Guys Buying Girls Drinks

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grow space

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I hate girls who ask drinks and actually dont give a damn about you-just the free booze.
Thats why i never do it...Only sometimes, when i sense some vibes with my penis lol
 
Wikidbchofthewst

Wikidbchofthewst

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Another question just occurred to me....guys, do you care if OTHER guys buy your woman a drink?

I was wondering this that night, but I didn't want to ask any of the girls' boyfriends/husband because I didn't want to get them in trouble :razz:
 
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HairyBalls

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Buying a girl a drink at a bar. YES they are interested!!! Drinks are expensive at bars. Unless you're rich and can genuinely just buy someone an $8 cocktail just because you're in the mood, guys most certainly are interested.
 
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Wikidbchofthewst said:
Another question just occurred to me....guys, do you care if OTHER guys buy your woman a drink?

I was wondering this that night, but I didn't want to ask any of the girls' boyfriends/husband because I didn't want to get them in trouble :razz:
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Yes it would bother most guys. If you buy the girl a drink and the two of you are hitting it off, and someone else comes up and butts in asking to buy her a drink? That second guy who butted in is an asshole. To me, if the girl accepts the drink offer from him, in my past exp, the girl and the guy are both pricks and I can quit wasting my time. Doesn't apply to me much. I dont go to bars much anymore. I'm 26 but just not my thing too much these days. Interesting question tho hopes this helps shed some light bongsmilie
 
Stoney McFried

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It would bother me if some girl tried to buy my man a drink, that's for sure.:evil:
But bars are something I got out of my system.I haven't been to one in a few years.The hangover the next day is just NOT WORTH the buzz you got that night.And drunk sex is usually awkward and disappointing (whiskey dick),so why not just get high? One day, if pot is ever legal, I think it would be great to have "pot bars" where stoners could hang out together.Comfy chairs, mellow music,some munchies you don't have to feel bad about eating.
 
tnrtinr

tnrtinr

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Your friends are desperate; they are young and in relationships. Going to a bar for them is more that just access to free booze; they get to feel wanted, admired, and sexy from the attention they receive from men and conversely the jealously from other women. They know that accepting a drink is accepting that guys affection, attention, conversation, and possibly cockmeat-sandwich. They may think they are playing the guys; but I promise you one thing - They will go home sad, depressed, feeling worthless if they did not get a drink offer from a single guy and the one that gets the most drinks goes home feeling like the victor (and it is not because they skated on a bar tab; it because they know all the other ladies are jealous of the attention that they receive).

I am SOOOOO glad that I met my wife in college (if I bought you more than one drink you were coming back to my place and I was bruising your kidneys) and never had to go through that scene as an adult. It is downright depressing to see and hear stories of the single life.
 
Stoney McFried

Stoney McFried

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"I'll have the cockmeat sandwich with the bruised kidneys, please."
LMAO.
tnrtinr said:
Your friends are desperate; they are young and in relationships. Going to a bar for them is more that just access to free booze; they get to feel wanted, admired, and sexy from the attention they receive from men and conversely the jealously from other women. They know that accepting a drink is accepting that guys affection, attention, conversation, and possibly cockmeat-sandwich. They may think they are playing the guys; but I promise you one thing - They will go home sad, depressed, feeling worthless if they did not get a drink offer from a single guy and the one that gets the most drinks goes home feeling like the victor (and it is not because they skated on a bar tab; it because they know all the other ladies are jealous of the attention that they receive).

I am SOOOOO glad that I met my wife in college (if I bought you more than one drink you were coming back to my place and I was bruising your kidneys) and never had to go through that scene as an adult. It is downright depressing to see and hear stories of the single life.
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DWR

DWR

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your right.. if i buy a girl a drink its cuz im interested or she's with us.. and she aint got no cash ;)

no seriously.. im not the type that walks up to a girl and asks her what she wants..

Not my thing at all.... Not my thang... mostly there assholes that do that.... like jerks.. thats how i imagin them.. pricks..

^^ rofl.. sorry.. but ya.. im with ya wikid.
 
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redivider

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i'll buy a girl a drink if at least 15-20 mins of something resembling a conversation has happened,... i see nothing against it, why not let a girl know your interested if you are?? in fact you can tell a lot bout a girl by what she drinks, but that's a whole other conversation...

but i usually drink where there's 3 dollar wells.... i never buy anyone anything if it's expensive... fuck that...

go out there on the side walk and give a stranger a bj if you want drinking money- that's what i always say...
 
tnrtinr

tnrtinr

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Stoney McFried said:
Mmmmmmfff!
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That is all you took out of the original post?

I thought that I had a wonderfully eloquent examination of the situation that you presented sprinkled with some colorful words to keep the minions satisfied; and you only comment on my splash of color? :confused:
 
Stoney McFried

Stoney McFried

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Who can be eloquesnt with a mouth full of cockmeat!!?:mrgreen:
tnrtinr said:
That is all you took out of the original post?

I thought that I had a wonderfully eloquent examination of the situation that you presented sprinkled with some colorful words to keep the minions satisfied; and you only comment on my splash of color? :confused:
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uriah

uriah

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I can't say I have ever bought a girl a drink as an opener, I have always been happy to get the next round, or even buying a round for a group I have met and feel like entertaining one of the flock. Usually after some kind of connection/sign of interest is made. To me, "can I buy you a drink" is too cliche and ambiguous to be a real conversation starter if you are interested. "Whats you sign" is a beteer starter because at least you will have her laughing and if she laughs your half way there. I like the idea of a girl buying me a drink though as a starter, it does step out of the traditional norms, and in an age of womens equality I respect a woman that has the confidence to be equal in a courting/dating atmosphere not just professionally.
 
Wikidbchofthewst

Wikidbchofthewst

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tnrtinr said:
Your friends are desperate; they are young and in relationships. Going to a bar for them is more that just access to free booze; they get to feel wanted, admired, and sexy from the attention they receive from men and conversely the jealously from other women. They know that accepting a drink is accepting that guys affection, attention, conversation, and possibly cockmeat-sandwich. They may think they are playing the guys; but I promise you one thing - They will go home sad, depressed, feeling worthless if they did not get a drink offer from a single guy and the one that gets the most drinks goes home feeling like the victor (and it is not because they skated on a bar tab; it because they know all the other ladies are jealous of the attention that they receive).

I am SOOOOO glad that I met my wife in college (if I bought you more than one drink you were coming back to my place and I was bruising your kidneys) and never had to go through that scene as an adult. It is downright depressing to see and hear stories of the single life.
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For the record, I don't give a shit whether or not a guy offers to buy me a drink. It usually just makes me feel awkward unless I've been talking to him all night.

And those girls were so hammered I don't think they could even keep count of the drinks they had, let alone who got the most :wink:
 
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gogrow

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Wikidbchofthewst said:
Another question just occurred to me....guys, do you care if OTHER guys buy your woman a drink?

I was wondering this that night, but I didn't want to ask any of the girls' boyfriends/husband because I didn't want to get them in trouble :razz:
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it all depends on how they go about it.... there is a respectful (and innocuous) way to buy a girl a drink, and it goes for a girl that is with someone, or alone... trying to use the drink as a pussy-passcard is definitely the wrong way.... but to use it as a complement and then leave it alone is a completely different approach... and has a different result:blsmoke:
 
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gogrow

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BeavTek said:
Only if I brought ruffees, Just kidding:mrgreen: I know thats horrible but I'm stoned :joint::hump:
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we used to buy rufees by the handfull.... but those were some damn good pills... we didnt waste them on getting passed out ass... rather take them:mrgreen:

I did have one or two unscrupulous friends though:neutral:.... but to vouch for their character, one is serving a lengthy prison sentence, and the other bangs smack and is well on his way to prison:lol:. Speaks volumes for people like that:roll:
 
bleezyg420

bleezyg420

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Wikidbchofthewst said:
This thread was inspired by my Saturday night, going out drinking with the girls. I had absolutely no money, so at first all my drinks were bought for me by my friends. Then guys wanted to start buying us drinks. But here's the thing...

Personally, when a guy offers to buy me a drink, I take it as...an expression of interest (not really sure how else to put it). To me, accepting the drink expresses interest BACK, or at least encourages the guy. So I just don't feel right accepting drinks from guys I know I have no interest in, or if I have a boyfriend at the time. Because it feels like leading them on.

The girls I was with that night ALL have boyfriends (one has a husband) and one has a kid with her boyfriend. So they are all very unavailable, and I know none of them had any intention of cheating. They just wanted the free drinks, and they thought these nice guys just wanted to buy them for them, just because.

So my question to the guys is...what DOES it mean when you buy a girl a drink? If you knew a girl had no interest in you, or had a boyfriend, would you still spend your whole night buying her drinks?

And to the girls...when a guy offers to buys you drinks, do you accept even if you have no interest?
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i would only buy a drink for a girl if i was either a. interested or b. my friend. I dont understand the same thing wiki, my girlfriend always accepts guys drinks and I GET RAGGGGEEED!:twisted:
 
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