growing and women

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how hard is it to have a grow and pick up grils? I am good at both but wonder if i need to get just a grow house and a seperate house for me to live in? Or could i just lock up 2 rooms saying i have roommates and bring very few people over? This may sound dumb but i just want yalls input. Stories would be fun too. LOL

Do what I do use a buddy's place LOL. Man go ask any lawyer and he will tell you 99% of pot busts are because a girlfriend ratted you out. No lie! I had a buddy and he would go out, get drunk and pick up a bitch taker her home show her the grow. What an asshole, he got his ass kicked and got ripped because of it. Not saying don't do it but maybe say you live in your mom's root cellar or by s shagin wagon.

You could bring her over here....we could tag team her and smoke our faces off, than post the pix here, ya that's the plan man can't fail
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Never introduce anyone to your grow that you can not trust with your life, in short. The reason I say that - if any that you show and trust talk and you get busted.. they will fuck up your life to the tune of epic proportions. If you locked rooms and said you had roommates, you'd have to control the smell 100% of the time - as another thought, if she's smoked mj before and/or knows what some grows smell like.. your filtration will have to be flawless or your cover will be blown.

Never. Never. Never. Never.............and Never. I can count the people that know I grow on one hand, and that is probably too many.

Before I really got into growing, I worked in the wine industry. I was in California for a training session hosted by a wine company that I was affiliated with at the time.
I was in a little town in Mendocino county, widely known as a major hub for marijuana production in cali. After a nice meal at a local farm to table restaurant with the hosting wineries owner/winemaker we went to a local dive bar just down the street from the restaurant. We were drinking beer and playing pool, and there were all of these beautiful women with all of these scruffy, scrubby looking guys, enough so that you would take note of it. Me and some of my colleagues, started to postulate about the odd pairings. Eventually my friend Dave went and asked the one of the bar tenders what was going on; the bar tender promptly explained that they were "grow hoes". We all had a good laugh, coped some premo herb off of one of the guys, and still laugh about it till this day.
Really no substance to this story, just a funny anecdote that I thought I would share with the community.

good story thanks

Twohearted said:

Before I really got into growing, I worked in the wine industry. I was in California for a training session hosted by a wine company that I was affiliated with at the time.
I was in a little town in Mendocino county, widely known as a major hub for marijuana production in cali. After a nice meal at a local farm to table restaurant with the hosting wineries owner/winemaker we went to a local dive bar just down the street from the restaurant. We were drinking beer and playing pool, and there were all of these beautiful women with all of these scruffy, scrubby looking guys, enough so that you would take note of it. Me and some of my colleagues, started to postulate about the odd pairings. Eventually my friend Dave went and asked the one of the bar tenders what was going on; the bar tender promptly explained that they were "grow hoes". We all had a good laugh, coped some premo herb off of one of the guys, and still laugh about it till this day.
Really no substance to this story, just a funny anecdote that I thought I would share with the community.

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Lol, I laughed at "I am good at both".

From a female prospective, never, never show a girl your grow. They would totally tell on you, I say this because i know what we are like. Only one person knows I grow. Lucky for me I have a big house a very controlled system. If I thought anyone else knew about what I did, I'd shut down tomorrow. I think it's even harder for a female grower because how would I ever be able to deal with some dude if he decided he wanted to see what I had going on. Good thing I'm not into picking up guys and bring them home,lol.

yeah i figured i would just do super good on smell and keep the doors locked and say my roommates where in their rooms. I would have my room on the other side of the house. maybe keep a pipe on the table if they wonder about smell just say i bought some good personal stuff. I mean never tell any one just limit anyone in my house. If i ever get serious get another house. and grow in the old one

this is a big no no. You grow right? This is the momentarily sacrifices we make. Untill we can afford to have a second house to just live in....

Yea dude I'm good with the ladies as well but just know from a past life that to be successful you need to play low key. The amount of friends and girls you have will never compare to your freedom. I see girls from high school sometimes and have to really bite the bullet to not take them home. I guess if you value what your garden does for u and are a dedicated grower bringing in any strangers could possibly have huge repercussions.

What a pack of man whores, lol

Every person that knows about your grow increases your chances about 10% of being discovered...take her to a motel.

hereshegrows said:

What a pack of man whores, lol

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How is that man whore-ish? Am curious, it's not like any recommended a 'spare' 6 bedroom with multiple roommates (see: live-in friends with benefits) .. not yet, anyway.

I understand the question completely, I had to deal with this in my old place in another state.
Being having two places is not financially smart and can raise more suspicions then quell, I just used my basement and put a lock on it. No reason for anyone to want to go down there. never had an issue with someone wanting to go down.
If no basement to grow in then I would just keep any room that the grow room is in locked. My very first grow room was in a second bedroom and I just kept that locked and the only issue I had was my dad wanting to go in there to look because he was just curious at what my place lokked like being he had never bene there before., I just told him the landlord was wanting me to keep it locked because of ceiling damage caused by a bad roof, which actually happened to my master bedroom the past spring so he believed me. But having grow rooms accessible, even when locked, on the main floor can be risky when you allow people who do not know you grow in your home. The number one rule is not letting anyone, even friends or family know about your grow so that rule must be obeyed under all circumstances.
A second home can draw unwanted attention. I had a friend that did this and the neighbors at the grow home got suspicious immediately and within 6 months he moved it back to his place. Unless you got real cash to play with and can afford a nice secure place in an area where neighbors are not or can not be noisy it's a no go. I also had a friend that did a different activity in a country home he rented to do those deeds in and it was broken into and robbed within a year. Not only did he have to quit his activity there but now there was a person or group of people that knew what he did/does.
If you grow in any decent quantity to where you can make a good living you don't want to fuck with that and this can keep one more isolated or anti-social. I dealt with this for years but eventually I just secured everything well and took care of noise and odor issues, went stealth sort of speak. It worked fine. Like I said one time dad incident and one time I had a drunk girl wander off and attempt to open a grow door but nothing bad. If you host any type of gathering you have to have your rooms away from the bathroom.

good info these are all the things i was thinking of

get some insense to cover smell or one of those automatic air freshener sprayers ,quiet fans ,possibly a big ass cavas painting infront of the door so knowone knows the doors there. would depend on the size of your grow tho ,mines only little and easy to hide
not sure why a one night stand would need to go into other rooms anyways

I started seeing a girl while i had a very large closet grow had a blanket on the wall to try and cover the light a lil. but every morning at 7 the room would get a glare from the one wall. It took her two weeks of sleeping together to ask me about it. Needless to say she knew all along never showed her and she never asked after that. Now married to that girl and she loves me growing just gotta find the right girl that likes gardening too . But number one rule to growing don`t tell anyone no matter how much u trust them.

lickalotapus said:

get some insense to cover smell or one of those automatic air freshener sprayers ,quiet fans ,possibly a big ass cavas painting infront of the door so knowone knows the doors there. would depend on the size of your grow tho ,mines only little and easy to hide
not sure why a one night stand would need to go into other rooms anyways

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Agreed re: needing to go to other rooms (other than the bathroom perhaps) Should be hittin' it on the living room floor as soon as you unlock it.

I've been in my current living situation for 3 months or so.. Literally had to give up bringing girls home.. I had a good thing going with this girl prior to moving, but as soon as i moved and she couldnt come over.. things quickly fell off.. Shitty.. money doesnt buy happiness but it definitely attracts better looking women