Calling all Parentless Kids

how did you guys get thru it
maybe this is the wrong subject to ask at this site but i wanted to ask people i could relate to

Mizuta3 said:

how did you guys get thru it
maybe this is the wrong subject to ask at this site but i wanted to ask people i could relate to

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Here's the best advice I can give you if you're a parentless kid, or a kid who's parents just don't give a shit about them. You'll be 18 soon enough; look forward to it!

Yeah. 18 doesnt matter.. already living on my own and taking care of self. the advice means a lot tho man

and if all else fails at least i have my girls i guess..

You're only consolement really comes from the fact that you yourself can be a great individual, you've got a world of opportunities and experiences ahead of you, and that you probably have what it takes to grow some stank tree's cause of the extra time you have to yourself.

I speak from experience

i got a job, worked hard, stuck with it, and eventually it started to payoff. wasnt easy, and alot of hard times buts its better than going down the wrong road....

Gota live the life ya love and love the life ya live.,.,forward on with life and think positive.,.,life is a bumpy foggy road but i love it so.,.,i grew up with my mom but she cant teach i how to bee a man.,.,she can only hope i stay positive.,.,when i was younger i was a badboy,dealt with drugs/guns/gangs/sho0tings ect.,.,but as i grew i found god/and lo0kd down and seen i had lil bros that would grow up as i did if i didnt show them bet'r than wat i knew so i reinvented iself ina forward positive way.,.,u just have to be a positive toaster not a boaster.,.,bless and forward

cbtwohundread said:

Gota live the life ya love and love the life ya live.,.,forward on with life and think positive.,.,life is a bumpy foggy road but i love it so.,.,i grew up with my mom but she cant teach i how to bee a man.,.,she can only hope i stay positive.,.,when i was younger i was a badboy,dealt with drugs/guns/gangs/sho0tings ect.,.,but as i grew i found god/and lo0kd down and seen i had lil bros that would grow up as i did if i didnt show them bet'r than wat i knew so i reinvented iself ina forward positive way.,.,u just have to be a positive toaster not a boaster.,.,bless and forward

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ALOT like me. Accept the god part, And im a rape baby so my lil bros the fave lol. Best advice to anyone is: You are your own person like it or not. Change for no one that dosent like you the way you are.

And nine times out of 10, If the parents arent there its there own fault/one of there faults.

Most of you can look on the bright side though. Sure its hard, But its better than being lied to about who your father is all your life...Then learning it from the guy that they claimed to be your father.

it sucks dude, theres no way around it...or no advice that will make you feel better. im 23 years old, my dad has been dead for 6 years...and he was a piece of shit anyways, and i haven't had contact with my alcoholic cunt of a mother for about 5 years....i've been on my own since i was 17. i put myself through college, and have supported myself the whole time.

im not going to lie, it's extremeely tough going through life without any guidance, advice, or a kick in the ass from your parents when your fucking up.

be strong, set goals for youself, and go after em. the only way your life will get better is if you do something about it and make it better.

im engaged so now i do have my girl's parents and family so thats great. you said you have a girlfriend? im sure her parents know your situation....reach out to them. it will help. trust me.

and remember dude, you can't choose your parents and family, but you can choose to have a good life. don't let having shit bags for parents keep you from being happy.

man i wuz 6 years old wen my dad left me and my 4 sisters and bros and mother in a homeless shelter he wuz a crack head and put us threw a lot and every now in then (ten years ago) he would cum around and tell us lies saying that he changed and he wuz sorry and then not even 1 week later he stoled from us and beat up on my mom a lot then and way b4 then but they way i forgot about it is do wut my mom said to do and listen to every thing she said and learnd i dont need no one excepted my mom no one ever gave us a helping hand. but after the years past i for got about it and that is why i HAD alot of hate thats why i am the way i am today. then i went to church found god and forgave my dad even tho he does not kno (mostly cuz i never talked to him like in ten years) and now im able to let the pass go.

hope this helps u in sum type of way. i dont kno wut ur situation is but mine wuz pretty bad

good luck and god bless