ATTN LADIES - is a fat dudes game good enough to hook a dimepiece??

Sunnysideup said:

I think a lot of chicks prefer fat men, I know I do. A fat man just looks nice and cuddly....makes you feel warm and safe...I love fat, chubby, round men...

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rambler420 said:

Please don't imply ALL women are after a wallet. We're not all like that.

A good personality, good hygiene, sexy smile and confidence will go a LONG, LONG way. I don't care if the guy's 300 pounds...if he walks around with a cocky attitude that they're the cat's meow, eventually, people (including me) are going to want to know what's so great about them.

Confidence is a very sexy trait. If you act like you're a good catch, someone's going to want to catch you.

Same with us girls. When I was my heaviest, I had no self confidence. It showed and no one was interested in me. Once I started losing a little weight, my confidence came back and it showed. Even though I'd only lost a little weight (enough for me to know, but not enough for anyone else to notice), my confidence showed through and all of a sudden a bunch of men were interested in me again.

Confidence, Confidence, Confidence. It's all about the confidence.

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tnrtinr said:

I say yes from experience.

I have literally gotten every woman I have ever wanted (I am not attracted to fat girls). Dated Miss Kansas, had sex with a few big named actresses (when they were famous), got more ass than any of my "better looking" friends, have women constantly hit on me, and I am NOW married to a hot 120 pounder and I get STILL get solicited at least once a week...

I don't have a lot of money, I drive a shitty car, I dress nice, I smell nice, I smile nice, I speak well, am manly, and women are my center of attention.

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sarah22 said:

i couldnt care less about how much money a guy has. as long as he has enough money to take care of himself so *I* dont have to give him any...lol

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gogrow said:

maybe that was my problem; im a f'n stick man.....

but from my experience, cause in school all of my friends were girls (the guys were just "business aquaintances" except for about 3)... most women dont care near as much about appearance/body type as us men like to believe.... its just easier to accept that you were turned down due to some physical flaw beyond your control, than to admit that maybe it is a personality fault; or just a lack of "chemistry". us men are all visual creatures, and will (most) reject a girl based on her looks alone without any further thought, and in turn we assume that women do the same thing.... some do, but thats not the kind of woman i like...

i like you lady folk; and i know for a fact that they arent out for my wallet, cause it is perpetually empty

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Sunnysideup said:

This is true, it is easier for someone to think she didn't dig him because of a physical flaw. I have personally gone out with some very very good looking men...I have also gone out with some ugly men....it didn't matter to me, in the end it was all about who could make me laugh and was fun to party with .....all in all what mattered was who is a good person with a good soul. The looks were irrelevant to me. I guess the reason I prefer chubby men is because they all seemed to have better personalities then the hunky men. They were more down to earth and easy going, and, cuddly as hell

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Stoney McFried said:

Plus, the hunky men are always getting chased by other girls.I'm jealous, so I'd be in a fistfight every night, lol.

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323cheezy said:

hey....whats wrong with hairspray..... ????im stariting to think that yall chicks are saying that a man cant be self conscouis and be cool .... i know i hear that looks dont matter...but truth is they do ..... but woman like a man thats confident, has ambitions, a god job, and a good personality....or sense of humor.....but if hes cares how he dreeses and a about his hair than he cant have a good personality....wth???
I feel like i should open a can of worms... recently i did a paper on the feminization of men..... and how now that woman now can be more idependent and are the bread winners of a familly.... this allowed for some men to take on the role women once dominated.... uknow now men wear tight jeans and shirts.... spend more time on theyre hair and dress better than woman do....
its funny to me cause i see it more in the younger generation..... allot of woman still are only in too there looks and thats because theyre rewarded for being sexy while chicks that dont take as much care of their apperance seem to achieve less....its all about gender roles and conformity......
sadly enuff ...its gooten to the point where men can be the sexy ones and find a chick who will pay the bills and pamper them instead of vice versa..... the role that women have played for centuries is now getting taken over by men....thats why i think its hippicritical for women to hate on men who want to get sexy enuff to find a mate...who will take care of them.... im not saying its good to just care about looks.... but dont say men that care about looks are gay and suck.... besides woman spend allot of time in the mirror.... and i wont hate em for this...... its bigger than looks or personality ....it the nature of humans.... woman will go for who will best provider to ensure survival(money)...while men will go for the healthiest or most fetile subject to lay their seed(beauty).....

besides i want a woman whos gonna support me......
ima gold digga...lol

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Sunnysideup said:

So true! Plus these types of men usually require more bathroom time than me, and I don't like seeing my hairspray being used by the guy I just fucked...it is a turn off

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323cheezy said:

hey....whats wrong with hairspray..... ????im stariting to think that yall chicks are saying that a man cant be self conscouis and be cool .... i know i hear that looks dont matter...but truth is they do ..... but woman like a man thats confident, has ambitions, a god job, and a good personality....or sense of humor.....but if hes cares how he dreeses and a about his hair than he cant have a good personality....wth???
I feel like i should open a can of worms... recently i did a paper on the feminization of men..... and how now that woman now can be more idependent and are the bread winners of a familly.... this allowed for some men to take on the role women once dominated.... uknow now men wear tight jeans and shirts.... spend more time on theyre hair and dress better than woman do....
its funny to me cause i see it more in the younger generation..... allot of woman still are only in too there looks and thats because theyre rewarded for being sexy while chicks that dont take as much care of their apperance seem to achieve less....its all about gender roles and conformity......
sadly enuff ...its gooten to the point where men can be the sexy ones and find a chick who will pay the bills and pamper them instead of vice versa..... the role that women have played for centuries is now getting taken over by men....thats why i think its hippicritical for women to hate on men who want to get sexy enuff to find a mate...who will take care of them.... im not saying its good to just care about looks.... but dont say men that care about looks are gay and suck.... besides woman spend allot of time in the mirror.... and i wont hate em for this...... its bigger than looks or personality ....it the nature of humans.... woman will go for who will best provider to ensure survival(money)...while men will go for the healthiest or most fetile subject to lay their seed(beauty).....

besides i want a woman whos gonna support me......
ima gold digga...lol

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323cheezy said:

hey....whats wrong with hairspray..... ????im stariting to think that yall chicks are saying that a man cant be self conscouis and be cool .... i know i hear that looks dont matter...but truth is they do ..... but woman like a man thats confident, has ambitions, a god job, and a good personality....or sense of humor.....but if hes cares how he dreeses and a about his hair than he cant have a good personality....wth???
I feel like i should open a can of worms... recently i did a paper on the feminization of men..... and how now that woman now can be more idependent and are the bread winners of a familly.... this allowed for some men to take on the role women once dominated.... uknow now men wear tight jeans and shirts.... spend more time on theyre hair and dress better than woman do....
its funny to me cause i see it more in the younger generation..... allot of woman still are only in too there looks and thats because theyre rewarded for being sexy while chicks that dont take as much care of their apperance seem to achieve less....its all about gender roles and conformity......
sadly enuff ...its gooten to the point where men can be the sexy ones and find a chick who will pay the bills and pamper them instead of vice versa..... the role that women have played for centuries is now getting taken over by men....thats why i think its hippicritical for women to hate on men who want to get sexy enuff to find a mate...who will take care of them.... im not saying its good to just care about looks.... but dont say men that care about looks are gay and suck.... besides woman spend allot of time in the mirror.... and i wont hate em for this...... its bigger than looks or personality ....it the nature of humans.... woman will go for who will best provider to ensure survival(money)...while men will go for the healthiest or most fetile subject to lay their seed(beauty).....

besides i want a woman whos gonna support me......
ima gold digga...lol

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Stoney McFried said:

Yeah.I don't like pretty boys.

And you know what...the human race is suffering for it.I'm all for equality, but these femme, spaghetti armed, hairsprayed little men do nothing for me.I want a man who is a man, dammit.Not a wife beater, but calluses on his hands,knows how to fix stuff,doesn't spend all day worrying about what to wear,drives his car with two fingers on the wheel,doesn't wear pink shirts with popped collars,doesn't make me feel like I'M the man.I go for men who I find interesting.Don't care how much money he has or what he drives.Somebody that will stand up to me and stand by me.Confident?Has ambitions?Good job?Just have a brain, man!Just talk to me on my level!Be funny!Interest me.The rest will work itself out.(however, I'm not supporting anyone. Be an equal.)

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323cheezy said:

yeah.... and i want a chick with a big ass, nice tits, skinny waste.... who dosnt ever have a bummy day.... and cooks and cleans all day ...while i go make the bacon.... never complains or who has one bit of intellect to dispute my ideas.....
that is not what i really want...lol (itll ever happen)....
I know this is what stoney wants is a hard working blue collar, huntng, jock, who isnt too intellectuall ...that hides his femine side..... i like man's mans too.....but i dont like the fact that i have to be someone diiferent cause society tells me thats gay or feminem... im suppose to not care about feelings or how i look... im suppose to just go fuck as many bitches as possible...
I always was raised to be macho, like sports, get in fights, not to cry, but cant i just be me????.... im not one who wears pink shirts, or has emergency hairspray can in my pocket....lol....
but it sucks when i notice all the "cute" guys are getting the chicks(not old moms like stoney...).... so why cant i dress nice , look good, and be myself ????? because girls want meatheads.....?????
all im saying is if you wernt so optimistic and were a realist.... you might understand that nowadys people could care less who you are.....
all people care about is how you look or how much money you have.....
atleast here in la.... yeah its nice when people look past that..... but it rarely happens... so yeah i wish i could just go outside without dressing up and without coming my hair and be a total slob...and that people will respect me because im interesting.... its not gonna happen..... woman should know this better than me.....

my whole take on equallity is that why cant i be taken out, spoiled and pampered....?????why cant woman pay the check at dinner...????
why i cant i just depend on my ass to get my bills payed????? .... everyone knows that there are girls like this...and all im saying is why cant i do this???.... it sounds fun ...... but i dont wanna truly do that ... i want to be self sufficent and pay my own shit... but cant i also wear good clothes and style my hair....????

man i guess im a metrosexual or whatever cause i dont fit into these macho gender roles.... but more than that i wish i didnt have to do this..... but this new damn generation has raised the bar on style and beauty....and if u people want to succed in this nwo ...your gonna have to adapt..... does this shirt make me look fat????lol

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Christian for Ganja said:

The trick is to become fat *AFTER* they say "I do." Then you can say they're stuck with ya.

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Stoney McFried said:

No, I want an intellectual man, one who understands me when I talk.I don't care so much about cute, they just have to have something I like about them.There's nothing wrong with you, cheezy, your type is just not what I personally go for.By all means, be clean and nice smelling, girls like that, myself included.But if you're gonna act like a femme, that turns me off, thats what I was saying.Hell, to be fair, I don't like WOMEN who act like that either.I still love ya.EDIT: and I hate jocks.

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