I've always been too damn scared to include the crazy women in my life over the years in my grows, since my first wife threatened to call the police about my grow. I shut up, let her have her way until I could pull my huge, but way immature trees and destroy them. I vowed right then and there to never let anybody else in my life know about my growing. If you absolutely, know and trust the person AND most importantly know that you aren't going to cheat or do something equally stupid, I guess maybe, cause I've seen more than one good old boy go down by a pissed off gal. Ditto for you grower chicks and those crazy dudes in your lives, ha ha ha!!