GROWER IN DILEMMA: How to confront a possible fellow grower?

spoonfucklol

spoonfucklol

Well-Known Member
Fuck dude if he is really your friend ask him about it....if it was my buddy i would be like hey dude let me in on this shit we can take it outdoors and split it. Big yeild




But...Indoor shit is a really touchy subject You would have to be real tight with him
 
D

DaGambler

Well-Known Member
just wait till he ain't home... den rob his bitch ass... then sell the shite back to him... then rob him again !!!
pretty soon you'll make like a million dollars of this one Mutha Fugga !!!!!

but fer real, curiousity killed the cat. but, if you trust him, absolutely with your Freedom and your Life... then show hime -your- personal grow. and ask no questions. if he shows you his, so be it. if not, that's his choice.

it would also freak me the heck out if someone i didn't tell straight up asked me if i was growing... i guess i'd be glad that they did, so i could fix what i was doing wrong. but i might also break camp and stop growing for a while. like dat one guy said, its a touchy subject, like asking, "dude, could i maybe have sex with your wife ?" :D
 
OregonMeds

OregonMeds

Well-Known Member
He probably is, but if he wanted you to know he'd have told you. Respect his boundaries.

If you tell him you're growing then you're breaking rule number one.
 
"SICC"

"SICC"

Well-Known Member
prnkstr said:
I would say his buds all look the same so that would be another question to ask lol
Click to expand...

haha fa real, but i like what fdd said, if he wanted you to know, he would say so, people are way too paranoid these days, and panhead that was good too, he might close up shop and because of you never grow again, plus, if he smokes you out so much and hooks you up, why put that in risk haha
 
Cr8z13

Cr8z13

Well-Known Member
Leave the man be. You want to talk to growers? You're doing it now, only with thousands more than one dude that probably wants to be left the fuck alone.
 
gotot

gotot

Well-Known Member
look, if your facing felony charges just keep your mouth shut. if he gets in a jam who do you think the next person he's snitchin on is? you, he doesn't even know you like that. and plus, what if he starts tellin people you grow? now you've got to watch your shit
 
gotot

gotot

Well-Known Member
DaGambler said:
just wait till he ain't home... den rob his bitch ass... then sell the shite back to him... then rob him again !!!
pretty soon you'll make like a million dollars of this one Mutha Fugga !!!!!

but fer real, curiousity killed the cat. but, if you trust him, absolutely with your Freedom and your Life... then show hime -your- personal grow. and ask no questions. if he shows you his, so be it. if not, that's his choice.

it would also freak me the heck out if someone i didn't tell straight up asked me if i was growing... i guess i'd be glad that they did, so i could fix what i was doing wrong. but i might also break camp and stop growing for a while. like dat one guy said, its a touchy subject, like asking, "dude, could i maybe have sex with your wife ?" :D
Click to expand...
forreal, if you dont rob him, he'll rob you
 
Landragon

Landragon

Well-Known Member
Not that it hasn't been said yet, but stop all this nonsense now. Yes he grows. He's "told" you that numerous times, while also telling you he isn't "telling" you. Do not force it. Like cr8z said, you are here, right now, asking growers how to ask questions to a grower. LOGIC.

So what do you want to know? You've got some great minds responding to this thread. And quite frankly, their pot looks better than your friends.
 
T

timeout

Well-Known Member
Put up a poll--I'll bet 90% say don't ask. You need to find a pill that takes away unwarranted curiosity. What you should be thinking is, "don't tell me. What I don't know can't hurt my friend." If he is a friend.
 
S

SlikWiLL13

Well-Known Member
fdd2blk said:
maybe he doesn't want you to know. that's why he hasn't told you. you could show some respect and leave it all alone. just a thought.
Click to expand...
panhead said:
I dont understand your desire to take away from your friends privacy,if he wanted to share his grow experience he would,no matter how you approach him more likely than not your going to make him uncomfortable at the very least,hell it might catch him off guard so badly he might kill the grow op & never grow again for fear you'd blab to friends & further jeapordize his security.

Here's another thought,you start making subtle hints like wearing fox farms t-shirts or talking about your grow,now this guy spends the rest of his time thinking damm,if so & so figured it out what do my neighbors know,what do the police know,who has he told ? i know he talked to his wife about my growing & i know she told everybody in her family,and all her friends.

If i were you i'd show the man respect & stick to talking about things you enjoy as friends,what you propose has the possibility of making him paranoid or killing the friendship.
Click to expand...

best advise from the whole thread. if someone approached me like some of these folks are saying to. you would be deleted from my contacts and i would make sure no one in the county sold you a bag ever.

nosy motherfuckers are just as bad as snitches.
 
seymourxxx

seymourxxx

Active Member
If your friend is growing and is as paranoid as I am - I'd deny it AND stop giving you the free weed that raised your suspicions AND maybe take down or relocate my grow AND be generally pissed that I let my guard down so much that someone caught on to me. Leave him be, enjoy the smoke, and share with him when you harvest some of your own.
 
misshestermoffitt

misshestermoffitt

New Member
Think of it this way, if someone asked you "are you growing" what would you say? I would deny it to the very end.

First rule of grow club, don't tell anyone that you grow.
 
misshestermoffitt

misshestermoffitt

New Member
well telling people here isn't the same as telling people in "real life"

I live in a gossipy little town. All it would take is for 1 person to know, they'd tell a few people, then they'd tell a few people, then pretty soon there would be less people that didn't know than what did.
 
S

SlikWiLL13

Well-Known Member
SmokeyMcSmokester said:
I break that rule all the time....yeah I know its stupid..
Click to expand...
didnt you say earlier that it bite you in the ass too?

ill admit, i have a couple friends who know. but these are people i would literally kill for and would do the same for me, as much family as anyone i share blood with.
 
SmokeyMcSmokester

SmokeyMcSmokester

Well-Known Member
well the people that know are my best friends...I just dont want them to know anymore now..everytime they come over its like "lets see the girls!!" and one of the dumbasses thinks he can grow a plant...HERE..Im like "I barely have enough room for my shit ya fuck"
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Top