my former dealer of 10 yrs is not selling anymore.
Your former dealer, as he's your former dealer he has nothing to compete against if he's no longer "SELLING" as you put it.
Why don't you ask him? 10 Years is a long time, I'm sure he's your buddy and wouldn't mind giving you a few links... there's nothing wrong with being cheeky, it's either a simple yes or a no.
Personally I don't care, if I see someone and the instinked just kids in, I know a fellow smoker... I can just tell. Don't be afraid to go & ask, but obviously never give your money out to strangers unless you see the goods first.