I'm more complicated than any of my posts can ever express. You or anyone else having any opinion of me based off the posts I have made thus far cannot possibly give you enough insight to tell me or know anything about me. I find... people read you by the first thing they see about you... and continue thinking whatever it is you began to think originally... until something changes your view of what your original opinion was.
That seems like a correct way of viewing the world so you do it without questioning it... but realize this... making an initial impression and deciding right then what that person is... stops you from figuring out what that person is and what they are actually all about....
For example... if I talk differently than others on this forum... and I use too many commas (like I do, I like to imply my tone of voice by using pronunciation but if I don't point that out people assume I am putting those commas in to be grammatically perfect... so it leads to people focusing on where my commas are... and laughing at my use of commas instead of listening to my point that I am trying to make.
Another example... and the one I fall privy too all too often in the real world... aswell as online.... I try to speak more intelligent than I am.... even if its just slightly... so I can broaden my ability to use language and increase my ability to convey points. But you would NEVER know that... or EVER believe it unless I told you.
Additionally... if I tell you what I just told you before this (the part that is now bold) you will then start to think I have something to hide and that the actual information I'm giving you is false and I'm trying to trick you.
Annnnd... when I tell you what I just told you it changes it even further.... my point is look at what I'm saying and don't judge me for how I present the information, judge me by my information.
ANNNNND... judge everyone by their information. Take your bias out of it and you will get to know the world a lot better. Do it with everything. When I call a cable company to set up cable I start the conversation like this:
"Hello, you have a 100 percent sure thing for a sale. All I ask is that you tell me real prices, tell me real rebates, explain to me everything that I ask how I ask it so I don't get tricky bills that I'm not aware about. I want to know individual prices of things and I don't want you to just add it up and tell me what it is going to be."
Something like that. Then guess what? The guy that ONLY WANTS A SALE can just talk to me like a normal person... put in the stupid little liability things he has to say... we can make jokes about him having to say it.... you get all the accurate information you need.... AND you just made his fucking day for being the best sale he got in ages.
If you are not selling.... start off with that. Let them know they aren't going to get the sale... and they won't try as hard. They will still try... but not as hard... and you can get your info quickly and he can move on to the next sale.
Instead... we go along with his speech... and get mad at him if he shows his views?
These are just examples... all trying to explain to you who I am. Take them how you wish, I merely enjoy talking to people and debating topics. The information I can gain is unmatched.