Have you ever been betrayed?

ChronicObsession

ChronicObsession

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I sit around my house eating LSD on some saturday nights, and I get paranoid that my own wife would betray me somehow... but nope :)

Being betrayed fucking sucks!!!!!!!
Ella Jean said:
Well, this is just a random question...Just wanna know if you guys have also experienced being betrayed, especially by a friend?What did you do?How did you cope with it?:-(
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Winter Woman

Winter Woman

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My advice is cry your heart out as if they died (in a sense they did)

Promise yourself to drop them from your life. If you can't do that, then put them in the outer rim of your circle of friends.

Remember you are not alone. This person can be replaced.

Note: Next time listen, people tell you what they are. Like... when a man tells you he is no good, he is telling you the truth, listen.
 
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Kodank Moment

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Betrayal? I welcome it. But then again that's because I put it past no one to be capable of it. I assume at one point everyone important will take advantage of my trust. I've accepted that and embraced it. It's better, I feel, to find out what kind of monsters people can be sooner rather then later...at least you found out now and not when you needed them most. I suggest you embrace your feelings. Confront the person directly to say your piece...and move on and try and be more careful about your next friend. I've lost friends of many years over their petty attitudes...their fault. Not mine.

Above all else? Pick your head up and smile knowing your a better person...cause in the end...you are a better person.
 
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tokentomhancock

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ive learned just not to fuly trust someone someone i thought was family needed help and when he asked and i did he went to the cops now im facing 2 years and have run up 20000 in legal bills this year so im know how you feel
 
Winter Woman

Winter Woman

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Wow! Family too. I hope your family is shunning them. Karma is a bitch and they will get theirs, either thru you or someone who has nothing to lose (the worse kind).
tokentomhancock said:
ive learned just not to fuly trust someone someone i thought was family needed help and when he asked and i did he went to the cops now im facing 2 years and have run up 20000 in legal bills this year so im know how you feel
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tokentomhancock

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he will get his someday i know that cause i wasnt the olnyl one he screwed he screwed a few bad mother fuckers who have sense then became my best buddies so ill let nature take its course and keep reading the news paper
 
Dizzle Frost

Dizzle Frost

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i agree with kickin stones and severing ties for life.....the best thing about shitty people is they are teachers of good lessons...spend enuf time around bad people and you will become educated in the game of life quickly

most people lack integrety these days...good people always have a place in my world...god can sort the rest out
 
Louis541

Louis541

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Carne Seca said:
By my bishop. He outed me to my parents. It was THE worst experience of my life. At the time I only told one of my brothers and swore him to secrecy. I'm glad I did. He was my advocate and my protector during a very difficult time. He died last month. I miss him very much. :(
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At first I wasn't sure if that was gonna be a pope fellatio joke.

I also thought this thread was about a money problem at first, but now I'm not so sure. What's goin on OP?
 
Ella Jean

Ella Jean

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Louis541 said:
At first I wasn't sure if that was gonna be a pope fellatio joke.

I also thought this thread was about a money problem at first, but now I'm not so sure. What's goin on OP?
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it was that there is this one good friend of mine...we've been like friends for years..ive trusted her like you would trust a real sister...and then one day, ive discovered that she betrayed me...i won't elaborate..but this is something that has really hurt me...now i do believe what my mom always tells me...never trust even your closest friend for they might end up as someone who will hurt you the most...:(
 
Sealight

Sealight

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Ok, so i'm in france, livin in a host family, i get with this chick at my party, 25 friends over, i spend almost my whole night with her, being really nice. We fuck and shit, telling me how we should date afterwards, we kiss, I was really drunk and she put me to bed. I wake up, find out she fucked my host brother after i passed out. I'm really close with my host bro too. Ouch.

Moral of this story: Fuck Bitches, Get Money.
 
Timmahh

Timmahh

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if you dont trust, you wont hurt. the only reason it hurts as much as it does, is because that faith and trust one thought they had, has been broken. the harder the degree it is broken, the more the feeling of betrail, thus more hurt, and anger.

you doing fine. anger and even some resentment is a normal emotion related to feeling like you have been betrayed. once your done feeling pissed off, you ll feel a bit bad (if your a good soul which it sounds like you are Ella Jean), for feeling angry towards this person you care about. but that too will pass. once it does, life will start to swing to the normal again.

sometimes you will NEVER understand what makes some people tick.
 
Ella Jean

Ella Jean

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Timmahh said:
if you dont trust, you wont hurt. the only reason it hurts as much as it does, is because that faith and trust one thought they had, has been broken. the harder the degree it is broken, the more the feeling of betrail, thus more hurt, and anger.

you doing fine. anger and even some resentment is a normal emotion related to feeling like you have been betrayed. once your done feeling pissed off, you ll feel a bit bad (if your a good soul which it sounds like you are Ella Jean), for feeling angry towards this person you care about. but that too will pass. once it does, life will start to swing to the normal again.

sometimes you will NEVER understand what makes some people tick.
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thank you so much for that such inspiring words...:)
indeed, trusting so much also means a greater deal of hurt...but you're right...it is time to move on and just take this one bad thing to serve as a good lesson in my life...time to leave the past behind me...and start living my life again:)
 
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Kodank Moment

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Sealight said:
Ok, so i'm in france, livin in a host family, i get with this chick at my party, 25 friends over, i spend almost my whole night with her, being really nice. We fuck and shit, telling me how we should date afterwards, we kiss, I was really drunk and she put me to bed. I wake up, find out she fucked my host brother after i passed out. I'm really close with my host bro too. Ouch.

Moral of this story: Fuck Bitches, Get Money.
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Wrong. Moral of the story? French girls put pussy out like trash on Monday's. France here I "cum"...zing!
 
Dr.Nick

Dr.Nick

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Sure have. What did I do about it? Not much really, I spent a long time trying to figure out just what had happened and wasn't very successful. I knew one of my two best friends had lied to me, but I had no way of figuring out which one of them it was. All I knew was that one of them was currently lying, one was currently telling the truth and previously they both may have been covering up the truth, for years maybe. I'm not sure how long exactly. I knew what I wanted to believe, but I had absolutely no way of figuring out which was which. I haven't spoken to either of them in years. What Winter Woman said is spot on. It's like my two best friends died. That's how I feel about it, I still remember them fondly, but they're dead to me now.

Dr.Nick
 
Ella Jean

Ella Jean

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Dr.Nick said:
Sure have. What did I do about it? Not much really, I spent a long time trying to figure out just what had happened and wasn't very successful. I knew one of my two best friends had lied to me, but I had no way of figuring out which one of them it was. All I knew was that one of them was lying and one was telling the truth. That really sucked. I knew what I wanted to believe, but I had absolutely no way of figuring out which was which. I haven't spoken to either of them in years.

Dr.Nick
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that was really something that sucks.. having one of your best friends lie right on your face can be really unforgivable.. i wouldnt blame you if you havent spoken to either of them...im also currently not answering the msgs that are coming from that friend of mine who betrayed me (though im trying to reconsider not calling her a friend anymore)...
 
Dr.Nick

Dr.Nick

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It's rough. You can find other friends, but the ones you've had for years really are irreplaceable. When they do something like that, it leaves a hole. The terrible part is, I know it's entirely possible that one of them never did betray me, but with no way of knowing, I have to say goodbye to them both. It's unfortunate, I can't say I trust any of my friends as much anymore...
 
Ella Jean

Ella Jean

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Dr.Nick said:
It's rough. You can find other friends, but the ones you've had for years really are irreplaceable. When they do something like that, it leaves a hole. The terrible part is, I know it's entirely possible that one of them never did betray me, but with no way of knowing, I have to say goodbye to them both. It's unfortunate, I can't say I trust any of my friends as much anymore...
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it really is...you know, that feeling like a part of you was ripped off...ive always treated her like a real sister...and the most terrible thing is that i will surely miss those times when we have great laughs together...but damn...that's life...and people come and go...:(
 
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