how to have your parents trust you again after getting busted?

ZIRCHxWORLD · Apr 17, 2008

hey all. so yesterday my mom found my marijuana plant growing in my closet. she is hella pised and is threatening to send me to rehab (lol) and i want to re-gain her trust and convince her i don't smoke or grow any more (even though i really do). so if you guys have any advice or any simlair stories please respond, thnx.

also plz dont post messages like "dont smoke, dont get caught" cuz i do smoke and i wont quit. keep toking.

buster7467 · Apr 17, 2008

I am not going to tell you to stop smoking but i will tell you to quit growing in your parents house. That is totally disrespectful. Just wait till you get old enough to get your own place.

ZIRCHxWORLD · Apr 17, 2008

well im 17 and im not gonna move out when im 18. but i want to grow so im not sure if i should do indoor or outdoor. so many advantages of doing it indoor but i want to grow without getting caught, help!

caliboy80 · Apr 17, 2008

hey, explain to her that what u are doing is not that bad, u are not hurting anyone, u are not a dealer, loads of people do it as a hobby, the reason it is ilegel in america is cause the oil companys wanted u to use there raw materials instead of hemp, and the world is suffering cause of that.
Try and come to some sort of aggrement about the situation. :joint:

panhead · Apr 17, 2008

What your asking is how to hide your smoking better from mom & dad,not how to earn their trust,the way you earn trust is to respect other people & to respect their beliefs,you knew your parents were against smoking weed yet you grew in their home,this is highly disrespectfull,you know your parents do not wish you to smoke yet you continue to smoke,again highly disrespectfull,you lie to your parents about you not smoking any longer,once again big time disrespect.

Before you figure out how to earn your parents trust back you'll first need to understand what giving respect is,most likely this is not something you'll understand until later in life,until then your screwed on the trust tip,trust is hard earned but easily lost.

ZIRCHxWORLD · Apr 17, 2008

thats what i was thinking. cuz i know you get in alot more trouble for dealing. and i do not deal to anyone. so i figured instead of buying off un reliable people and getting shit mersh i would grow my own and not tell anyone. but my parents can get in major trouble for having marijuana plants in the house right?

does anyone know what happens if you are caught with marijuana in the state of arizona?

BIGMIKE13 · Apr 17, 2008

ZIRCHxWORLD said:
well im 17 and im not gonna move out when im 18. but i want to grow so im not sure if i should do indoor or outdoor. so many advantages of doing it indoor but i want to grow without getting caught, help!

it would have been better not to post your age.. :roll:

and dont grow at your parents house !!!!!!!!!! they will go to jail with you.

panhead · Apr 17, 2008

ZIRCHxWORLD said:
well im 17 and im not gonna move out when im 18. but i want to grow so im not sure if i should do indoor or outdoor. so many advantages of doing it indoor but i want to grow without getting caught, help!

I would bet that this post is going to get you all the help you need,admitting your underage will get you banned as soon as a mod see's your age.

caliboy80 · Apr 17, 2008

ud be ok as long as u dont have a lot of plants. be carefull

pakalolo808 · Apr 17, 2008

you get in some major shit. idk for one plant, but u can get ur property seized. majorly not cool to grow on ur parents land. guerilla grow if u must. but just wait

fdd2blk · Apr 17, 2008

ZIRCHxWORLD said:
well im 17 and im not gonna move out when im 18. but i want to grow so im not sure if i should do indoor or outdoor. so many advantages of doing it indoor but i want to grow without getting caught, help!

i had to dust it off. :mrgreen:

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ivebeencanceled · Apr 17, 2008

Growing up is probably your best bet.

ganji2 · Apr 17, 2008

Lol, What a hardass!

hom36rown · Apr 17, 2008

fdd2blk said:
i had to dust it off.

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jeez, how are ppl so dumb? hmmm ya think a site about growing marijuana might be 18 +?

Chiceh · Apr 17, 2008

ZIRCHxWORLD said:
hey all. so yesterday my mom found my marijuana plant growing in my closet. she is hella pised and is threatening to send me to rehab (lol) and i want to re-gain her trust and convince her i don't smoke or grow any more (even though i really do). so if you guys have any advice or any simlair stories please respond, thnx.

also plz dont post messages like "dont smoke, dont get caught" cuz i do smoke and i wont quit. keep toking.

I can't believe you are asking advice how to lie to your parents, come on. You were growing in their house. They have every right to do what they do and be pissed at you. If you don't like it move out. Be honest with them and yourself, honesty is the best way to go no matter how harsh the truth is. Honesty builds trust and respect. :mrgreen:

AphexTwin · Apr 17, 2008

buster7467 said:
I am not going to tell you to stop smoking but i will tell you to quit growing in your parents house. That is totally disrespectful. Just wait till you get old enough to get your own place.

I agree. I'm 20 and still live at home, I've wanted to grow for a while but have decided to wait till I get my own place. I'm not afraid of getting caught it's just my parents have asked me not to grow but don't mind me smoking a few joints around the house. They just don't want the place to get raided and growing or dealing is a good way of making that happen. I've tried to grow a few times before but have recently decided to wait till I move out, I'll have years to do it then.

If you are moving out next year just wait it out, time will fly by.

ChillyLizard · Apr 17, 2008

I've been lurking around this site for a while now but never posted. I've gotta respond to this one, though. Just so I understand you...You want suggestions on how to win back your mother's trust so you can play her for a fool? Here's a novel idea, show her some respect. Don't lie to her and don't grow in her house. Give us all a break, kid.

pakalolo808 · Apr 17, 2008

honestly, what did this guy expect people were gonna tell him? how could he not see that he was gonna get flamed?

humbo jumbo · Apr 17, 2008

Yah man, it is not a good idea to continue to keep growing. Get your act together, thats possibly one of the most disrespectful things you could do to your family.

If I was your parent I would boot your ass onto the streets. Maybe that would give you a better perspective of what you are taking for granted.

SouthernOregonOrganic · Apr 17, 2008

panhead said:
I would bet that this post is going to get you all the help you need,admitting your underage will get you banned as soon as a mod see's your age.

BURN!!

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