chrishydro
Well-Known Member
eeewwww I just googled this, yike, gross.
Why are men so much more open about their fap material? Not really talking about people (everyone discusses people they find attractive without necessarily saying 'I get my rocks off to this') but men talk about masturbating so much and don't feel like. It's something that should be done in secret or makes them 'bad'... The reaction to women discussing sex toys conjures thoughts of the words 'harlot' and 'deviant'... I'm not saying it's wrong, but Why is that?
I'll go a step further and say its definitely wrong to enact that double standard. we all have to get over the moral hangups we've been taught to have about sex. not saying we should all be fucking all the time, i'm just saying talking about sex needs to become de-taboo'd, and value judgements placed on the attendant sexual behaviors and conversations need to be withheld from the decision making process (meaning, you can judge someone negatively for their personal sexual preferences and actions, but you can't act to restrict them coercively. It would seem ok to offer such persons the opening to communicate about what is perceived to be deviant behavior, but, nothing beyond that).Why are men so much more open about their fap material? Not really talking about people (everyone discusses people they find attractive without necessarily saying 'I get my rocks off to this') but men talk about masturbating so much and don't feel like. It's something that should be done in secret or makes them 'bad'... The reaction to women discussing sex toys conjures thoughts of the words 'harlot' and 'deviant'... I'm not saying it's wrong, but Why is that?
In total honesty, are you serious?You are feeding the fire. in some circles this could be coded message for lets hook up! fap![]()
The code? yes.In total honesty, are you serious?
hey i popped one of those when i was a kid...
I wouldnt say females discussing masturbation is deviant, this ain't the 50's any more Hun. Me and my ex would watch each other play with ourselves. It's much less looked down on than you may think. I mean maybe not in your community...Why are men so much more open about their fap material? Not really talking about people (everyone discusses people they find attractive without necessarily saying 'I get my rocks off to this') but men talk about masturbating so much and don't feel like. It's something that should be done in secret or makes them 'bad'... The reaction to women discussing sex toys conjures thoughts of the words 'harlot' and 'deviant'... I'm not saying it's wrong, but Why is that?
Omg i remember those from when i was a kid, except i never thought i could use them in that way hahahey i popped one of those when i was a kid...