how to get a man (no homo) lol
Just to test if you meant what you said, answer this.
If you had an Uncle Moe and he asked you which of these three famous old time singers is your favorite would you say:
A) Frank Sinatra, Moe
B) Mel Torme, Moe
C) Don Ho, Moe
If you want male seeds the only advice I can offer is purchase a couple packs of regular beans. I have never had a pack of regular beans without at least two males out of ten and normally it has been three or four. With several packs you should be able to find at least one, if not two or three, quality males.
Unless you have a specific strain you want a male from I would suggest that you purchase from Reeferman (Reeferman Seeds) or Shantibaba (Mr. Nice Seeds) lines. Both have very high quality lines and I have received male beans from each that produced very impressive plants.
If you want to breed using Black Widow (the original White Widow), from Mr. Nice Seeds, you would want to use a male in your cross, it passes on the most preferable traits of the strain, so it would be a male well worth seeking out.