just curious?

[twateater1020]

recently disabled low income. divorce pro/con?

 

[cannabineer]

Don't even marry a pro or a con. cn

 

[a mongo frog]

recently disabled low income. divorce pro/con?

if your recently divorced, and u have low income, and your feeling a little disabled
thats a perfectly normal feeling. everything will be ok friend trust me.
alot of og should fix your problems.

 

[Jimmyjonestoo]

Only you can answer that man. Don't stay married for the wrong reasons you'll be miserable. Trust me I know. I got married for the wrong reasons and stayed married three years longer than I should have. Now that I'm out I feel great again loving life.

 

[Kaendar]

If ur asking cuz of the legal issues and money.. then no. I think a seperation shud be fine if u dont want to deal with the monetary aspect. Whatever you do, make sure you and your wife come to a mutual agreement.

 

[Jimmyjonestoo]

If ur asking cuz of the legal issues and money.. then no. I think a seperation shud be fine if u dont want to deal with the monetary aspect. Whatever you do, make sure you and your wife come to a mutual agreement.

Great advice.

 

[Ringsixty]

Divorce ... sucks, no matter which way you slice it. So, many emotions...more negative than positive.

Both of you need to sit down cry your hearts out and look @ realty. Times are hard.

Be civil if you can about the situation. ( Easier said than done)

Good Luck

 

[Trolling]

This is why I'm never getting married or even having kids, too much money.

 

[twateater1020]

i mean better ssd $ if divorced(hate to spell the word)

 

[cannabineer]

i mean better ssd $ if divorced(hate to spell the word)

No change. Indexed to your income history. cn

 

[kinetic]

This is why I'm never getting married or even having kids, too much money.

When you have a wife you truly love and she gave you your child... money isn't as big an issue as you would think, even when things are tight...

 

[Kaendar]

In a good marriage, the husband and wife share the financial responsibilities.

 

[Trolling]

Until you get divorced and have to pay alimony and child support.


Also, what's the % of people who get divorced?

 

[GreatwhiteNorth]

Until you get divorced and have to pay alimony and child support.
Also, what's the % of people who get divorced?

This sounds like a set up for marriage failure.
Not everyone gets divorced - if you find the right gal/guy it's a non-issue.

 

[Jimmyjonestoo]

Idk if ill get married again. Never say never I guess.

 

[Trolling]

This sounds like a set up for marriage failure.
Not everyone gets divorced - if you find the right gal/guy it's a non-issue.

How many people say that when they get married? Even couples that are together for 20 years plus get divorced.

 

[Kaendar]

Alot more ppl get divorced now then they used to.

 

[Ringsixty]

on the lighter side...... you forgot the 3 ring rule.

engagement ring, wedding ring and then the suffering

 

[cannabineer]

Alot more ppl get divorced now then they used to.

Not really. Total number has been level since 1980 or so, and rate has declined. cn

I'm including this graph to show that there has been no trend reversal in the decade not covered by the one above.

 

[Kaendar]

Not really. Total number has been level since 1980 or so, and rate has declined. cn

hmm... well then I guess a more accurate statement would be that marriages arent lasting as long as they used to.