Ok since we're on the rape topic.. long story short I went to a bar with some friends and saw a fine ass girl. Pretty face, nice body and good hygiene lol. Ok so we start talking and drinking she gets closer and I get closer. Friends decide to leave so I tell her I'm going home and she decided she wanted to go too. Well cool, score. Now on the way home in my car we get on the topic of drugs and I ask her what she messes with. She said beer,weed, xanax, heroin, and before I could say anything she said beer and weed again like I didn't hear the heroin part lol. So I ask, "did you say heroin". She said "why do you ask?" Lol then she says "I'd give you the best time ever if you have any"..
Ok so at this point there's two options, take her home and dick her down only for me to risk her having heroin on her and overdosing in my house which would come back to me as drugging and raping her.. or option 2 which would be kick her the fuck out which could also come back to me in some way because she got my number that night and I was the last person to talk to her. And if she got into any trouble that night, I'd be the first suspect. So what did I do? I pulled off to the side and said "bye felicia".. she was pissed but fuck that I have a good job and my shit is together I'm not gonna throw it away for a girl like that, no fucking way. But I was just thinking that night, how just because she's a girl and makes her own decisions I'd look like the bad guy if anything happened. So I do believe there are cases of rape where the so called "rapist" is innocent. Now I'm not defending sex without consent but damn it's not always what it seems. Sorry, had to get that off my chest lol