It a little tough to control temp in a tent than in an a/c'd room, but the first thing id do is take the oscillating fan, and put it directly below your light and point it straight up at the bulb.
Heat rises, move the vent tube to the top of the tent and take the blower out of the tent. All machinery puts off heat, so take out the fans. Since you have no a/c in the tent, you have no choice but to run an air-cooled hood or lower the wattage, You say you did everything but I guarantee you didn't try using an air-cooled hood cause that lowers the temp about 8-10 degrees or more.
You either need a small a/c in the tent if you're gonna run bare bulb. Or you need an air cooled hood, that's it.