Girl help again.. All help appreciated!

amrcngror

amrcngror

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high|hgih said:
She does like her drinks.. :p like how I met her was in highschool, and then recently like a month or two ago, I saw her at some party from an old highschool friend, and she was drinking and the very first thing she said to me AFTER YEARS was 'So Ian I just broke up with my boyfriend', and I was like "Oh really now? haha :D' then I made her burn these smileys in my arm with a lighter because I was really drunk, and me and her just hung out the whole time, and then I could barely walk and she just INSISTED that I put my arm around her, so I did.. Then like in this room she kinda like grabbed my hips and we just stared at eachother, as my legs gave out and I fell on the ground unconscience and barfed.

It was pathetic. But hillarious haha, I just I dont think she saw it as that obnoxious, she came back with me to my house where we smoked and I tripped balls.. I kinda embarassed myself there too.. was on the ground giggling, she thought it was kinda funny though.. I just mean after that I embarrassed myself pretty bad, I hope I've redeemed myself enough since then to make a move.. haha
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.....idk man i think you already got her your just too nervous, you need to just call her and do your thing..
 
high|hgih

high|hgih

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fair enoth, the peck on the cheek just made me lol tho.

id be carefull not to set yourself up for a big fall tho thinking shes the 1, move fast before she classes you as just a frend cus then its game ove
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Haha I didnt mean on the cheek, I meant on the lips, last time we were with eachotehr we were in my friends apartment, and there was one moment where she just looked at me in the middle of our conversation and we both just stopped talking, it would have been perfec tI should have just done it them. No friend zone, theres no such thing SHH!
 
dam612

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high|hgih said:
Aha! Thats perfect! I like your idea, when coffees in me, my anxiety goes out the door. I'll just tell her I'm picking her up, and then I'll just be like, lets get coffee or something.. Is buying it for her too weird? I'd think it is.
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nothing wrong with buying her a cup of coffee, tell her she can get you back next time
 
amrcngror

amrcngror

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high|hgih said:
Aha! Thats perfect! I like your idea, when coffees in me, my anxiety goes out the door. I'll just tell her I'm picking her up, and then I'll just be like, lets get coffee or something.. Is buying it for her too weird? I'd think it is.
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no deffinately pay shows your the man...
 
high|hgih

high|hgih

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.....idk man i think you already got her your just too nervous, you need to just call her and do your thing..
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I'll just see her tomorrow, I got really really fucked up this weekend and managed to completely lose my phone.. Terrible timing right?
 
high|hgih

high|hgih

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You guys are so helpful, I'm so helpless its rediculous. I always think girls are so confusing when really they are not at all.. Maybe.. Some of them are.. God dammit. lol
 
amrcngror

amrcngror

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high|hgih said:
I'll just see her tomorrow, I got really really fucked up this weekend and managed to completely lose my phone.. Terrible timing right?
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o man way terrible timming lol....but deff talk to her next time you see her i think just from the couple stories you told that you got her just your BOTH too nervous to make the first move
 
high|hgih

high|hgih

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o man way terrible timming lol....but deff talk to her next time you see her i think just from the couple stories you told that you got her just your BOTH too nervous to make the first move
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Man I really fuckin hope thats the case.. If its not I'm honestly gonna keep trying. I can kinda see it though, she is really careful of what shes saying to me it feels like.. Like she has a perfect pattern on hahas, and lols, so she doesnt use the same one too much, shes not too forward with her smiley faces, but she always tries to keep the conversation going.. I sooo hope thats the deal though that would be so amazing! :D
 
Winter Woman

Winter Woman

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Yes, you can take her to a pub. Not to some place with loud music (that would be defeating the purpose) that way you can talk and enjoy each other. This would not be an odd thing to do. You better be ready to go some place else after, too.
 
high|hgih

high|hgih

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Yes, you can take her to a pub. Not to some place with loud music (that would be defeating the purpose) that way you can talk and enjoy each other. This would not be an odd thing to do. You better be ready to go some place else after, too.
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:D thats what im talkin about lol
 
high|hgih

high|hgih

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Oh man, I think I'm getting closer. We're having the most in depth conversation right now about like life. YES! aha.. Shes fuckin mine. I apologize for my childishness in this thread, I'm just so bad with girls its unbelievable lol
 
april

april

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high|hgih said:
Oh man, I think I'm getting closer. We're having the most in depth conversation right now about like life. YES! aha.. Shes fuckin mine. I apologize for my childishness in this thread, I'm just so bad with girls its unbelievable lol
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OMG ur freaking adorable, don't ever change ;)

Just be U, ask her questions about her life and interests, goals, also what she looks for in a relationship, easy questions that answer sooo much, best of luck i hope it all works out muffin !!!!
 
BadDog40

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I'm about to give you the best advice you will ever get on the subject, what you do with it is up to you. Don't put the pussy on a pedestal! If you really like this girl THE BEST thing you can do is be indifferent towards her and the worse thing you can do is to let her know. I know it goes against everything you feel but it's true and the sad fact is some people never get this. Talk to her, be cool to her (but not too nice), hang out with her, tease her and make her laugh(big one) but never make a move and be aloof!

Here's the thing, she either likes you, she's not sure, or she doesn't. If she likes you and you make her wonder then it becomes a problem in her head that she must solve and SHE will work for it. If she's not sure about you yet your warm charming personality will reel her in, and since she doesn't know how you feel she will be comfortable and not run. If she doesn't like you in that way you haven't made a fool of yourself, you can remain friends and possible in the long run your warm charming personality will change her mind. We run from what chases us and we chase what runs from us. Some people may call this a game but sadly it's a game you must play in the beginning, especially if she is attractive. Now once you know what's up then you can open up, but until then, don't.
 
Winter Woman

Winter Woman

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April, You use the word muffin a bit. So, now, I can't eat a muffin without thinking of you. lol Don't worry I'm not a les.
 
Winter Woman

Winter Woman

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Actually, I think he's on to something here.
BadDog40 said:
I'm about to give you the best advice you will ever get on the subject, what you do with it is up to you. Don't put the pussy on a pedestal! If you really like this girl THE BEST thing you can do is be indifferent towards her and the worse thing you can do is to let her know. I know it goes against everything you feel but it's true and the sad fact is some people never get this. Talk to her, be cool to her (but not too nice), hang out with her, tease her and make her laugh(big one) but never make a move and be aloof!

Here's the thing, she either likes you, she's not sure, or she doesn't. If she likes you and you make her wonder then it becomes a problem in her head that she must solve and SHE will work for it. If she's not sure about you yet your warm charming personality will reel her in, and since she doesn't know how you feel she will be comfortable and not run. If she doesn't like you in that way you haven't made a fool of yourself, you can remain friends and possible in the long run your warm charming personality will change her mind. We run from what chases us and we chase what runs from us. Some people may call this a game but sadly it's a game you must play in the beginning, especially if she is attractive. Now once you know what's up then you can open up, but until then, don't.
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