Sexting is Becoming the Norm

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xKuroiTaimax

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Ok I'm not going to type reams and reams here but age is a big factor..

(I feel sad looking at the younger-looking girls.. they just seem vulnerable... The last girl... I'd totally tap that)

The abuse happened with me from a pretty early age, blurring the what is/isn't acceptable line... Having never had 'the talk' as many of these kids didn't i'm tempted to assume. I got coaxed into sexting with an 18 year old friend of the family when I was 13 and had no idea how it started and where it was going. You people already see where I'm screwed up, let's face it.

It's certainly not cool to pressure a girl into sending you shit. If she likes you enough, she'll volunteer...

But yeah, sharing pictures has helped me finally be more comfortable with my own body, with having to look at it every day and share it with someone else.

There you go... making sure you send them to the right person is a big deal, too. Let's hope these girls are old enough to work that bit out.
 
Hepheastus420

Hepheastus420

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Those girls look just like some of my friends. Well age wise. They aren't underage lol. Though you older folks shouldn't be checking them out. It's cool for me, they're my age lol. Probably the one cool thing about being 18.
 
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pron

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xKuroiTaimax said:
Ok I'm not going to type reams and reams here but age is a big factor..

(I feel sad looking at the younger-looking girls.. they just seem vulnerable... The last girl... I'd totally tap that)

The abuse happened with me from a pretty early age, blurring the what is/isn't acceptable line... Having never had 'the talk' as many of these kids didn't i'm tempted to assume. I got coaxed into sexting with an 18 year old friend of the family when I was 13 and had no idea how it started and where it was going. You people already see where I'm screwed up, let's face it.

It's certainly not cool to pressure a girl into sending you shit. If she likes you enough, she'll volunteer...

But yeah, sharing pictures has helped me finally be more comfortable with my own body, with having to look at it every day and share it with someone else.

There you go... making sure you send them to the right person is a big deal, too. Let's hope these girls are old enough to work that bit out.
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LOL. My best friend was 12 when she was sexually assaulted by a 20 year-old. Unlike you, she moved on in life, and to this day she is the most sane, coolest girl I know. She never went the "poor me" route...she never dove head-first in to alcohol or drugs...she never mopes around looking for attention...she never entered abusive relationships...she has never been promiscuous, yet she's not "afraid" of sex...no. She just recently graduated college and has a great boyfriend that I absolutely approve of because he is a nice and caring guy that I now hang out with.

And here you are talking about how you were pressured in to "sexting." That is some funny and benign shit compared to what my friend went through, yet you seem to dwell on that shit.
 
Hepheastus420

Hepheastus420

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pron said:
LOL. My best friend was 12 when she was sexually assaulted by a 20 year-old. Unlike you, she moved on in life, and to this day she is the most sane, coolest girl I know. She never went the "poor me" route...she never dove head-first in to alcohol or drugs...she never mopes around looking for attention...she never entered abusive relationships...she has never been promiscuous, yet she's not "afraid" of sex...no. She just recently graduated college and has a great boyfriend that I absolutely approve of because he is a nice and caring guy that I now hang out with.

And here you are talking about how you were pressured in to "sexting." That is some funny and benign shit compared to what my friend went through, yet you seem to dwell on that shit.
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Why would you laugh out loud and then say your friend was sexually assaulted at such a young age? Just bad timing I guess.

It might have scarred kuroi more than your friend. How do you know your friend doesn't think about it at night when she wakes up from nightmares? Some people are just better at hiding it than others.
 
Urca

Urca

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pron said:
LOL. My best friend was 12 when she was sexually assaulted by a 20 year-old. Unlike you, she moved on in life, and to this day she is the most sane, coolest girl I know. She never went the "poor me" route...she never dove head-first in to alcohol or drugs...she never mopes around looking for attention...she never entered abusive relationships...she has never been promiscuous, yet she's not "afraid" of sex...no. She just recently graduated college and has a great boyfriend that I absolutely approve of because he is a nice and caring guy that I now hang out with.

And here you are talking about how you were pressured in to "sexting." That is some funny and benign shit compared to what my friend went through, yet you seem to dwell on that shit.
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troll. like seriously. why attack her? thats not the only thing bad that happened to her sexually, but you wouldnt know that because you havent been around for a while. either way it gives you no right to talk to her like that
 
Metasynth

Metasynth

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Hepheastus420 said:
kiss-ass :-P
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Hey, I'm one to admit that I liked Crypt more than most people I've met here. Got a problem with that? Don't fucking care. You're just a little kid who wants to be a man, and pretends to be grown up. I'm not saying you don't make valid points, or contribute to intelligent conversation, but you try too hard.
 
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xKuroiTaimax

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pron said:
LOL. My best friend was 12 when she was sexually assaulted by a 20 year-old. Unlike you, she moved on in life, and to this day she is the most sane, coolest girl I know. She never went the "poor me" route...she never dove head-first in to alcohol or drugs...she never mopes around looking for attention...she never entered abusive relationships...she has never been promiscuous, yet she's not "afraid" of sex...no. She just recently graduated college and has a great boyfriend that I absolutely approve of because he is a nice and caring guy that I now hang out with.

And here you are talking about how you were pressured in to "sexting." That is some funny and benign shit compared to what my friend went through, yet you seem to dwell on that shit.
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Do. not. make. me. go. into. it. because it will piss people off here. Did it happen to you? NO Do you know me? NO? Do you know even half the shit I've been through? NO. If I DID tell you everything out here to 'justify myself', it'd only give you another excuse to accuse me of having a pity party. Seems the only people who can comment on a topic like this are the ones who aren't at the center of it. So kindly STFU.

The other members who have more than 35 posts know some of this history, yes I have been known to have drama and meltdowns over these sorts of topics before, which is why I am sucking it up and admitting I am screwed up instead of trying to justify and rationalize how I behave sometimes.

Do you have any idea what kind of twisted relationship the sexting between a minor and an adult entails? DO you know how they make you Feel that if you don't comply, you are bad or something is wrong with you? How the worm their way into your head and make you think they are your special friend and if you'd just do this for them they will care for you more? That you can't tell your ma or daddy because 'they wouldn't understand' and you wouldn't want to get your 'special friend' in trouble? THat they make it so you feel like you 'owe' them every part of you? That you feel like you're somebody's pet?

Bottom line is sexual abuse at a young age fucks kids up. It fucks up your perception of what is acceptable and unacceptable; which you cannot deny leaves a kid feeling freaked out, used, confused and trying to get their head around some weird feelings. Then you get desensitized on one hand and feel extreme shame on the other.

If you want details we'll take that shit to PM. But don't you fucking tell me how I should feel and how I should deal with it unless you've been there.
 
Metasynth

Metasynth

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Metasynth said:
Hey, I'm one to admit that I liked Crypt more than most people I've met here. Got a problem with that? Don't fucking care. You're just a little kid who wants to be a man, and pretends to be grown up. I'm not saying you don't make valid points, or contribute to intelligent conversation, but you try too hard.
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"Wa'h wa'h...Why you always gotta bring up my age, it's not a valid point..."

Cry to someone who gives 2 shits, you ignorant little fuck.
 
Padawanbater2

Padawanbater2

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pron said:
LOL. My best friend was 12 when she was sexually assaulted by a 20 year-old. Unlike you, she moved on in life, and to this day she is the most sane, coolest girl I know. She never went the "poor me" route...she never dove head-first in to alcohol or drugs...she never mopes around looking for attention...she never entered abusive relationships...she has never been promiscuous, yet she's not "afraid" of sex...no. She just recently graduated college and has a great boyfriend that I absolutely approve of because he is a nice and caring guy that I now hang out with.

And here you are talking about how you were pressured in to "sexting." That is some funny and benign shit compared to what my friend went through, yet you seem to dwell on that shit.
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lol straight tripping, bro.. Different circumstances for different people..
 
Trolling

Trolling

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Metasynth said:
Hey, I'm one to admit that I liked Crypt more than most people I've met here. Got a problem with that? Don't fucking care. You're just a little kid who wants to be a man, and pretends to be grown up. I'm not saying you don't make valid points, or contribute to intelligent conversation, but you try too hard.
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So hostile.
 
april

april

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Metasynth said:
"Wa'h wa'h...Why you always gotta bring up my age, it's not a valid point..."

Cry to someone who gives 2 shits, you ignorant little fuck.
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Did u just quote urself and yell an urself? lmfao aww u got the good shit don't u ;) lol
 
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xKuroiTaimax

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Hep does seems to like him, but sorry I brought him back up, don't attack Hep... Remember you guys trolled the fuck out of him for being his sweet self, now he's trying too hard.. No one wins on the internet.

Back on topic, what constitutes a child in child pornography when there are 15 year olds that look much older? Is it just about pigeonholing cases and deeming material incriminating because of the degree of explicit content? Is the age making it illegal the only thing that rings alarm bells? Or is anyone thinking about emotional impact (or lack thereof) may a 17 year old with a healthy monogamous relationship likes sending a few cheeky nudey shots to her loving and supportive boyfriend. That's totally the other end of the scale compared to something like another 13 year old with an adult. THAT kind of shit needs the law to step in. I was about to say these things need to be handled on a case by case basis but that involves alot of rifling through one's private collection...

@Meta We used to get psychosis cheese here all the time... it's been a while. Let us all smoke and calm down..
 
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