I never heard the weeks for bloom as being from the day of sexing.....until I've seen it a few times here in the last few days...... As far as I know, it's from the day you put into 12/12.......but it's a guesstimate anyway.....most indicas finish around 8 weeks from light cycle change and sativas can go 3 months and longer, with the hybids falling somewhere between....... Many of the strains aren't stabilized so you can have different pheno types that can have very different bloom lengths.... I get a better estimate by watching the stretch phase.........it stops about 40% of the way through the cycle.....so when you realize it's stopped, you're about 1/2 way home........then it's about finding the timing to get the taste/buzz/weight that suits you best.... My strain can be harvested 6 weeks from light cycle change but gives me a 'skitzo' buzz, at 8 weeks more of a baked type.......I've never tried going longer as sometimes too long can bring out a hermi response as the plant throws out a last ditch attempt to procreate.........
Be as patient as you can, pluck a small lower bud at different intervals, dry them properly and test them to see what you prefer......that's the important part......