Yea, when you get down to it, one of the secular reasons for opposing gay marriage is the family dynamic (or lack of) that it creates. I mean, im not saying 2 gays cant raise a kid, and im glad that they adopt orphans and all that, but there has got to be some damage done to the child in the long run. If a young boy is raised by 2 gay men, thats gonna create a lot of unnecessary conflict and frustration in that child. In high school I knew a kid that had 2 gay dads.. he was insecure, very socially awkward, and had frequent outbursts in class. His name was Sean... I actually hung out with him a few times and he was a cool kid, but he had issues that even he admitted was from his family situation.