Well, they're that vibrating, shaking thing they do when they have it...the gush of wetness, etc...if she's dry, or you find the need for lubes and your NOT going anal, then...umm...how should i put this...you need to master foreplay, 'cause without it your gonna get a bad rep fast, women talk, when were good, they tell, when were not, guess what...they publish....actually, if the chicks young she'll probably talk that much if your good to, but as they get older they get smarter and realize when they say the goodshit they're bf are listening, and then they want some.......