i think much of the ideas connected to christianity today are actually very bad rules to base one's life around. same goes with judaism and islam. the whole idea of worshiping is seems needlessly demoralizing to me, and the moral system that has grown from these traditions is quite contradictory at times
traditional monotheism can make sense to people that accept reality's face value as their ground of existence, but it is a step in human development that we should all grow out of
atheism is often the next step people find themselves in after following a mythic dogma. it allows for an essential regrouping of one's individuality, but if one stays too long in this stage the ego controls far too much of one's perception
the key is to include oneself as being part of the divine, but to also transcend the idea of personal identification. letting go of ownership and control, and accepting the core value of awareness itself, is an important phase we should all find if we ever hope to evolve as beings