Finding a girlfriend who's 420 friendly

Not sure if this is against the rules or not, but I'll ask anyways.

I'm open and honest when it comes to dating. And I feel sharing that I smoke is important. I've had girls I've been seeing for several weeks break it off when I tell them. I've cut to the chase and told them before I spend a bit of money (last time I told her over coffee and she wasn't interested after) which was done, I was out my time and $8.

Any advice for finding a lady who is 420 friendly? I'm totally in the closet about smoking! I don't wear cheech & Chong shirts, 420 hats, etc. I work very hard to maintain the look of someone who doesn't smoke.

I've never had that issue, but besides meeting them smoking there isn't really a way . I mean you could always go for a less attractive female and just tell her to deal with it your a catch for her.. Where's the fun in that

I know people that keep their pot habit secret from their spouse. No way to live!

Seems like it would be easy these days to find what you want with all those dating apps. Can't you screen for "420" or even better "710"?

Why tell them on the first date. Have some fun. If you find one who is really in to you she will over look a little weed. None of us or them are perfect.

Bugeye said:

I know people that keep their pot habit secret from their spouse. No way to live!

Seems like it would be easy these days to find what you want with all those dating apps. Can't you screen for "420" or even better "710"?

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what is 710?
I was thinking 489.

710= mef

Bose said:

what is 710?
I was thinking 489.

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710 is code for dabbing. Key 710 into a calculator and turn it upside down to get it.

Yeah man i totally feel you. when i first met my girlfriend first year in college she did not smoke. But while dating I never really felt the need to share with her how strongly i felt about my medicating habits i kinda just smoked when i needed to smoke and if she was there id invite her which she usually politely declined. I would then proceed to medicate quickly and continue on with our day. I asked why she never seemed to trip on the fact i smoked so much and she said it was because i acted so casual about it and never let her have a chance to get mad, and the fact that I am more productive while medicated (doing essays and hw) which impressed her. Well long story short after two years she now has her med card and a tolerance as high as myself. It just takes time man but you have to show them early in the relationship its not something that drastically affects the way you are when you're together. But dont worry man keep doing you and you're gonna find the right woman for you.

Some people seem to think if you bring it up it's a big deal to you...even if it is you can't just bring it up at the date like "You blaze faggot?"

Just don't make smoking a make or break thing, ya dig?

If you focus on the person she is and don't worry about whether she approves of your smoking you may have a better chance of finding someone right for you. My GF doesn't smoke but she doesn't give a shit whether I do or not, shit she knew I grew a few days after we met, she helped me water my outdoor. It's not about finding a 420 friendly GF, it's about finding someone who's open enough to not freak over the fact that you're 420 friendly. There's a difference. Fuck those other one's that walked away because you smoke weed, they're not for you, next...

this threads reeks of pussy bitch boy nonsense

peace and love

I personally have fouund most girls I seem to meet at parties and through friends are into it. Have had quite a few sneak away with me for a toke, had a few green out, a few take off there shirts

qwizoking said:

this threads reeks of pussy bitch boy nonsense

peace and love

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lol, what would you recommend then? Honestly OP just needs to not give a shit if his girlfriend smokes or not, it's such a strange and arbitrary restriction to put on a potential dating pool.

qwizoking said:

this threads reeks of pussy bitch boy nonsense

peace and love

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Yeah. Good thing you came along with this valuable input and saved it.

well if you can lick that cooch like a master.......youd be surprised what they overlook when you can leave the inside of their thighs quivering insanely for an hour or two



just sayin

I had it in my Tinder profile. By the end it said something like "And I have a borderline weed abuse" Sounds a bit cuter in my own language, and it's obvious to the reader that the abuse part is a joke. That way you also get to ask, while chatting "The abuse part didn't scare you away?" and open up a convo about it.

VTMi'kmaq said:

well if you can lick that cooch like a master.......youd be surprised what they overlook when you can leave the inside of their thighs quivering insanely for an hour or two



just sayin

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these guys dont know anything about that

Crackwhores love drugs .... Spend $5 on her and get a gum job.

ChefJonathan said:

Not sure if this is against the rules or not, but I'll ask anyways.

I'm open and honest when it comes to dating. And I feel sharing that I smoke is important. I've had girls I've been seeing for several weeks break it off when I tell them. I've cut to the chase and told them before I spend a bit of money (last time I told her over coffee and she wasn't interested after) which was done, I was out my time and $8.

Any advice for finding a lady who is 420 friendly? I'm totally in the closet about smoking! I don't wear cheech & Chong shirts, 420 hats, etc. I work very hard to maintain the look of someone who doesn't smoke.

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what is the look of somebody who dosent smoke? I'm surprised your finding people who lose interest because you partake,I could see if it was meth or crack but weed is like smoking cigs for fucks sake

that sucks people r still freaking over weed

Recommend spraying your junk with Spider Mite killer or a pyrethrum.
Wear 4 condoms and gargle with Azamax. Just saying.
Trump's sister looks sketchy but loves the weed ......