When is it ok to sleep with your workmates?

[cannabineer]

I wonder if pony people have especially <cough!> stable relationships. cn

 

[xKuroiTaimax]

Tabak ist immerhin so ungesund. Ich empfehle ein (tabakfreies) "Gelenk". cn

Lol that was back when I was a chainsmoking cigarette-fiend. I took advantage at the lack of carding and bought ALOT of whiskey from the convenience store directly in fron tof the hostel. Good times.

And Lahada, Berlin has wonderful people, green spaces and architecture; a nice balance between industrialized and respecting the environment, a good mix of archaic buildings and all that modern steel and glass stuff. And the food is SO CHEAP if felt like I pretty much STOLE my stoner munchies at the checkout lol.

 

[xKuroiTaimax]

She's BI??????????

She's cool with both of them and the new girlfriend of the first guy she dated/slept with.

But I love bi girls and guys. I don't quite understand people being 100% either way.

Lahada, if a new girl turns up at work, trying dating her sneakily, no one would ever guess X3

 

[lahadaextranjera]

Lahada, come to London and smoke with me >_< Keep me company when I can't see my boyfriend :3

And the whole pony play thing intrigues me, too; they often seem very serious about it, conducting 3-day events in the same fashion as with real horses. It isn't actually very sex-oriented at all from what I've seen. It's nice that people indulging in the fetish actually know and understand horses, and get into a real horse-like state of mind.

Im from SW & NW. I was born in Putney then moved to Harrow and I went to school in Hampstead. So mainly NW. Which side are you? I've not been back in 2 years now!!

 

[xKuroiTaimax]

Im from SW & NW. I was born in Putney then moved to Harrow and I went to school in Hampstead. So mainly NW. Which side are you? I've not been back in 2 years now!!

Putney? That's the other end of the 37 bus from me. I'm in Clapham SW :3 Come see me for Christmas holidays ^^ We'll go camping in my Hello Kitty tent...

 

[Total Head]

i'd like to hear how some of the "success stories" turned out a year or two down the road.

anyone who has ever worked in an corporate type office type place should be familiar with "HR queens". these are the people who are up in everybody's business so that they can run and cry to HR over every fart and cough. if one of these people finds out about you, you're done. they are stuffed up management's ass and will ALWAYS get their way, even if it really boils down to jealousy. they always do.

so unless you are lucky enough to work in a genuinely laid back place where PC isn't a religion, don't do it. even if you work in the most laid back come-to-work-in-sweatpants place, you still have to put up with people talking behind your back, clashing with your fuck buddy's OTHER office exes, people judging you for your choice of partner, etc. if ANY of those people is ever in a position to influence your job status, you are screwed. then there's the obvious possibility of it ending badly. if it ends badly and your ex is now your boss, you're screwed. if it ends badly and they start spreading angry rumors and other assorted shit-talking, you're going to have a very bad time. if they care about their job less than you do, you're going to have the worst time ever.

 

[Wilksey]

Don't shit where you sleep.

Don't fuck anyone you work with.

Life is much more enjoyable if you follow those two rules.

 

[lahadaextranjera]

She's cool with both of them and the new girlfriend of the first guy she dated/slept with.

But I love bi girls and guys. I don't quite understand people being 100% either way.

Lahada, if a new girl turns up at work, trying dating her sneakily, no one would ever guess X3

My friend went out with two guys and one of them went out with another girl in the office. It is funny u said that though coz guess what? She is BI bit hasn't had female interaction for 5 yrs. she did tell me one night that "it was a shame I had a boyfriend "!!! I wish I could've seen my face!! I wasn't expecting that. Barcelona is full of gays and lesbians and the city is very liberated. Ive not been with a woman, doesn't interest me. I like a good hard man far too much!!

 

[Carne Seca]

Lol Carne's balls have seen more chins than a chineese phonebook. ... or is it the other way around

A lady never tells.

 

[xKuroiTaimax]

My friend went out with two guys and one of them went out with another girl in the office. It is funny u said that though coz guess what? She is BI bit hasn't had female interaction for 5 yrs. she did tell me one night that "it was a shame I had a boyfriend "!!! I wish I could've seen my face!! I wasn't expecting that. Barcelona is full of gays and lesbians and the city is very liberated. Ive not been with a woman, doesn't interest me. I like a good hard man far too much!!

Oh shit, wow 0_o What she dated them simultaneously, or my first assumption?

How do you know if you've never tried? I can't write off an entire gender because of their... well, gender lol. I fall in love with/am attracted to people for people, but I guess you know what you like ^^

I love my boyfriend but the silent staring when we're both looking at the hot girl on an internet popup is priceless X3

 

[Carne Seca]

Ja!!? Ich bin eine studette? Ich spechen einen bissen deutsch!! Ich haber eine Deutsch freund vor 6 jahren!!

I know plenty of words - my ex is German !!

Gah! I've sung enough German to be able to read that. I used to hate singing German.

 

[lahadaextranjera]

I used to work in an office as a broker amongst a room full of men. I would never even consider messing abt in those circumstances as I know how they'd bitch. My life is a long way away from Liverpool St now!

Think that I should remember that my new relaxed work environment may still carry the same politics.

 

[lahadaextranjera]

Gah! I've sung enough German to be able to read that. I used to hate singing German.

Hablas castellano conmigo cariño !!

 

[Carne Seca]

Hablas castellano conmigo cariño !!

I will serenade you in Spanish. La Paloma used to be my mom's favorite.

 

[KushXOJ]

When you both have something to lose if it comes out ....you can't be a ceo secrectly banging the intern . You have too much to lose and they don't.

 

[lahadaextranjera]

Oh shit, wow 0_o What she dated them simultaneously, or my first assumption?

How do you know if you've never tried? I can't write off an entire gender because of their... well, gender lol. I fall in love with/am attracted to people for people, but I guess you know what you like ^^

I love my boyfriend but the silent staring when we're both looking at the hot girl on an internet popup is priceless X3

My friend had boyf numero one, that didn't Work so she found one in IT. In the meantime number one went off with another girl!!

I bet u guys have some right fun on the Internet!! If I had an open relationship I'd be off with other guys but most have been one woman men.

 

[lahadaextranjera]

When you both have something to lose if it comes out ....you can't be a ceo secrectly banging the intern . You have too much to lose and they don't.

We're just a couple of indoor commerc growers. No office HR dept or any stringent rules. We will work alongside each other but id rather work underneath him- If he let's me!!

 

[cannabineer]

I will serenade you in Spanish. La Paloma used to be my mom's favorite.

Will you let her strum your mandolin? cn

 

[Carne Seca]

Will you let her strum your mandolin? cn

No one touches Mandy but me. She's a one man mandolin.

 

[xKuroiTaimax]

Wow, Mandy?! I thought 'cakestack' was weird.

...Sorry, Tip Top XP