I have a question i've been meaning to ask..

i guess its more for the guys, but i'd love the women's opinions too. what do you all think of sex toys in the bedroom? or sex toys in general for that matter...is it a turn on, or a turn off, if a woman owns toys? would it gross you out, or intrigue you?

i guess a woman can own toys for when she wants to get off herself. i mean im not one to say someone cant masturbate

she can keep them in the bedroom, but hide em well. i dont need to see a floppy dildo on the nightstand.

and keep em away from me. i had a girl buy me a vibrating ring one time. i mean i ended up giving in, but at first i told her to use her dildo if she wanted vibration. the same girl seemed fascinated with the idea of the male g spot. i think her persistence was the reason we dont bump anymore

KaleoXxX said:

i guess a woman can own toys for when she wants to get off herself. i mean im not one to say someone cant masturbate

she can keep them in the bedroom, but hide em well. i dont need to see a floppy dildo on the nightstand.

and keep em away from me. i had a girl buy me a vibrating ring one time. i mean i ended up giving in, but at first i told her to use her dildo if she wanted vibration. the same girl seemed fascinated with the idea of the male g spot. i think her persistence was the reason we dont bump anymore

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lol i would think that a vibrating ring would be an interesting addition...

and not all toys are floppy dildos hehe

while we're doing it sex toys don't need to be there, but when shes alone its better she uses toys then someone else! but seriously, it wouldn't weird me out at all

KaleoXxX said:

i guess a woman can own toys for when she wants to get off herself. i mean im not one to say someone cant masturbate

she can keep them in the bedroom, but hide em well. i dont need to see a floppy dildo on the nightstand.

and keep em away from me. i had a girl buy me a vibrating ring one time. i mean i ended up giving in, but at first i told her to use her dildo if she wanted vibration. the same girl seemed fascinated with the idea of the male g spot. i think her persistence was the reason we dont bump anymore

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lmao yeah I'm with you no need to stimulate me any more I'm quick enough anyway.

i'm fine with toys it would be more intriguing to me than a offputting, as long as it isn't bigger than mine that is No but seriously a huge dildo would be intimidating to almost all men and unappealing. Also as long as the women is willing to use it in front of you or include you in foreplay than it's all good. I love pleasuring women (well woman to be more accurate) it turns me on.

I just got a vibrator for my woman the other and some more of them vibrating rings and durex gels and the sex just gets better ,highly recommended

sarah22 said:

i guess its more for the guys, but i'd love the women's opinions too. what do you all think of sex toys in the bedroom? or sex toys in general for that matter...is it a turn on, or a turn off, if a woman owns toys? would it gross you out, or intrigue you?

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sex toys are awesome,,it turns a man on to use them and a woman on when you use them,,,if the two of you are that comfortable with each other,,,,I've used battery operated on my wife,,while giving her oral,,,,I've used a nice rubber dick on her,,(not bigger than mine,,,,I only got 4 inches,,,but some girls like it that fat)while giving her oral,,,,it's cool to explore different things with someone you are totally comfortable with,,were both in our fourties and last week she asked if I'd like a threesome with her me and another woman we don't know of her pick,,,,she is totally not into girls,,but thought it may be cool for me,,,,and was wanting to try it just for the experience and for me too cummmpletely get off,,,,I was like Hella Ya!!!!!!,,,,anyway,,,like I said,,it's prolly all about the comfortability level you have with your partener

I don't have a problem with any of it and its a good thing because my girlfriend sells the stuff. They can be fun. Like HoLE said, its about being comfortable with each other, but a guy has to be pretty secure with himself be involved with it.

lol you guys are all thinking about rubber dicks...what about small bullet style vibes?

sarah22 said:

lol you guys are all thinking about rubber dicks...what about small bullet style vibes?

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lol,,,are you asking,,,,,or demanding

lol,,,,j/k Sarah,,,hey my nick is HoLE,,,I'm pretty open

HoLE said:

lol,,,are you asking,,,,,or demanding

lol,,,,j/k Sarah,,,hey my nick is HoLE,,,I'm pretty open

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hahaha asking! people are immediately associating sex toys with floppy rubber dicks haha. and while there are toys like that...not ALL toys are like that...

what if your girl came home with one of these?
http://www.theadulttoyshoppe.com/Head-Honcho-Stroker-SE957.htm

i saw one of these at the sex show here back in october. they're a jelly material sleeve, you put lube in it and, well. you guys know, i dont need to get into a graphic description haha. but the girl demonstrating these sleeves got me to stick my finger in it lol. i was the only one that would do it...it feels a little like the actual thing...that was the exact moment i knew that i could never have sex with a woman. sticking my finger in it kinda grossed my out a little bit hahaha

i wouldnt be able to cope with myself if i used one of those

you know those rubber doll deals? i wonder how those sickos clean those after theyve been "used". actually second thought i dont want to know because im sure the answer is "they dont"

Sex toys are fuckin awesome. As long as she doesn't try to get near me with that shit.

sarah22 said:

hahaha asking! people are immediately associating sex toys with floppy rubber dicks haha. and while there are toys like that...not ALL toys are like that...

what if your girl came home with one of these?
http://www.theadulttoyshoppe.com/Head-Honcho-Stroker-SE957.htm

i saw one of these at the sex show here back in october. they're a jelly material sleeve, you put lube in it and, well. you guys know, i dont need to get into a graphic description haha. but the girl demonstrating these sleeves got me to stick my finger in it lol. i was the only one that would do it...it feels a little like the actual thing...that was the exact moment i knew that i could never have sex with a woman. sticking my finger in it kinda grossed my out a little bit hahaha

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what if your girl came home with one of these?


then I guess we'd try it out,notice I said we would try it out,,hey if she want's to throw it on me and do the work,,I'm game,,like I said,,it's all about how comfortable you are with each other

Louis541 said:

Sex toys are fuckin awesome. As long as she doesn't try to get near me with that shit.

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see,,,your thinking dildo too,,,,and keep it away from my ass,,,,lol,ya I haven't had to worry yet,,but do you know how intense my orgasm is if she's likkin my ass and running her finger over my anal area while she's blowin me,,,,OMG,,,okay

KaleoXxX said:

i wouldnt be able to cope with myself if i used one of those

you know those rubber doll deals? i wonder how those sickos clean those after theyve been "used". actually second thought i dont want to know because im sure the answer is "they dont"

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lol why? whats so weird about sex toys? now with the dolls i understand, its hard to clean. but vibrators, and jelly sleeves, are not difficult to clean and i've talked to guys that LOVE them.

i find these responses REALLY interesting lol. the guys that i know think sex toys are a lot of fun haha. when i've mentioned to guys in the past that i own some, they're usual response is more like "sweet, can i watch?" lol or something to that effect. they're totally open to them...and want to play with them too...

Sarah, if you like toys, your best bet is to find a man that does, too. I've dated guys in the past that seemed - jealous and insecure, of any toy I might have. But my hubby - now, he loves toys, loves to watch me use 'em, loves to use them on me - well I guess he's as perverted as I am, but that's one of the reasons I married him. We take a trip to the Adult store every so often to find a new toy. So if that's what you're into, look for the same type of guy - he'll keep you happy.

Louis541 said:

Sex toys are fuckin awesome. As long as she doesn't try to get near me with that shit.

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again, assuming dildos! haha im willing to bet that the majority of girls who own toys, do not own a dildo or even a dildo shaped toy.

have you ever seen a girl get off with a vibe? or have you ever seen a *stoned* girl get off with a vibe? if not...buy your girl a vibe...haha. chances are you'll be impressed

DoeEyed said:

Sarah, if you like toys, your best bet is to find a man that does, too. I've dated guys in the past that seemed - jealous and insecure, of any toy I might have. But my hubby - now, he loves toys, loves to watch me use 'em, loves to use them on me - well I guess he's as perverted as I am, but that's one of the reasons I married him. We take a trip to the Adult store every so often to find a new toy. So if that's what you're into, look for the same type of guy - he'll keep you happy.

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yea, well, i own toys for a variety of reasons, one being that i dont date lol. but in the past when i've been talking to guys that i've thought about dating, its always been a major turn on for them. they've thought it was just awesome for a girl to be so, i guess experimental would be the right word. or open minded...

how many guys replying here are in canada? i wonder if maybe that has anything to do with it? maybe canadian guys are just more open to it...

I dont care and if there out in the open when you go over a girls house that pretty much means your not leaving without hitting that first.But if theres chains,whips and shit im taking the fuck off.