Dating and Cannabis

SunnyHours

SunnyHours

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Hi All,

Let me start with the story and then the question. So I started dating a really beautiful girl recently. I'm wondering how to get to the subject of Cannabis. It's a pretty big part of my life (my evenings)...
I sure would like to get your comments and maybe experiences on the subject.
Thanks.
 
kinetic

kinetic

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Bring it up with a current event topic, mention it in conversation regarding a news story.
 
kinetic

kinetic

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SunnyHours said:
Funny you say this and it's the first comment, this is exactly the way I was planning on doing it haha
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That way you can feel it out and you don't cut your self out of play by showing your hand yet. Assuming you haven't slept with the girl in question you don't want to tip a hand that would rule you out. Ya know what I'm sayin?
 
sunni

sunni

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kinetic is right , find out if she supports it, she probably will even if she doesnt part take
 
curious2garden

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SunnyHours said:
Hi All,

Let me start with the story and then the question. So I started dating a really beautiful girl recently. I'm wondering how to get to the subject of Cannabis. It's a pretty big part of my life (my evenings)...
I sure would like to get your comments and maybe experiences on the subject.
Thanks.
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How about, "I like to smoke pot, you?" Look it doesn't matter how pretty she is your life will be a living hell if you want to do pot and she doesn't want you to and you try to stay together. Putting these kind of things off doesn't help anyone in the long run.
 
kinetic

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sunni said:
kinetic is right , find out if she supports it, she probably will even if she doesnt part take
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I'm seriously considering giving up the RIU thing right now. Just leave everything I ever said with my new signature.
 
J

joe macclennan

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curious2garden said:
How about, "I like to smoke pot, you?" Look it doesn't matter how pretty she is your life will be a living hell if you want to do pot and she doesn't want you to and you try to stay together. Putting these kind of things off doesn't help anyone in the long run.
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I was just thinking the exact same thing..... I suppose he just wants to get laid by this"beautiful girl" first. The problem with this line of thinking is after that he could fall in love, which is often the case when men get involved w/beautiful women. After which...enter the living hell part if she doesn't like the weed.
 
curious2garden

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kinetic said:
I'm seriously considering giving up the RIU thing right now. Just leave everything I ever said with my new signature.
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LOL why? You were right. There are several ways to approach this. There's rarely ever just one right answer to anything and you know that better than I. I'd hate to see you go.
 
SunnyHours

SunnyHours

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Well from the way she acts I wouldn't be all too surprised to learn she partakes occasionally, and I'm pretty sure she wouldn't mind me vaping weed anyways as it doesn't really smell and I don't look high when I vape. I do get all the benefits though.
I know she's kinda against hard drugs.
It's only my 3rd date and all what you guys mention is the reason why I want to find out as fast as possible. Logically why would she mind, after all she enjoyed my company very much even though I was high.
She also didn't seem to notice my snuff use but mentioned against cocaine. I guess I'll learn soon enough.

Of course after years (2) year of abstinence, getting some would be amazing hehe...it's not because I'm ugly, I just didn't like the drama that came with getting involved with girls I wasn't even interested in, in the beginning...
 
ClaytonBigsby

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It's your 3rd date and you haven't knocked boots?




You better move in on that shit before you are put in the "friend zone".

Clearly your other "girls" are very important. Mention them soon. The sooner you know if you have to choose between the two the better.




Report back.
 
kinetic

kinetic

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claytonbigsby said:
it's your 3rd date and you haven't knocked boots?




you better move in on that shit before you are put in the "friend zone".

Clearly your other "girls" are very important. Mention them soon. The sooner you know if you have to choose between the two the better.




Report back.
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​my man!!!!!
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the best friend zone song
 
SunnyHours

SunnyHours

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Friends don't kiss that way...at least I wouldn't kiss my best friend like that, being that he's a guy.
Don't you worry about the friend zone thing...and if it does happen well, too bad, so sad :P On to the next one...
 
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