Girl help again.. All help appreciated!

high|hgih

high|hgih

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This girl I've been talking to on and off for about a year now is really important to me, there is something very special about her.. Shes just so pretty and seems to have absolutely no quirks. I KNOW me and her would make an absolutely perfect couple. The thing is, I don't know if she feels the same.. I mean in all reality we don't know each other all to well, we're not like best friends or anything, but I'm always too nervous to talk to her, which is something else I'm not used to.

I told her that 'I'm always nervous around her and I don't know why, but I like it :p'.. She just changed the subject and told me about this dream she had that I was in. Which is always a good thing for girls to say lol she just always makes attempts to talk to me, and I do to her too. But I'm really really nervous.. Shes just like.. Someone please help me out.. I'm thinking about just kissing her.. I dunno if thats okay because I'm so nervous I'm gonna fuck it up if I even make a move. In all reality whats the worse that can happen right? We're both in our 20's which is why I think I'm being utterly ridiculous with this..

So should I just make a move? I mean a little peck kiss isn't too offensive right? I've went through this process so many times I don't know why I'm being like this.. I just really.. REALLY. don't wanna mess this one up, I'll be devastated :(

I thank whoever in advance for your input!
 
amrcngror

amrcngror

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maybe just let thinga take there course and see what happens......but then again fuck around fuck around and she aint gonna be around so maybe just say somethin to her man what can it hurt like you said...
 
Winter Woman

Winter Woman

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Just ask her for a date. If she says no, then you know where you stand and move on. If she says yes you better make it a really good date. Pressure is on.
 
high|hgih

high|hgih

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Just ask her for a date. If she says no, then you know where you stand and move on. If she says yes you better make it a really good date. Pressure is on.
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I like that one too :p thanks guys those were fast responses.. I'll tell you guys what ends up happening, I mean I'll see her in class tomorrow I'll ask her then. I'm not calling it a date though thats too cheesy.. I'll just be like, hey we should like go to the movies or soemthing sometime.. I just really hope it works, I've went through too many problems for it to be for nothing :p haha
 
high|hgih

high|hgih

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Is asking her to go to the bar too weird, for some reason I've yet to do that.. I don't think girls see going out and getting intoxicated as fun though as us unless theyre complete party animals, which shes not.
 
westhamm1132

westhamm1132

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A PECK ON THE CHEEK HAHAHHAHAHAHAHHA

but seriously if you dont wanna be a virgin all your life ya gotta make the first move, untill you get over the fear of rejection your not gunna get anywhere.

I think you rate her to high sayin she has no faults if you think like that you will think shes to good for you, you need to be thinkin fuk her if she rejects you and move onto the next 1.
 
high|hgih

high|hgih

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at least not the first couple lol
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Haha thats what I'm sayin :p

A PECK ON THE CHEEK HAHAHHAHAHAHAHHA

but seriously if you dont wanna be a virgin all your life ya gotta make the first move, untill you get over the fear of rejection your not gunna get anywhere.

I think you rate her to high sayin she has no faults if you think like that you will think shes to good for you, you need to be thinkin fuk her if she rejects you and move onto the next 1.
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Hey now.. I believe I'm far past the 'I need to get laid' thing.. The fact is most of my past girlfriends were pretty much just for sex haha, I've honestly only been in like 2 real relationships.. I'm just bad at them, I gotta be cute for a real one to work I think.. But I do like what your sayin, I mean thats normally how I think, I just never really try to make it worth while.. If thats my thought process I will end up with the wrong girl.. Shes the right one, I can just see it ya know?
 
dam612

dam612

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apparently movies are the worst first date, meet the girl at like starbucks or something and just chat for a while over some coffee if shes not the bar type. easy going conversations is key to relationships. i hope you got her number by now
 
westhamm1132

westhamm1132

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high|hgih said:
Haha thats what I'm sayin :p

Hey now.. I believe I'm far past the 'I need to get laid' thing.. The fact is most of my past girlfriends were pretty much just for sex haha, I've honestly only been in like 2 real relationships.. I'm just bad at them, I gotta be cute for a real one to work I think.. But I do like what your sayin, I mean thats normally how I think, I just never really try to make it worth while.. If thats my thought process I will end up with the wrong girl.. Shes the right one, I can just see it ya know?
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fair enoth, the peck on the cheek just made me lol tho.

id be carefull not to set yourself up for a big fall tho thinking shes the 1, move fast before she classes you as just a frend cus then its game over.
 
amrcngror

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yup somewhere where your both comfortable and you dont gotta worry bout some other dude tryin to fuck it up for you lol
 
high|hgih

high|hgih

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Oh yh and booze.....and maybe roofies
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She does like her drinks.. :p like how I met her was in highschool, and then recently like a month or two ago, I saw her at some party from an old highschool friend, and she was drinking and the very first thing she said to me AFTER YEARS was 'So Ian I just broke up with my boyfriend', and I was like "Oh really now? haha :D' then I made her burn these smileys in my arm with a lighter because I was really drunk, and me and her just hung out the whole time, and then I could barely walk and she just INSISTED that I put my arm around her, so I did.. Then like in this room she kinda like grabbed my hips and we just stared at eachother, as my legs gave out and I fell on the ground unconscience and barfed.

It was pathetic. But hillarious haha, I just I dont think she saw it as that obnoxious, she came back with me to my house where we smoked and I tripped balls.. I kinda embarassed myself there too.. was on the ground giggling, she thought it was kinda funny though.. I just mean after that I embarrassed myself pretty bad, I hope I've redeemed myself enough since then to make a move.. haha
 
metaltooths

metaltooths

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don't go out to eat either.
needing to take a shit while on a 'date' isn't cool, especially if she's gotta go..
 
high|hgih

high|hgih

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apparently movies are the worst first date, meet the girl at like starbucks or something and just chat for a while over some coffee if shes not the bar type. easy going conversations is key to relationships. i hope you got her number by now
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Aha! Thats perfect! I like your idea, when coffees in me, my anxiety goes out the door. I'll just tell her I'm picking her up, and then I'll just be like, lets get coffee or something.. Is buying it for her too weird? I'd think it is.
 
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