You may not know it yet but ur boyfriend just turned u on to what will be your next addiction, growing. You will learn all kinds of things while enjoying the process of growing ur very own weed. Before long everything you see will give you ideas on how you could grow pot with that. Go to newbie central and read the stickies. Basically just read everything here. RIU is full of everything you need to know. Do keep in the back of ur mind not to take everything as fact though. Every once in a while there may be a dumbass given out bad information as fact so be sure to doublecheck anything that may sound funny to ya. Welcome to RIU!