Growing bud and your significant other

me and my gf have been dating for a little over a year she used to be a big stoner but now she doesnt smoke at all. half the time she hates that i smoke but the other half she is fine with wtf! and its about the same with growing i dont know what to do with her. at first she didnt care about either but now she is worried that im gonna choose weed over her. but im still growin! hopefully for awhile