Assholes banned Dia WTF

abe supercro said:

I give you a C- for reading comprehension and I'll squeak* more loudly if you can't hear me. If you're going to respond to me initially you should respond to what I said, not what you want to turn it into. Otherwise be more clear, the first time.

Recently I saw a friend who got into a pissing match with someone. She knows the guy is unstable. Next thing you know she insults him and asks him to shoot his mouth off. She says, you only know my first name, I moved and you don't have anything on me. Have at it. Basically, a direct challenge. All hell breaks loose after that.

I like how everyone left that part of the story out.

What he did clearly wasn't right, but we already know it doesn't take much to instigate short fuse. Some folks like to play with fire; Especially the penis gallery and captain chivalry.

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well skippy, i gotta give you an F for relevancy. what you posted goes on in every fucking thread here.there wasn't anything outrageous going on or any provocation. he started riding her ass and she called him 6ohfat. his response is the problem. it's all her fault? you were proven wrong on the death threat and now you're spouting off like it's her fault and she should have known better.

did you miss the part where he's been to her house? does that add another level to his threat in your mind? you already said your pal is unstable....wtf?

however, you get an A for floppin around like a perch. i read the whole thread. there was nothing going on to warrant what your pal said. i'm gonna be generous too and give you an A for squeaking.......no need for a volume increase, your posts speak volumes

VenomGrower6990 said:

Typical RIU... C'mon tear me up. Its just my opinion. I was just stating how i felt about how i felt about a member but as law states on this site again and again i will be the asshole.

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You really have to take everything like if it's your buddies just fucking with you.

One time, my boss called on my off day and I replied "yes sir, first thing in the morning" I got off the phone and a couple of my homies fucked with me, "sir sir yes sir, I'll suck your dick 1st thing in the morning sir!" All I could do is laugh because I know I would've done the same thing if it was one of them!

Again with the poor comprehension el dingler. D+

Elwood Diggler said:

you were proven wrong on the death threat

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Really, guess I still missed it. So I say I'm gonna slap the shit out of your silly ass and then you go cry yo mama saying I said I'm gonna kill you? That's how that works in your mind. OK

I think you're funny dingler, so I won't embarass you further with logic.

Dia knows I like her a lot. I've already stated my points.

lol....another swing and miss but keep trying skippy, you're bound to run into one once in awhile


i'm out of this shit but i gotta say, you come across like you're the type dude who'll claim you were petting some pussy all last night but in reality were home netflixin and petting the cat

amf

El dingler dude. You just lied about a death threat. I confronted you about it and you're still in denial, even with proof. LOL. Sure, you snuck that past everyone, whatever you say buddy.

At least ya got jokes to accompany your irl sub 600 credit score. meow

tyler.durden said:

These can't both be true...

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I thought asses was like slang for asks when I read that. I'm thinkin' "so, dude asses for your opinion and you're bent about it?"

LoL

abe supercro said:

At least ya got jokes to accompany your irl sub 600 credit score. meow

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Damn, that made me LoL for a good few minutes

Elwood Diggler said:

what makes you think a threat like that isn't that big of a deal?

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again with the assumptions and putting words into someone else's mouth.

bro I live by a code. I would have never said the things short fuse said, I don't condone any of it. Hello,,, it was very inappropriate! Duh, captian obvious!! What you don't like, is that I'm not buying into the hype from either side. If you think me pointing out how she provoked him, is me blaming her, you're wrong. She clearly provoked him and immediately after, he took the bait and he snapped at her. Pretty goddam simple. Even PW pointed out how predictable short fuse is, after. I'm just recanting the story accurately, without leaving details out. Get over your death threat drama, cos it's bullshit. How's the cliche about 'words' go? sticks and stones...

If you don't know what an Internet-threat is, you do now.

Thank god it's not real life. If you're afraid of an Internet threat, then stay far the fuk away from scary people. Or if it is a real danger then go grab a restraining order, they are easy to file. I don't think dia is scared at all, ime. I would only be annoyed and frustrated if I got placed on turtle mode just like that one jackwad @mr sunshine.

I've been through a very similar disappointing situation to this with someone from online that overlapped into irl. I understand the dynamic better than you know.

Everyone needs to take their own responsibility, always. blame game is obsolete

It's Fing bullshit anyone can get in trouble for saying something in a heated argument .it's just words, people are too thin skinned. Until someone tries to physical assault you, it means nothing. I've always argued thoughts, ideas and words are harmless, if an idea, thought or word scares,disturbs, makes you fearful, upsets you, etc, etc . .your kinda pathetic. I should be able to threaten you till I'm blue in the face, not until I act on it should you be able to do anything. "Preemptive strikes" are now accepted as defense, where it is actually the first act of actual aggression, thanks to our society.

I'm in a mood today. ..sorry.

VenomGrower6990 said:

No shit i am becoming a believer. Big heads become larger on this site.

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Obviously, son. It is a growers' forum. We practice on our egos. Mine is in need of a good lollipopping.

VenomGrower6990 said:

No shit i am becoming a believer. Big heads become larger on this site.

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Especially with Cal-mag! Since I started using Pro-Tekt I'm so much less prone to butthurt during veg.

SunnyJim said:

So Buck hurt your feelings and now you think he's an asshole. Fair enough. You could rise above it rather than fanning the flames. Or you could be an asshole. The great thing about this site is that it's completely your choice.

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Brilliant.

Elwood Diggler said:

it was clearly explained to you. you do understand the word imply, especially with all your reading comprehension skills? it was explained in # 213 and #235. right in between those posts is where you got schooled on your own post regarding the death threat and who made it

credit score? lol i guess if you need credit its important.

now since you won't drop it and wanna act like an ankle biting little fuck, what makes you think a threat like that isn't that big of a deal? you yourself said he's unstable. where and how exactly did she bait him into making the threat, thus making all this shit indirectly her fault?

you felt the need to state dia knows you like her. i'm happy for you but from where i'm standing it looks like you threw a friend under the bus by coming off like she provoked it

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I concur. I cannot remember what went down verbatim, and the "offending" posts have been sanitized. But I do recall 6oh initiated and Dia stood up for herself.

Abe, I think you don't have the whole story available. The great harm of all those implication posts is that the perp can then say "I didn't do it". And find support here on this site.

I am convinced that Dia reacted to a real and present threat from the man who was putting his instability in the limelight without any assistance. The evidence trail is gone and we are arguing hearsay. Grant the victim (Dia) the benefit of the doubt, is my suggestion.

WeedFreak78 said:

It's Fing bullshit anyone can get in trouble for saying something in a heated argument .it's just words, people are too thin skinned. Until someone tries to physical assault you, it means nothing. I've always argued thoughts, ideas and words are harmless, if an idea, thought or word scares,disturbs, makes you fearful, upsets you, etc, etc . .your kinda pathetic. I should be able to threaten you till I'm blue in the face, not until I act on it should you be able to do anything. "Preemptive strikes" are now accepted as defense, where it is actually the first act of actual aggression, thanks to our society.

I'm in a mood today. ..sorry.

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Threaten me or my family IRL and it's the last thing you'd do on this earth. No one should live in fear.

WeedFreak78 said:

It's Fing bullshit anyone can get in trouble for saying something in a heated argument .it's just words, people are too thin skinned. Until someone tries to physical assault you, it means nothing. I've always argued thoughts, ideas and words are harmless, if an idea, thought or word scares,disturbs, makes you fearful, upsets you, etc, etc . .your kinda pathetic. I should be able to threaten you till I'm blue in the face, not until I act on it should you be able to do anything. "Preemptive strikes" are now accepted as defense, where it is actually the first act of actual aggression, thanks to our society.

I'm in a mood today. ..sorry.

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That is because you are a man. Men are less threatened by such talk because we are generally strong enough to have a shot at winning with our fists when the confrontation goes physical.

When a man verbally assails a woman, he is almost always attacking someone physically weaker. (You can decide for yourself if this is even remotely honorable.) In practice it makes any verbal threat of violence ... very dangerous.

Also, Dia did not strike preemptively. She responded to a situation 6oh set up by his sole initiative.

abe supercro said:

I give you a C- for reading comprehension and I'll squeak* more loudly if you can't hear me. If you're going to respond to me initially you should respond to what I said, not what you want to turn it into. Otherwise be more clear, the first time.

Recently I saw a friend who got into a pissing match with someone. She knows the guy is unstable. Next thing you know she insults him and asks him to shoot his mouth off. She says, you only know my first name, I moved and you don't have anything on me. Have at it. Basically, a direct challenge. All hell breaks loose after that.

I like how everyone left that part of the story out.

What he did clearly wasn't right, but we already know it doesn't take much to instigate short fuse. Some folks like to play with fire; Especially the penis gallery and captain chivalry.

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After 14 years in the US Army he should not have impulse control issues. The Army sectioned him for this type of behavior and he stated he's banned from VA property for a similar issue. So yes I think the threat was credible. I also remember a time when rape victims were blamed for the lack of impulse control by their perpetrators.

Have you ever read 6oh's posts? Not hard to tell the dude's an oreo missing his cream filling. He's the poster child for war inflicted PTSD. Which is sad. But totally corroborates the likelihood of death threats. Not to mention the fact we've seen the behavior here and in TC.

neosapien said:

Have you ever read 6oh's posts? Not hard to tell the dude's an oreo missing his cream filling. He's the poster child for war inflicted PTSD. Which is sad. But totally corroborates the likelihood of death threats. Not to mention the fact we've seen the behavior here and in TC.

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I agree and I wish to god he could get decent help. The saddest part of all of this is Dia reached out and tried to help him.

curious2garden said:

After 14 years in the US Army he should not have impulse control issues. The Army sectioned him for this type of behavior and he stated he's banned from VA property for a similar issue. So yes I think the threat was credible. I also remember a time when rape victims were blamed for the lack of impulse control by their perpetrators.

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Just so. I am seeing some otherwise decent members engage in what sure looks to me like blaming and shaming the victim. The real issue here is the systematic removal of the primary evidence. It makes it possible to advance the argument that "she is overreacting to standard trash talk".

Trouble is the trash talk was not standard but real and close and unsafe. Under the circumstances I am impressed that Dia stood up and defended herself even as she knew it likely the story would be turned on her.

What is so easily lost is the gaslighting of Dia that has been going on. I see and admire her actions that reveal moral conviction.

Abe, I like you. I think you have some facts wrong here. I am not attacking you but I disagree with your assessment of the basics behind the situation.

cannabineer said:

That is because you are a man. Men are less threatened by such talk because we are generally strong enough to have a shot at winning with our fists when the confrontation goes physical.

When a man verbally assails a woman, he is almost always attacking someone physically weaker. (You can decide for yourself if this is even remotely honorable.) In practice it makes any verbal threat of violence ... very dangerous.

Also, Dia did not strike preemptively. She responded to a situation 6oh set up by his sole initiative.

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Your second paragraph says because a man verbally atracks a woman he is physically attacking them? This site is better without either of the people this thread is about. Hopefully they both stay gone.

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Abe, I like you. I think you have some facts wrong here. I am not attacking you but I disagree with your assessment of the basics behind the situation.

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Same here.

757growin said:

Your second paragraph says because a man verbally atracks a woman he is physically attacking them? This site is better without either of the people this thread is about. Hopefully they both stay gone.

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Try reading that again, it's not what he wrote.

Why is there even a discussion about a subject only a few people have first hand knowledge of? Dia isn't here to comment, 6ho isn't here to comment, no one had any records of the convo, it's all he said/she said.
If there was a threat she thinks is credible, she has legal recourse options. Otherwise it's just more TnT drama and BS..


I'M OUT.