Thanks for all the great replies guys.
I agree I dont want too much negative pressure forcing the smell out, but I've tried doing passive intakes before but they just didnt seem to do much.
I tried following a guide to create the proper amount of sqin of passive intake for the CFM of my exhaust but it would have required far too many holes for my practicality.
My biggest problem is this is somewhat of a stealth build so I can have a large cruise ship looking light beams coming out the side, lol, so thats why I figure I could have active in and exhaust out all nice and neat.
I think its safe to say putting the controller on the exhaust is my best bet, but as far as what size intake fan, would going with a 4" hurricane (to match my 6" exhaust 435 CFM) at 171 CFM work out or is that too far a differential now?