The right punishment.

[dannyboy602]

I think part mental hospital, medication, doctors visits and part jail time would have been more fitting. Guys who hurt children must have issues that can be curable. Unless they're sexual crimes, which can't be cured IMO.

 

[Beefbisquit]

If we ever want to better ourselves, at some point, we have to be better than the people who harm us. If we don't set a better example, who will?

 

[The BLaKsmith]

I have to say I'd never expected to be reading a thread about such a thing on Riu I don't really have much else to say except I'm sorry this happened and I hope you're doing ok

 

[thepenofareadywriter]

If we ever want to better ourselves, at some point, we have to be better than the people who harm us. If we don't set a better example, who will?

maybe it's just a phase ?

 

[kpmarine]

maybe it's just a phase ?

Maybe what's a phase?

 

[thepenofareadywriter]

Maybe what's a phase?

in this context it would be a stage in one's life

 

[kpmarine]

in this context it would be a stage in one's life

That still did not really clarify anything for me.

 

[Padawanbater2]

If we ever want to better ourselves, at some point, we have to be better than the people who harm us. If we don't set a better example, who will?

This is tough to come to terms with for any honest man

 

[thepenofareadywriter]

That still did not really clarify anything for me.

look it up in a dictionary...that may help.

 

[Padawanbater2]

Maybe what's a phase?

Maybe Z's bro's behavior is just a phase?

That's my guess..

But that's just retarded, so hopefully not..

 

[Zaehet Strife]

I highly doubt sociopathy is a phase.

 

[Padawanbater2]

How was your relationship before this happened, and how do you think your relationship will change, if at all, because of it?

 

[kpmarine]

I highly doubt sociopathy is a phase.

Sociopathy is a tricky one. How does someone "grow" a conscience, if you get my meaning? My heart does go out to you on that one man. That must be a rough thing to deal with. I have three brothers, so I can't help but wonder what I'd feel like in the same situation. I'd still love them, but...well...damn, I don't even know how to put the rest into words.

 

[Hemlock]

Understandable, which is why i stated that i am not trying to defend him, and that it is still no excuse. I am glad he isn't going to be able to harm or take advantage of anyone outside of the prison system anymore, at least until he is very, very old... for which i am extremely grateful he didn't get away with what he did to that poor child.

While in Prison maybe he'll be on the receiving end of some abuse and will find out how bad it really hurts. Nothing like PAIN to make you stop doing something.

 

[Zaehet Strife]

Physical pain can be a deterrent for some.

 

[Someacdude]

Sorry to hear about you brother.
Brothers and sisters can be hard , in one sense you cant stop loving them and in another you seek justice.
If you believe he will never ever hurt anyone ever again he will have his chance in 30 years, if not, hes in the best place for him.

Put some money on his books and realize, being a sociopath cant be cured.

 

[Padawanbater2]

Ive made several posts on this thread..most "liked" by Zahet and NOW DELETED

You suck dick PADA..

Are you for real?..attempted murder of an infant?

You REALLY are a sick fuck PADA.

I have never deleted a single post that wasn't spam the entire time I've been a mod

And I don't remember asking you anything, the question I asked was directed towards the OP, a pretty good friend of mine. You've still got your training wheels on and don't understand the dynamic of personal relationships developed through RIU, or accept that not everyone will have the cookie cutter view of reality that you seem to have.

So tell me, what is wrong with asking how the incident described in the OP might affect their relationship? Why is that so appalling to you?

 

[Padawanbater2]

Unfortunately, child abusers fair poorly, much worse than police behind bars..but of course, I already posted this comment HERE IN THIS THREAD which was CENSORED AND DELETED.

So you're stupid and a liar?

Deleted posts show up as deleted posts, like this;

With the mods name who deleted it. So which one of your posts in this thread has that?

 

[GreatwhiteNorth]

Unfortunately, child abusers fair poorly, much worse than police behind bars..but of course, I already posted this comment HERE IN THIS THREAD which was CENSORED AND DELETED.

There are NO deleted posts in this thread.

Did you perhaps mistake & comment in another thread thinking it was this one ?

 

[Stoner Saiyan]

Anyone no matter what should be given the chance for bettering themselves from what they were, but if they show that they can't change or aren't willing to then that is the point where they should have life in prison or lethal injection.