I would be an asshole

[Carne Seca]

It's an act of submission and trust for both. The giver and the receiver. Especially considering the tearing and chewing implements that line the receiver's mouth. You need to realize how much control you hold over a man once you have his most prized possession in your grasp. Plus there are some extra little "tricks" us gay guys know that drive men crazy.

Poor straight guys. You really don't know what you're missing. LOL

 

[Urca]

It's an act of submission and trust for both. The giver and the receiver. Especially considering the tearing and chewing implements that line the receiver's mouth. You need to realize how much control you hold over a man once you have his most prized possession in your grasp. Plus there are some extra little "tricks" us gay guys know that drive men crazy.

Poor straight guys. You really don't know what you're missing. LOL

but it doesnt mean shit to a guy when you do it for them. I mean, it meant something to me to do it for him, but it didnt make him care for me or want to reciprocate. Idk how its trust for both.

 

[xKuroiTaimax]

Ok, I forget that you are putting yourself in a scary scary place when someone could bite off your dick!!!!

Carne I think I know your little tricks ;3

And straight people are just boring and crazy X3

 

[Carne Seca]

but it doesnt mean shit to a guy when you do it for them. I mean, it meant something to me to do it for him, but it didnt make him care for me or want to reciprocate. Idk how its trust for both.

Urca, I don't know what kind of guys you're hanging around but it's almost like you're equating a blowjob with a handshake. I've never engaged in oral sex unless I was already in a meaningful relationship.

 

[Carne Seca]

Ok, I forget that you are putting yourself in a scary scary place when someone could bite off your dick!!!!

Carne I think I know your little tricks ;3

And straight people are just boring and crazy X3

Try ice at least once. Just chew it up and roll it around in your mouth and then give him a lolly treat. LOL

 

[xKuroiTaimax]

Urca is after a relationship but she had the same trouble I did... guys who just didn't want one or wanted to use her.

And then people on Rollitup joke about her not putting out enough when she asks for meaningful relationship advice, as if that is what a girl should do to get a guy to like her.

It's hard when there's so much conflicting information out there. It's hard for girls walking the slut/prude line when most straight men have a madonna/whore complex and commitment issues.

 

[Urca]

Urca, I don't know what kind of guys you're hanging around but it's almost like you're equating a blowjob with a handshake. I've never engaged in oral sex unless I was already in a meaningful relationship.

no not at all.
im just saying, the only person I have ever done it for just never cared about returning the favor, or sleeping with me, and refused to be my bf... so despite the fact i enjoyed doing it for him, i know when you do it for a guy they really dont give a shit, to them its just some girl giving them head, but for me i did it because i really cared and wanted to make him happy. And would never do it for someone unless I cared about them

 

[smok3h]

Lol, I'm just picturing a situation where a blowjob is as casual as a handshake.

Why can't it be real

 

[lokie]

but it doesnt mean shit to a guy when you do it for them. I mean, it meant something to me to do it for him, but it didnt make him care for me or want to reciprocate. Idk how its trust for both.

did you forget the

 

[UncleBuck]

did you forget the

don't joke about sandwiches, not cool.

 

[Carne Seca]

no not at all.
im just saying, the only person I have ever done it for just never cared about returning the favor, or sleeping with me, and refused to be my bf... so despite the fact i enjoyed doing it for him, i know when you do it for a guy they really dont give a shit, to them its just some girl giving them head, but for me i did it because i really cared and wanted to make him happy. And would never do it for someone unless I cared about them

And you're basing this off of one example? You're too young to be so cynical, love. Trust me. A blowjob is a big thing to MOST guys. Assholes are exempt. Don't let one bad apple ruin you for future erotic and wonderful experiences. To be honest, it sounds like that guy has issues. Some guys just don't like getting blowjobs. Just like some girls hate guys going down on them.

 

[Carne Seca]

Lol, I'm just picturing a situation where a blowjob is as casual as a handshake.

Why can't it be real

Try Saddle Tramps in Oklahoma City.

 

[Urca]

oh he liked it. loved it. always wanted it. just didnt wanna return the favor. or have sex.
he liked for me to take care of him sexually, to cuddle, to kiss him, etc.
loved for me to go down on him.
so i know its wrong to base my opinion on what happened to me, but then also lots of guys have asked me to go don on them or fuck them but dont want anything more than that. so am i pretty cynical

 

[Carne Seca]

oh he liked it. loved it. always wanted it. just didnt wanna return the favor. or have sex.
he liked for me to take care of him sexually, to cuddle, to kiss him, etc.
loved for me to go down on him.
so i know its wrong to base my opinion on what happened to me, but then also lots of guys have asked me to go don on them or fuck them but dont want anything more than that. so am i pretty cynical

I told you once before to move your ass out here. You could pass for a native and around here native women rule the roost.

 

[Urca]

lol my bright red hair and freckled skin could pass me for a native?
but ill admit some of men are to die for.

 

[stumpjumper]

I like going down on a woman, but if I go down and don't like it down there, I lose interest in going there pretty fast.


I'm glad my wife lets us have girlfriends, watches porn, etc.. There's no way in fuck I would ever stay in a relationship that wasn't very enjoyably sexual. I mean, I can understand shit like menopause and being sick, but at the age of 32 she should still like getting off.. Stiffing you on your birthday like that is a red-flag for me.

"Either you start putting out or I get it somewhere else" I've said that before and meant it. Then I remarried lol.

 

[Carne Seca]

lol my bright red hair and freckled skin could pass me for a native?
but ill admit some of men are to die for.

I have an old friend who is navajo and ute. She has curly hair and freckles. I've seen blond natives, red headed natives, naked natives, natives with sunburns. We come in all shapes and colors.

 

[Samwell Seed Well]

And you're basing this off of one example? You're too young to be so cynical, love. Trust me. A blowjob is a big thing to MOST guys. Assholes are exempt. Don't let one bad apple ruin you for future erotic and wonderful experiences. To be honest, it sounds like that guy has issues. Some guys just don't like getting blowjobs. Just like some girls hate guys going down on them.

its true . . .if its not special then its just whatever

casual sex is just that and casual sex play is just that, but you need to respect yourself or you will never appreciate what you do and what you do for others

I like going down on a woman, but if I go down and don't like it down there, I lose interest in going there pretty fast.


I'm glad my wife lets us have girlfriends, watches porn, etc.. There's no way in fuck I would ever stay in a relationship that wasn't very enjoyably sexual. I mean, I can understand shit like menopause and being sick, but at the age of 32 she should still like getting off.. Stiffing you on your birthday like that is a red-flag for me.

"Either you start putting out or I get it somewhere else" I've said that before and meant it. Then I remarried lol.

sex does not equal relationship . . . . . . . i got mixed up in my last relationship like that and it ened up all we had was sex and well i wanted more

 

[Urca]

I have an old friend who is navajo and ute. She has curly hair and freckles. I've seen blond natives, red headed natives, naked natives, natives with sunburns. We come in all shapes and colors.

what is it like out in new mexico?

 

[Carne Seca]

what is it like out in new mexico?

Enchanting.