just don't fuckin shoot him, bad idea.

thats gonna be a real shitty weekend dude.

Louis541 said:

Noone mentioned how you said "Noone spoils her like you" Sounds to me like a money grubbin bitch. Fuck her one last time then right as you're busting your load slap that bitch in the face and tell her it's over.

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well by spoiling her means that i tell her how beautiful she is and all that when we go out on dates its usally even i pay for one than she pays for the next its just fair since she makes more money than i

I think you should tell her that you are worried about this whole thing and uncomfortable with that dude staying there....especially if she still has feelings for him.....thats just asking for something to happen.

Tell her you're uncomfortable and if she doesn't care enough to respect that she's probably not the right chick for ya

i know this thread i pretty fucked up but i did get some pretty good advice out of it so at least ome good came out of it but yeah sry everyone i really am

You've received lots of good advice here so far. It seems to me that you may be coming off as a bit needy. Not many things chase off girls as much as a needy guy. There is a fine line between being a nice guy, and being a doormat. I'm afraid you may have crossed that line at some point. Please don't take that as an insult. It's real easy for nice guys to do. I was the same way until my early 20s.

Asking her not to sleep in the same house as him is reasonable. Begging her not to will get you no where in the long run.

If you sit down and have an honest conversation with her about the situation, I see a couple of different possibilities. Either she tells her mom to butt out, and tells the ex not to come. Or she's gonna do what she wants, and spend the weekend with him. If she decides to stay home while he visits, I don't think you have much of a future together. You MIGHT be able to convince her otherwise via begging/crying/pleading, but that is a dead end road in the long run. Eventually, she's gonna do what she wants anyway, begging would just prolong the misery.

I think you said somewhere you are 20 years old. Were you ever happy with your life before you met this girl? What made you happy? Whatever that is, you need to get back to it. Fishing? Music? Cars? Basically, find a hobby. Just do whatever it is you like to do. Eventually, you will meet some new friends, possibly even the female kind.

Just my .02

My Left Hand

My left hand is my friend
Never far and always there
When it is gloved or when it is bare
My left hand receives the love I send

Girls come and go in the end
Some stay long and others short
Some stay away and others let me port
but my left hand is my best friend

Just don't let the left hand know what the right hand is doing!

I put a glove on the right as a blinder.

as a lawyer, i would advise u to immediately stop with the gun references. if you are US, in some states all that fuck would need is to convice a cop that u have made a threat with a firearm. And anyone with access to this site has enough reference.

And if u didn't know, guns in a house with chronic (or a grow op for that matter) should be EXTREMELY well hidden becuase of the ease of compounding legal ramifications.

If I were u, I wouldn't worry about that dude; kill him with kyndness. Rude ppl and jerks take huge offense to nice people for some reason. But u shuld let ur girl know that if she starts trippin, what will happen. -that's ur call. And hold to it bro.

thanks everyone for the advise and all well todays the day fuck nut is coming down and well last night was the first time since weve gone out that i havent heard from her...i think im just fucked in the long run i really do. it must be me or something because well last night while thinking THIS IS THE SAME GOD DAMN THING MY EX DID TO ME and her ex even got depotered. i guess im just going to try and start being an asshole to women or something lol fuck

weedman013 said:

i think im just fucked in the long run i really do.

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Only if you do something stupid with one of your guns. At this point you can still walk away without any long term consequences. A few years from now you won't even remember why you were so broken up over this girl.

weedman013 said:

it must be me or something because well last night while thinking THIS IS THE SAME GOD DAMN THING MY EX DID TO ME and her ex even got depotered. i guess im just going to try and start being an asshole to women or something lol fuck

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I don't think you need to go so far as to be an asshole...but nice guys usually finish last with women. You need to find some happiness of your own, independent of any woman. If you continue to always make yourself available, and keep bending over backward to please girls you just met, you are likely to keep getting the same results. Women can sense desperation. I think it's just about the ultimate female repellent.

I'm not trying to preach, I just want to share some lessons I had to learn the hard way. There are LOTS of single women in this world. Get out and enjoy your life and you are bound to meet somebody eventually.

Good luck.

i can tell you from firsthand experience threats will get you caught up with the law especially if one of the other parties sees them but bro wait ta see what happens dont jump off the far end just yet...my ex that i was with for 4 years did some shifty stuff sometimes where she placed herself in horrible situations but always kept me in front of her decisions...no trust will kill your relationship in no time....

ok well i thought i put this up earlier but i guess not but i took back the threat i was just fuckin pissed at the time...BUT NOW SHE JUST CALLED ME AND TOLD ME HE DIDNT SHOW UP LMGDAO!!!!!!! oh and i guess i should say she doesnt know my true feelings about him coming i said it was cool all along she thinks it never botherd me

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ok well i thought i put this up earlier but i guess not but i took back the threat i was just fuckin pissed at the time...BUT NOW SHE JUST CALLED ME AND TOLD ME HE DIDNT SHOW UP LMGDAO!!!!!!! oh and i guess i should say she doesnt know my true feelings about him coming i said it was cool all along she thinks it never botherd me

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whew, good thing you didn't kill her.