Even more than that... if women want a man to do something they should tell him. It's easy. Women have this dream that their man (or any man) is going to be considerate and thoughtful and realize what she could be wanting at that moment... then with that realization do the very thing the woman was desiring.
It's a dream. It might happen once when you are 60, your man will finally get you that glass of water you had been hoping for, or ask you that question you'd been dying to answer.
But if you want a happy life.... find a good man, and tell him what to do to make you happy. He will love you for it. That's all we want to do (the good one's at least) is make our women happy... we just don't know how. We're fucking selfish and retarded. Understand that.
Tell men what you want... you'll get it.