I Have A Huge Dilema.......

Okay so here goes, my B-friend has a cousin that he is VERY close with well he has renal disease he does dialysis 3 times a week, at the young age of 5 or six he got really sick kidneys shut down & his Mom gave him one of her kidneys, well that got him threw until now, the dialysis is just a little band-aid & is only buying him a few months until they find another donar well they want my boyfriend to be tested to see if he is a match. Well this means that he can't blaze for a month. He will not chance failing the test by using any products like those flush drinks & crap, because if he failed he could never live with himself.

SO........I am gonna pole this one,.....here is what I would like from everyone who replies. give me your answer and your sex e.g. (FEMALE or MALE)

Here it is.......Should I stop blazing with him?????

Damn thats a tough question... Personaly if it was my wife's family I would quit blazin for a month to help... That is if it was me that was going to be the donor. If I was in your situation I couldn't say that I would quit all together, but I defently wouldn't smoke around or be around her stoned... I know how hard it is to quit smoking when someone is getting stoned around you! So I guess what im saying is it depends on you... Its not a easy decision to make! Wish you all the best of luck! Peace

it is hard to find matches. close family members have the best chance for a match. i am trying to get a new kidney myself. dailysis sucks. thefood you can & can't eat is the hardest for some to keep under control. no cholate. is the hardest for me. if it would help him to stop smoking for that month i would say yes.go to your local dailyisis ward talk to the nursesask questions like what is the life expecticy of a person on dailysis. if i rember right its half compaired to some one not on dailysis. dailysis is very hard on the body. male. a ne kidney would mean no more renagel pils for him at evey meal. those are horse pills. ihave to go today for my treatment. i go 3 times a week for 3.5 hours a treatment. the bad part for me is my mom has bad kidneys too. no livng siblins. on the brite side i don't have to get up in the midle of the night to go to the bathroom. the worst thing about dailysis is cramping. that is when they take off too much lquid.

I think if I was in the situation Id try to stop with him for the month for support....
Good luck!
Cheers!!

lets see on one hand we have: get high

on the other we have: human life

what's the question?

i'd quit all together just to support him. good man. to give up a part of yourself for another to live.

yeah I mean I'd be down to quit but I'd probably slip up a few times. the point is you should definitely try JUST to show your support for him and his cousin.

and im a MANN

Gerogetown final four baby!!!
yeah!!!!!

fdd sumed it up best human life or getting high.

my brackets gonna be Georgetown and Florida.

i dont see where your problem is but im gonna also go with georgetown comin out on top!!

Kryztina said:

I think if I was in the situation Id try to stop with him for the month for support....
Good luck!
Cheers!!

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yah im with her....it'd be too hard for me to watch someone else smoke...but also if it was me that had to quit, i wouldnt want my signifigant other to quit and suffer for me, just not do it in front of me.

Im not sure how all that works but I would def get on the phone and check. You can't gamble with your income. Maybe google?

blaz may you not jones. hope he is a good match it will lift his cousin's moral if he is. after he gets tested roll him a big fat cheech & chong joint . just for making it through the month. i have only 1 l0ose relitive that might some day beable to give me a kidney. the onlyproblem now is he is only 17 that is my son. we are real close i am closer to him then his mom and he lives with her.the poor kid olooks like me. just having support in this mater makes things better. iknow how you feel with that joint pain. i have had acl reconstruction on my knee some times the screws make my leg hurt mostly in the winter. if things get too bad just smoke when he isnot around then use alot of perfume to coverup the smell on you.

Has he asked you to quit?? That is one thing my wife has never done. There is a difference here, my wife doesn't smoke very often, like maybe 3x in the 12 years I've known her.
I guess you could do this noble thing to show support. If it means you have to use chemicals to stay pain free would he want you to?
My wifes Granny was on dialysis for all the last years of her life, and my wife used to take her for her treatments three times a week. Kidney matches are few and far between. Your boy friend is doing the right thing and so are you by staying off the chemicals. Why change? VV male

I would quit too for support... Also what if he ain't a match and they ask you to be tested? At least then you will be clean already. Peace

i'm pretty sure having a body part removed falls under the category of disabled. you will have no problem recieving money as long as he has been paying his taxes thru employment.


don't ambulance people wear seat belts? just wondering.