how wrong am i?

ONEeyedWILLY444 · Dec 3, 2008

thatboygood said:
I'm going through a moral crisis and more... I was with my girlfriend of 2 years up until june of this year when i found and confronted her about emails she had been exchanging with another guy. in the emails they were making plans to go to concerts and out for a drink... anyway... i ended up keeping tabs on her emails until enough was enough and i confronted her about it one night. things went bad and needless to say, the relationship ended and she moved out... days later when i spoke to her she seemed happy and like should could give a shit about what happend. but maybe i was reading too much into it. weeks went by and she said she wanted to be just friends and went on to talk about dating and crap. i told her i couldnt do that with her and couldnt be just friends cause that was some hard shit to have to hear... we hang out a time or two more and then we end up arguing about the breakup and she says she broke up with me cause she isn't sexually attracted to me... so thats some fucked up shit to hear. we dont talk for months then i hear from her out of the blue... calls me crying telling me how much she misses me and wants to be with me. dispite my best instincts... i go to her and comfort her... she tells me she is on meds for anxiety and so much has happend and she misses me. we start hanging out again... she says she wants to earn her way back into my life... i begin to let her... more weeks go by... i'm at her house looking up guitar tabs and i see a dating website on her history... i go on to find out she has a profile... and a screen name... and at this point she is acting kinda distant with me all the sudden... so i go into self protection mode and decide to act on my instinct. i sign up for an account and pose as another dude... with a fake pic... i act like the biggest tool on the planet and she ate it up... ended up sending me nude pics... saying "oh i'm friends with this guy and he wants way more than i do" and blah blah blah... basically telling this "dude" i made up that she wanted to bone... i talk to her like this for a few days... finding out all kinds of crap about how she really felt about me. i ended up telling her today that it was me all along. i feel like such a piece of shit for doing that to her... but i just had to know... i dont feel any better for having done that to her but i also feel like i saved myself pain in the long run. she told me she never wants to see me again now. and that the was the lowest that i could have done. that it was entrapment... and all that...
so... how big of a piece of shit am i?...

is that a flux capacitor

Louis541 · Dec 3, 2008

Honestly, what I would of done, is take the nude pics of her, find her new boyfriend's house, and put them all over her neighborhood. To top it all off, send them to her mom, mail them around to friends, post them on the net. Do whatever it takes to feel better. Than again I am a spiteful asshole.....

Bookworm · Dec 3, 2008

Louis541 said:
Honestly, what I would of done, is take the nude pics of her, find her new boyfriend's house, and put them all over her neighborhood. To top it all off, send them to her mom, mail them around to friends, post them on the net. Do whatever it takes to feel better. Than again I am a spiteful asshole.....

watch the local elementary school kids start a black market for the nudes from the telephone poles.

Louis541 · Dec 3, 2008

Even better! It would be great to find out there her new boyfriend's son has nude pics of her he beats it to.

Optimo · Dec 3, 2008

dude... ur sneaky hahaha

I dont think id even try that with my gf.. even if i was suspecting cuz id just rather not know...

I had a gf who thought it was perfectly okay to suck dick for purp..

but karma came in the form of warts an herpes so im pretty pleased with the outcome...

I Myself am clean an herpe free!! but that bitch has to rot in her grave with herpe sores eating her body

hahahahahaha

Pwnd

Bookworm · Dec 3, 2008

Optimo said:
Pwnd

win.

frenchy · Dec 3, 2008

thatboygood said:
looks like the general opinion is that i'm kinda a douche but did what i did for a reason... which is somewhat justifiable. She said all the right things, did all the right things, and said more than anything she wanted to be back in my life (which was at the end of October.) I slowly let her back in and ended up opening up. It felt like we were together again. But when I started persuing her like she was me she withdrew, bigtime. and of course I felt that and based on our history (her emailing a guy behind my back in June), I was concerned and I did the whole fake account thing. Seems like she wants it all... me as a friend and to bone other dudes. fuck that. Its jacked she led me back into talking with her under false pretenses. She wants me when SHE wants me. If she would have told me she just wanted to be my friend I would have told her to get lost. the whole thing is fucked.
would be nice to get a woman's opinion on this.. Also she never has never met her dad and has never had a stable father figure in her life... I think that kinda messed her up and wont allow her to get close with just one guy... who knows.. Hard to move on when you love someone so much though. What sucks is i HAD moved on... then got sucked back in..

Fuck that!!You're not a douche.Your guys lived together for a couple of years.She is supposed to be "your best friend" and more.You have every rights to find out what is your partner doing if you have any doubts.Ive been married for 8 years and started dating my wife 10 years ago,if i had any doubts i would find a way just like you did to find out.All im saying,if you have doubts or find informations leading to doubts then you got to find out.You can't waist you time in a relationship with someone that doesn't really give a flying fuck about you!There is way to many good girls out there for that! :blsmoke:

flatrider · Dec 3, 2008

Optimo said:
dude... ur sneaky hahaha

I dont think id even try that with my gf.. even if i was suspecting cuz id just rather not know...

I had a gf who thought it was perfectly okay to suck dick for purp..

but karma came in the form of warts an herpes so im pretty pleased with the outcome...

I Myself am clean an herpe free!! but that bitch has to rot in her grave with herpe sores eating her body

hahahahahaha

Pwnd

exact same thing as me

SlikWiLL13 · Dec 3, 2008

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Optimo said:
I dont think id even try that with my gf.. even if i was suspecting cuz id just rather not know...

WHERE THE FUCK ARE YOUR BALLS!!!! your trying to say that ignorance is bliss? you would rather be cheated on and not know than deal with the pain of knowing? you my friend are a coward and i pity you.

Bangers999 · Dec 3, 2008

I have said before and will say again some chicks in life hav very selective memories, this means they remember what they want to remember, if you go through your life as a man thinking woman are not as sneaky as hell at times you are a fool to yourself.
When you have a girlfriend you are dealing with someone that.
1-When young wants to look older.
2-When older will try to look younger.
3-will always dye her hair, (why) leave it alone its nice like that.
4-will wear wonder bra to make it look like she has bigger boobs.
5-will wear high heels to make her look taller.
6-will wear fake eye lashes to make them look bigger.
7-will wear make up to make her nicer looking.
8-will have major mood swings (when she has the painters in)
9-she will want you home when your out to much, even working.
10-will want you out when your home to much.
11-when asked the Q whats wrong the A will always be nothing.
ok they are all not like that but most so looking back over that list id rather not bother.
You are well rid of one bad girl dude, she was a bad apple.

thatboygood · Dec 3, 2008

I appreciate everyone's input, opinions and support. Pretty damn awesome. I guess technically she wasn't "cheating" on me because we were never "officially" back together... but she was telling me for the last month that she wanted to be with me... I did what I did to protect myself before I got too involved in another relationship with her... Wanted to find out where her heart really was. I feel that if her intention was to really be with me, she would have told this "guy" i made up to FUCK OFF. But she didn't. I'm no better for doing what I did, but at least I protected myself. Even if it fuckin hurts...

Bangers999 · Dec 3, 2008

You never done anything wrong apart from find out now what you would have found out some time, people who cheat like that always get caught, she got caught.

bobtokes · Dec 3, 2008

shes got no respect for you the least she could have done is told you she wanted to see another guy
she strings you along so she can use you when things go wrong for her shes selfish
dont waste your life DITCH THE BITCH...............

shimmer · Dec 3, 2008

Hey man, at least you have asked yourself if you did something wrong. What you did seemed the right thing. Oh, and just because she didn't find you sexually attractive, doesn't mean there aren't plenty women who will. I wouldn't have felt good about doing what you did, but if my gut demanded it.... Whatthefuckyagonnado?

Louis541 · Dec 3, 2008

What you should do, is take her back, get her all warm and cozy in your bed, fuck her brains out, do this for about a week, keep tabs on her, and as soon as you're sure that she has NOWHERE to go at that point in time (No boyfriends behind your back, no parents around, doesn't sound like she is the type with friends so that's not an issue.) and kick her to the fucking curb. Chances are some horny guy will pick her up, maybe you'jj get lucky and she's gets aids.

kingtrip · Dec 4, 2008

ONEeyedWILLY444 said:
is that a flux capacitor

Good catch...lmfao!!!

Trip :leaf:

Optimo · Dec 4, 2008

Slikwill13-- Honestly.. its not that id rather not know that shes cheating on me.. Id rather not be so sceptical and accusing of her cuz if shes cheating on me im gonna know cuz shes horrible at lieing lol not because im gonna go an pretend to be someone else an con nude pics outta her.. not saying that what he did was wrong... u deserve to know.. but I trust my girl an im not the accusing type. And if she was cheating ...

Who cares theirs like how many more girls in the world..

A TON.

an theirs this hottie lil blonde ive been wanting for awhile sooooooo

I win either way

Green Funk · Dec 4, 2008

Don't waste your time on girls like that, no matter how attractive they are. Dude, think about how much worse it could have been for you had any other situation played out...

My friends and I would call this girl an "Aspiring Skut"

mr.x007 · Dec 4, 2008

asy it again, should have been better in the sheets! am i the only one to realize this?

SlikWiLL13 · Dec 4, 2008

Optimo said:
Slikwill13-- Honestly.. its not that id rather not know that shes cheating on me.. Id rather not be so sceptical and accusing of her cuz if shes cheating on me im gonna know cuz shes horrible at lieing lol not because im gonna go an pretend to be someone else an con nude pics outta her.. not saying that what he did was wrong... u deserve to know.. but I trust my girl an im not the accusing type. And if she was cheating ...

Who cares theirs like how many more girls in the world..

A TON.

an theirs this hottie lil blonde ive been wanting for awhile sooooooo

I win either way

okay, sorry i questioned your balls. i misunderstood you, it sounded like you would rather not know.

how wrong am i?

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