Hung out with a old friend today..

Bublonichronic said:

I notice that hanging out with friends is expensive, food/drink, activity... Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one thinking " fuck, 8$ for a 16oz beer?!, I'm never goin to the bar again!" But in order to be social u kinda have to pay the $, or you look like a bum...IMO hanging out is to expensive! Ahha, a burden I can do without...

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yeah never connect with people if you'll end up in a year losing everything just for hanging out with them. no one bums but why not just hang without spending? unless of course thats what the crowd your with is all about.

silasraven said:

yeah never connect with people if you'll end up in a year losing everything just for hanging out with them. no one bums but why not just hang without spending? unless of course thats what the crowd your with is all about.

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seems like noone is cool just smokin/drinkin watchin tv anymore, and I don't have much spending cash at this point, so even going to a movie can feel like alot.. Shit, I can hardly afford cable...and unfortunately, no one is interested in growin or Mj in general, other than smokin for free, which never is "free" to me..

did you ever leave the friend with a hey i might see you in the future , then again i dont know if i'll ever see you again. people like security when they have faced life without it. i understand the whole grow and smoke thing. the friend might have the means to do stuff but its the same old well you'll be here for a good minute then i wont see you for a while. that just puts someone into the "well whats the point" . more like having to pay cable, what about intellect? what if that person doesnt fit the standard you are? are you more likely say nah i dont want to hang out with again for a while because you didnt say something intelligent or because you didnt spend on books? life is very much like i dont like your standards. that and allot of people are less likely to think about futures and how thye can save money for when they dont want to watch cable but actually go to places they have seen in pictures when they are 30 or so with a kid.