Dad's love letter to gay teenage son.

Winter Woman

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I saw this on Yahoo and have copied it all here. No one loves you like your parents do. ~


A letter written from a dad to his gay son Nate is going viral on the Internet because of its simple, hopeful message of love.

“I overheard your phone conversation with Mike last night about your plans to come out to me,” it reads. “The only thing I need you to plan is to bring home OJ and bread after class. We are out, like you now. I’ve known you were gay since you were six, I’ve loved you since you were born.”

He signs it “Dad” and finishes with a post script: “Your mom and I think you and Mike make a cute couple.”

The letter was posted on the Facebook page of FCKH8.com, an organization aimed at empowering youth through its snarky, gay-positive T-shirts, videos and activist campaigns. Fans often send in photos of inspiring items, from cakes topped with “I’m gay!” to jack o’lanterns carved with “FCKH8.”

“We get a lot of crazy stuff, so I almost didn’t look at it,” FCKH8.com founder Luke Montgomery told Yahoo! Shine about the letter, which was emailed to them by Nate, a Michigan high-school student. But when he did read it, he said, “I cried.”

He said Nate’s family did not want to share any information besides the letter itself. But the four sentences alone have been enough to inspire a bit of an online frenzy.

“It’s actually sad so many people are excited about it,” Mongtomery said. “And what I think that says is, one, it’s rare, and that’s really bad. And two, people are really craving this kind of reaction.” The website founder, a 39-year-old gay man who has a strained relationship with his Christian fundamentalist parents—especially since he drove around the country in a “Legalize Love” campaign in support of Obama last fall—was personally touched by the note’s simple, powerful message.

“It’s what I want,” he explained. “It’s what everyone wants.”

The national organization Parents and Families of Lesbian and Gays (PFLAG) also saw the letter and loved it.

“This letter is what PFLAG is all about—what child doesn’t want to receive unconditional love from his or her parents?” a spokesperson told Yahoo! Shine. “For some, like this dad, it comes quickly. For others, it may take time. But regardless of how or when they get there, parents need to have their kids’ backs, no matter what. So applause for Nate’s dad. And Nate? You better remember the OJ and bread!”
 

dimebong

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I don't think I could be this kind of dad but who know's. If every one was gay then you and I wouldn't be here right now. To me its just plain wrong and selfish for people to be this way. JMO
How is it selfish for a person to be attracted to the same sex with which they have no control over?

A gay man isn't attracted to women like us so why should he force himself to be with a women?

Homosexual behavior is a nearly universal phenomenon in the animal kingdom.


We humans are OVERPOPULATING this planet to a point where food is becoming a worry.

I think this world needs more of them.
 

moggggys

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bullshit propaganda created to try to infuse acceptance in gay relationships , perhaps if they stopped with the bullshit it would be so much easier to accept gays as just other people instead of making out its something to be in awe of or something to celebrate , you cant force the issue
 

LadyZandra

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WHy is it any different than loving ANY child who is different than expected? My Son and Daughter have Aspergers syndrome- it is very possible my son will NEVER have a 'relationship' with anyone... he likes girls, but is non-social due to his condition-- and it is very common for them to live alone their whole lives. THIS scares and hurts me WAY more than the though of him being Gay- at least then maybe he'd find someone to love and accept him as we do...and he wouldn't be alone when we are gone.
 

kinetic

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What do gay people actually accomplish besides being gay in a relationship? We are meant to reproduce not kill our kind? Okay you can help it.
So what you're saying is that its a choice. That it can be helped.
So let me ask you this, when did you decide NOT to be gay? You must have decided right? I mean you clearly believe someone makes a conscious decision to be a homosexual. So at some point you must have chose not to. When was it?
 

Omgwtfbbq Indicaman

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I don't think I could be this kind of dad but who know's. If every one was gay then you and I wouldn't be here right now. To me its just plain wrong and selfish for people to be this way. JMO
you'd be surprised how many gay men have kids, i know many who did, even some lesbians that did. richard dawkins had a video discussing this and gave a few darwinian reasons as to why something that would seemingly be selfdestructive to its own survival can still be carried on. [video=youtube;MHDCAllQgS0]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MHDCAllQgS0[/video]


if i had a gay kid, it would be pretty cool, i grew up in a huge family, i have 2 bisexual relatives, one of each gender (grand total of 15 of us not including parents) so i'd say its kinda in line with statistics, odds are if you fuck enough you are going to have a kid who is either homosexual or bisexual. not all gay people are fairies either, some are very masculine.
 

LadyZandra

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What do gay people actually accomplish besides being gay in a relationship? We are meant to reproduce not kill our kind? Okay you can help it. We are not over populated but soon to be underpopulated with all the gays
Can you say that of Heterosexuals?? they do not always marry or pro-create-- and they sure as HELL KILL their own kind-- all the time! Wife beaters/killers ABOUND in our society... as to mass killers and those who kill in a jealous rage over 'their woman/man"...

Haters will hate-- and no matter where you go, there's one staring ya in the face.
 

Omgwtfbbq Indicaman

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bullshit propaganda created to try to infuse acceptance in gay relationships , perhaps if they stopped with the bullshit it would be so much easier to accept gays as just other people instead of making out its something to be in awe of or something to celebrate , you cant force the issue
wow, alot of stupid in this one sentence.
 

Omgwtfbbq Indicaman

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What do gay people actually accomplish besides being gay in a relationship? We are meant to reproduce not kill our kind? Okay you can help it. We are not over populated but soon to be underpopulated with all the gays
leave any straight man home with your wife and kids (back when we were hunter gatherers) and your woman will be having his kids next. if they are gay, you can trust them to help your wife in kids in this kind of situation. ever think of that? derp? there's more to being social animals than just reproduction, but that seems to be the obsession.
 

Omgwtfbbq Indicaman

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alot of people experiment, its called being naive and curious. i'm certain for alot of the popluation, if social norms and biases weren't upheld, bisexuals would almost outnumber heterosexuals.
 

UncleBuck

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I don't think I could be this kind of dad but who know's. If every one was gay then you and I wouldn't be here right now. To me its just plain wrong and selfish for people to be this way. JMO
and this is how you earn a spot on my "to be trolled" list.
 

Omgwtfbbq Indicaman

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This is retarded. I wouldnt have a wife if I every one was gay. I guess in a way I would rather have a gay guy in my house with my wife than a straight guy. Cheating is very devilish and I don't see why people do it. If you don't want to be with your spouse divorce them and then fuck who you want.
i'm talking about pre civilization, when people were hunter gatherers. we moved in tribes, and ofter then were homosexuals in that tribe, so they could be trusted to gaurd the women while the men went out and hunted, or helped the women gather or watch over the children of the tribes with the women. this is just an explanation or reasoning as to how the gene can carry on in offspring (since they supposedly don't reproduce).
 

UncleBuck

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bullshit propaganda created to try to infuse acceptance in gay relationships , perhaps if they stopped with the bullshit it would be so much easier to accept gays as just other people instead of making out its something to be in awe of or something to celebrate , you cant force the issue
and we have a second winner.
 

dimebong

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I will be very honest here. When I was young I thought i would be gay but I grew out of it once middle school hit. I had a very good friend and we experimented but never penetration. So yes I did make a choice at 8 years old.
doesn't even count lol. kids do that all the time

Gay men do not receive any satisfaction from women. That's bisexuality.
So they can't happily go on with their lives and wives.

You do not choose how you feel whether you like it or not.
 

UncleBuck

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What do gay people actually accomplish besides being gay in a relationship? We are meant to reproduce not kill our kind? Okay you can help it. We are not over populated but soon to be underpopulated with all the gays
if you don't like gay people, blame the straight people. they're the ones who keep popping out all the gay babies.
 

moggggys

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wow, alot of stupid in this one sentence.
no , its called common sense

we have a gay son , hes a person not a category , not a statement of sexuality , a fuckin person first and foremost , to seek to express his a selection of sexuality is wrong , is a black man a man or a black man ? hes a man first and foremost and his colour is not what creates him as a person , exactly the same with our son , hes a person not something to be used based on his sexuality
 

Omgwtfbbq Indicaman

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doesn't even count lol. kids do that all the time

Gay men do not receive any satisfaction from women. That's bisexuality.
So they can't happily go on with their lives and wives.

You do not choose how you feel whether you like it or not.
if you could, serial rapists and pedophiles would be much more horrific.
 

Blue Wizard

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The Swedish study, published in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences journal, compared the size of the brain's halves in 90 adults.
Gay men and heterosexual women had halves of a similar size, while the right side was bigger in lesbian women and heterosexual men.
A UK scientist said this was evidence sexual orientation was set in the womb.
Scientists have noticed for some time that homosexual people of both sexes have differences in certain cognitive abilities, suggesting there may be subtle differences in their brain structure.

This is the first time, however, that scientists have used brain scanners to try to look for the source of those differences.

A group of 90 healthy gay and heterosexual adults, men and women, were scanned by the Karolinska Institute scientists to measure the volume of both sides, or hemispheres, of their brain.


When these results were collected, it was found that lesbians and heterosexual men shared a particular "asymmetry" in their hemisphere size, while heterosexual women and gay men had no difference between the size of the different halves of their brain.

In other words, structurally, at least, the brains of gay men were more like heterosexual women, and gay women more like heterosexual men.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/7456588.stm
 
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