Hey people

darksmoker said:

i'm calling troll caise if this was true you;d know it was called oxycontin not "oxy cotten"......trust me when you got a loved one dying...you remmber everything,....so bullshit, sorry troll.

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Hmmm, as a fairly long time lurker I'd not call DSB a troll mate. I've never seen him head down this path.

I'd think with the death that occurred around yourself recently (assuming you're actually from Joplin), you'd have an ounce more compassion to just leave it alone or STFU.

@DSB - Sorry to hear this mate. I've had to go through this more than once. Keep yourself well first and foremost. If you falter, it does them no good. I can attest to this with much embarrassment on my part.

psari said:

Hmmm, as a fairly long time lurker I'd not call DSB a troll mate. I've never seen him head down this path.

I'd think with the death that occurred around yourself recently (assuming you're actually from Joplin), you'd have an ounce more compassion to just leave it alone or STFU.

@DSB - Sorry to hear this mate. I've had to go through this more than once. Keep yourself well first and foremost. If you falter, it does them no good. I can attest to this with much embarrassment on my part.

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i guess thats true...my bD....but i'm messed up and feeling sorry for myself....forgive me...

edit: it was fucked upp of me to call troll on this...my bad op...i know how tough this is...

Sit down with your pops and discuss all the good times you had together. Make him laugh, laugh with him. Thank him for everything he done for you.
be strong and make it a positive experience for the both of you. Celebrate his life.

i agree completely with the poster above me...make him laugh, enjoy and celebrate his life...please do this.

dsb call me
and marlena has been trying to call u

nevermind
stay strong dsb

On the inside, he is undoubtedly happy that you are going through this ordeal by his side.

Hang in there DSB

If you truly love something you must let it go.

Aww dsb sending u luv sweety, everyone is here to support u , sorry ur going thru this

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F A B said:

i know i aint got no pull with you but could u please clean up dsb thread
even my post
only positive post?

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Luv u can edit ur own posts , i removed a few but the only person who said anything mean besides u has said sorry.
Keep it positive luv, this thread is about dsb right

april said:

Luv u can edit ur own posts , i removed a few but the only person who said anything mean besides u has said sorry.
Keep it positive luv, this thread is about dsb right

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made my blood boil when i seen it
it was postive till guy made it unpositive

that sucks man. in a way I know how you feel my mom and dad are killing themselves. moms with food and not taking care of herselfshe has heart issues and diabetes and pops with his smoking and booze.I think they want to die before I do so they are doing everything they can to make it happen. my bro died of cancer when he was 12 and sis in a car wreck when she was 18 . so recently my mom has a heart attack and dad broke his neck years ago both are disabled now my younger bro is autistic he cant do much or at least wont. so I sold my house and moved back home to take care the family i'm now the sole provider. sometimes I get in these slumps and get depressed because I cant start a family of my own. I feel like i was robbed of any future. your not alone out there peace for now.....smoke

thanks for all the kind words...and guess i misspelled some things in my first post...

darksmoker said:

i'm calling troll caise if this was true you;d know it was called oxycontin not "oxy cotten"......trust me when you got a loved one dying...you remmber everything,....so bullshit, sorry troll.

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i do wish i was trolling....

DSB

Have as good an Easter as you can have.

WW

Winter Woman said:

DSB

Have as good an Easter as you can have.

WW

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i am ..some of the family is coming over....hope you also have a great day

racerboy71 said:

i know it sucks and it's super hard to deal with d, but you have to remember that death is simply a part of living, something that happens to each and everyone at some point in time.. hopefully later than sooner, but at the same time not something that any of us has any sort of control over for the most part, when it's our time to go, it's our time to go...

i feel bad, i really do, as i'm sure it suck's sitting back and watching the person you care about wither into nothingness and be in constant pain and know that there's really only one end result..

just keep your head up d, remember the good times that you had with your dad, memories are all we have once they are gone m8..

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Once again, he's managed to put into words what I wanted to say...

I lost my grandfather to lung cancer; I hated that his voice was so raspy, I couldn't make out what he was trying to tell me and he was too weak to write requests as well. Jus thoping that what you are doing for them is helping...

I'm not so good with the whole grief thing, or advice with pain Pills as I'm having trouble with them myself- but you know my inbox is still open for you any time you just want to vent or rant.

I'm sure just you being there means alot to him. Contact is so important.

I'm sorry if I'm not offering much advice or solace but *cuddles* take what you can x

xKuroiTaimax said:

Once again, he's managed to put into words what I wanted to say...

I lost my grandfather to lung cancer; I hated that his voice was so raspy, I couldn't make out what he was trying to tell me and he was too weak to write requests as well. Jus thoping that what you are doing for them is helping...

I'm not so good with the whole grief thing, or advice with pain Pills as I'm having trouble with them myself- but you know my inbox is still open for you any time you just want to vent or rant.

I'm sure just you being there means alot to him. Contact is so important.

I'm sorry if I'm not offering much advice or solace but *cuddles* take what you can x

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and what sux it started in his lungs and hes never smoked....