What men really want.......

[timlang420]

psycholgy is statistics with ego , thats it . . . we are creatures of habit and are 100% not unique most of the time . . . . always cracks me up , but i guess in the sense that we all think we are unique snowflakes and preception is king in the mind, well some of us(not I, im primordial goo solidified), and strive to all be individuals we end up being the same or similar

i wouldnt underestimate the human brain. i believe that we are all the same (star stuff-carl sagan) but thats physical, mostly. i think every persons brain is made of the same stuff but reacts to situations differently based on experiences, so in a way we are all unique because no 2 people have lived the same life. its the classic question of nature/nurture, and i believe nurture has the ability to overcome nature.

 

[Flaming Pie]

i wouldnt underestimate the human brain. i believe that we are all the same (star stuff-carl sagan) but thats physical, mostly. i think every persons brain is made of the same stuff but reacts to situations differently based on experiences, so in a way we are all unique because no 2 people have lived the same life. its the classic question of nature/nurture, and i believe nurture has the ability to overcome nature.

I think he was talking less about knowledge and experiences. More like how the majority of people react to specific experiences and how that shapes them. In that affect we are all very similar.

 

[potpimp]

That's just retarded; I prefer shaved pussy because it SMELLS better and it doesn't tickle my nose. There is no Freudian psychology needed to process that. A hairy bush smells like pee or a dead animal a lot of the time; that's just gross.

I thought this was a thread to see what women think men want. So far, FAIL.

 

[timlang420]

I think he was talking less about knowledge and experiences. More like how the majority of people react to specific experiences and how that shapes them. In that affect we are all very similar.

talking less about experiences and more like reactions to specific experiences? its not how people react that shapes them, its the experience itself that shapes them, every reaction is based off previous experiences, otherwise you wouldnt know how to react. in this way, because no 2 people have the same experiences, we are all very different. we still have the ability to be similar because we all require the same shit to stay alive, we all have similar bodies and experience the world in a similar fashion. are we still talking about eating pussy????

 

[Flaming Pie]

That's just retarded; I prefer shaved pussy because it SMELLS better and it doesn't tickle my nose. There is no Freudian psychology needed to process that. A hairy bush smells like pee or a dead animal a lot of the time; that's just gross.

I thought this was a thread to see what women think men want. So far, FAIL.

The comments were not directed towards you. lol

 

[Flaming Pie]

talking less about experiences and more like reactions to specific experiences? its not how people react that shapes them, its the experience itself that shapes them, every reaction is based of previous experiences, otherwise you wouldnt know how to react. in this way, because no 2 people have the same experiences, we are all very different. we still have the ability to be similar because we all require the same shit to stay alive, we all have similar bodies and experience the world in a similar fashion. are we still talking about eating pussy????

No, I was just talking about psychology.

 

[Samwell Seed Well]

i wouldnt underestimate the human brain. i believe that we are all the same.

i like it, and without assumptions(aka "i wouldnt underestimate the human brain") its much easier to see life for what it is

a series of reactions and affirmations and repetitive conclusions. . now the big question is are these self evident to "you", "us", "anyone" or are they discovered through reflection or looked over for more desirable

reality . . .this is imho the essence of the human condition

 

[Samwell Seed Well]

I thought this was a thread to see what women think men want. So far, FAIL.

interesting perspective on the premise of the thread

 

[Flaming Pie]

I already posted what I know men want.

Then I had some fun poking the closet bear lover.

 

[timlang420]

i like it, and without assumptions(aka "i wouldnt underestimate the human brain") its much easier to see life for what it is

a series of reactions and affirmations and repetitive conclusions. . now the big question is are these self evident to "you", "us", "anyone" or are they discovered through reflection or looked over for more desirable

reality . . .this is imho the essence of the human condition

first off i didnt necessarily mean you where underestimating the brain, just that i hold it in very high esteem.

how do you explain prostitutes then (just 1 example)? id say their life experiences brought them to the point of being a prostitute (most of them), not because it was in their dna. also, a child (with less life experiences) would act differently than an adult in a situation of crisis. in fact i believe that a child would seek out an adult in a time of crisis, which is natures way of showing that nurture holds the trump card.

also, thats not the correct quote from my post, i continue to say physically we are the same. not everyone has the same morals, preferences and id say thats because they are taught from infancy and molded through experience.

 

[Chipper Pig]

[video=youtube;5b65Zf6r-RE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5b65Zf6r-RE[/video]

 

[Flaming Pie]

first off i didnt necessarily mean you where underestimating the brain, just that i hold it in very high esteem.

how do you explain prostitutes then (just 1 example)? id say their life experiences brought them to the point of being a prostitute (most of them), not because it was in their dna. also, a child (with less life experiences) would act differently than an adult in a situation of crisis. in fact i believe that a child would seek out an adult in a time of crisis, which is natures way of showing that nurture holds the trump card.

also, thats not the correct quote from my post, i continue to say physically we are the same. not everyone has the same morals, preferences and id say thats because they are taught from infancy and molded through experience.

That is what psychology is all about. Understanding the factors that bring people do behave the way they do.

 

[timlang420]

That is what psychology is all about. Understanding the factors that bring people do behave the way they do.

ok, so where's the debate here? i guess i should go back to making funny comments and waiting to hear what a female has to say...

 

[potpimp]

I already posted what I know men want.

Then I had some fun poking the closet bear lover.

I thought you said men don't know what they want. That's just not the case; we know what we want. We're talking but nobody's listening.

 

[MojoRison]

 

[Flaming Pie]

I thought you said men don't know what they want. That's just not the case; we know what we want. We're talking but nobody's listening.

HIM: What are we doing for dinner?
Me: What do you want?
HIM: Food.
Me: Can you be more specific?

Men are simple. Feed them, stroke them, tuck them in at night.

Let them have some money in their pockets so they don't looked whipped in front of their friends. Buy them toys every once in a while, be it video games or power tools.

Men don't know what they want, you get pregnant they don't want kids, you can't get pregnant they want kids, you let them go out with their mates you don't care about them, you don't let them go out your a control freak. You be friendly to their mates your flirting with them you don't be friendly and your not making an effort, the list is endless girlies I gave up on finding out what men want years ago, best thing to do is do what you want and sod them all!

That was granny. Not me.

 

[potpimp]

That was granny. Not me.

Damnit... i knew that.

 

[GOD HERE]

The woman could be smoking hot, but if she has a trimmed bush it reminds him of a gorilla. That puts him on the radar in my opinion. lol

So liking feminine looking women and not banging hairy women makes me a fag? lol ok, got it. I think you're just embarrassed that you said you're hairy, and everyone went "Ew".

 

[hereshegrows]

hmmm, I read somewhere that men are attracted to ladies wearing high heels because it makes them appear more venerable...like the guy sees the woman as needing to be protected and they like that. I'm not sure that is true but wearing heels certainly does get their attention.

I'm not sure what the younger generation guys like but I know when I was in my twenties, the guys liked the girls who were more feminine. If I worn out jeans, I might get a whistle, if I worn out a skirt, I'd get all kinds of attention. Guys like to be proud of their ladies but they also want to be appreciated themselves. If you are in a relationship, one of the most hurtful things you can do is deny your man sex. If the woman can cook, she gets bonus points. They hate being questioned in front of their guy friends. Most of them say they hate makeup but yet are usually attracted to the females wearing it...they just don't know it. Men love comfort, most would prefer never to wear a suit or tie in their lives. I believe most guys are very straight forward, if they ask a question, they want a yes or no answer. Some women will try to give an explanation before the answer and that frustrates them. Women use way more words to get a point across then men do. I envy the relationships men form with one another, they seem to do it easier then females. Some guys could do with an extra helping of patience but for the most part, you all are pretty cool. Us ladies can get moody and that's got to be difficult to deal with.

 

[potpimp]

High heels accentuate your lovely gluteal cleft (translation for the guys: makes her ass look good). I think you are absolutely right on all the rest; some very good observations there. You my dear are a prize!