soul mates

sandiegojack2

sandiegojack2

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I've been married to my sweety for over 35 years and she may now have hasimoto's encephilitis but we are as close as ever! She can't walk alone so we hold hands and allway's walk together! I quit working to come home and care for my love about 1 1/2 years ago...we spend every waking hour together, I get her up in the late morning bath and dress her and we hug. We go upstairs and I get her morning med's ready and we blow dry her hair, shave her light hair growth under her perky nose, and I go make her breakfast. After that we take our mut for a walk, short but take's an hour or so, we go home and my sweety nod's off..with her disease you don't blink so you can only keep your eye's open a shot time! I get her up and take her to the bathroom... she goe's back up stair's smile's at me and fade's away....lunch....dinner....more med's and get her ready for bed it's only 7:30 pm....I am still in love with her as much as when we first met. Our quality of life is not what it should be at this point in our live's but we still have each other true soul mates. jack
 
Tenner

Tenner

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sandiegojack2 said:
I've been married to my sweety for over 35 years and she may now have hasimoto's encephilitis but we are as close as ever! She can't walk alone so we hold hands and allway's walk together! I quit working to come home and care for my love about 1 1/2 years ago...we spend every waking hour together, I get her up in the late morning bath and dress her and we hug. We go upstairs and I get her morning med's ready and we blow dry her hair, shave her light hair growth under her perky nose, and I go make her breakfast. After that we take our mut for a walk, short but take's an hour or so, we go home and my sweety nod's off..with her disease you don't blink so you can only keep your eye's open a shot time! I get her up and take her to the bathroom... she goe's back up stair's smile's at me and fade's away....lunch....dinner....more med's and get her ready for bed it's only 7:30 pm....I am still in love with her as much as when we first met. Our quality of life is not what it should be at this point in our live's but we still have each other true soul mates. jack
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That is fantastic, it sounds like a movie... Lovely to read this :)
 
Tenner

Tenner

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My brother (1 year older) used to be my soulmate, spent every damn hour together we used to joke about going to the shitter together to not break the convo :D Don`t see him much now that I`m at university...

I broke up from my girlfriend... 4 and a half years, been two months now... Urghhh

I`m the mate of my own soul! :) (at the moment)
 
sandiegojack2

sandiegojack2

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It'l happen it's just realizing it that's hard....move on your primal instinct's, we all have them! Keep smiling my friend!
 
Tenner

Tenner

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sandiegojack2 said:
That's awesome tenner! keep the bond strong! school's temporary live is for ever!
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Cheers mate yah thats the thing with soulmates, once that bond is built you simply know what the other person is gonna say before they say it, or know what they mean at the same time or even before they know it... Its amazing, being in syncronicity :)
 
Winter Woman

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Tenner said:
My brother (1 year older) used to be my soulmate, spent every damn hour together we used to joke about going to the shitter together to not break the convo :D Don`t see him much now that I`m at university...

I broke up from my girlfriend... 4 and a half years, been two months now... Urghhh

I`m the mate of my own soul! :) (at the moment)
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My brother and I have been friends foooooreveeeeerrrr. Love him to pieces. Thank God our spouses get along.

We talk everyday several times, see each other every other day. The good news is he is moving to FLA too! He told me yesterday, he is going to shortsale his homes and move. Life is good right now.
 
Tenner

Tenner

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Winter Woman said:
My brother and I have been friends foooooreveeeeerrrr. Love him to pieces. Thank God our spouses get along.

We talk everyday several times, see each other every other day. The good news is he is moving to FLA too! He told me yesterday, he is going to shortsale his homes and move. Life is good right now.
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Yah nothing like brothers and sisters being friends, its great... Also if you never spoke to him for a while, as soon as you do it will just automatically *click*, and when it does its amazing to just feel how both of you are aware of this and are bonding like the speed of light... :)

I wish I could talk to mine every day! 20 days and counting... So excited!! :)
 
Hepheastus420

Hepheastus420

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So you guys actually believe in soul mates? I'm not sure if I do.. I mean what if brad pitt came and told your gf/wife that he loved her with all his heart.. don't you think she would leave you? I'm probably wrong (hopefully) but that's the way I see it.
 
Tenner

Tenner

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Hepheastus420 said:
So you guys actually believe in soul mates? I'm not sure if I do.. I mean what if brad pitt came and told your gf/wife that he loved her with all his heart.. don't you think she would leave you? I'm probably wrong (hopefully) but that's the way I see it.
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Nah man thats way too black and white. I would see Brad Pitt as just a living image which is most accepted by all of us to register `sexy` & `cool`. And thats why he is the way he is, to be sexy and cool. In my eyes, that makes him a bit shallow.

I obviously can`t deny he is sexy or cool, but to go out with an image is to just please your ego... And its not that simple, you can`t just love someone with all your heart by saying you love them with all your heart. But then again, this depends on the depth of your relationship with your wife :)

Have more belief in love... Soulmates are two people who find exactly what they want in each other, let it be friend or partner. Like our mind is full of symbols and triggers, when they all match up in a certain way (while you each fulfill each other) and you know each other enough you will become soulmates. i.e what triggers the other person will trigger you, and you both want to be triggered in that certain way, let it be `lad banter` or `love` :)

But this stuff can`t be reduced to the technicalities above, you will know when you have a soulmate! Even if your a `mad max` style guy who likes to be alone, you can find someone who likes an equal distance and thus be soulmates... You will simply get on really really well :)

I strongly belive that personality goes as far as a foundation between two peoples to be soulmates. Good things take time to build... Like pyrainds maan :)

If I was the husband and a hot girl came along, I wouldn`t be that shallow to just walk off. I also would be too strange in interests & behaviour etc to attract some plastic doll :)
 
PixiDustr

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i met my soul mate on July 21, 1995, we were engaged aug 21, we met in person sept 23, he moved to my state october 7, we were married nov 17, 1995. He died April 2, 1999. I just knew in my heart we didn't have much time. I miss him every day. I know there is an afterlife and we will be together again. He leaves me pennies to let me know he's looking out for me. On my birthday it's usually a dime or a quarter...he always was a big spender! The day he died my sister was sitting with me in my living room a couple of hours after. The tv was on just for 'noise'. He loved TV and this set was his pride and joy, but about a year before he died the red color went out and everything was green and black. While we were sitting there the tv turned off by itself. Then it turned back on. Then it turned back off. My sister and I just looked at each other and said, "Barrie!". And I said to my sister, "Well if it was him the least he could do was make it full color." At that point, I went and layed down and my sister left. A couple hours later I got up and went into the living room my daughter was watching tv. She says to me, "Do you see it?" and I said, "What?" She exclaims, "The TV SET! It's full color!" And it stayed that way for three days until the morning of his memorial service. Two weeks after he died, I had a dream about him. I asked him what it was like to die. He told me he had never felt greater love! No way did that come from my subconscious. My only fear of dying is leaving my daughter and grandson. I'm not afraid to go be with the only man I ever loved.
 
Hepheastus420

Hepheastus420

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Tenner said:
Nah man thats way too black and white. I would see Brad Pitt as just a living image which is most accepted by all of us to register `sexy` & `cool`. And thats why he is the way he is, to be sexy and cool. In my eyes, that makes him a bit shallow.

I obviously can`t deny he is sexy or cool, but to go out with an image is to just please your ego... And its not that simple, you can`t just love someone with all your heart by saying you love them with all your heart. But then again, this depends on the depth of your relationship with your wife :)

Have more belief in love... Soulmates are two people who find exactly what they want in each other, let it be friend or partner. Like our mind is full of symbols and triggers, when they all match up in a certain way (while you each fulfill each other) and you know each other enough you will become soulmates. i.e what triggers the other person will trigger you, and you both want to be triggered in that certain way, let it be `lad banter` or `love` :)

But this stuff can`t be reduced to the technicalities above, you will know when you have a soulmate! Even if your a `mad max` style guy who likes to be alone, you can find someone who likes an equal distance and thus be soulmates... You will simply get on really really well :)

I strongly belive that personality goes as far as a foundation between two peoples to be soulmates. Good things take time to build... Like pyrainds maan :)

If I was the husband and a hot girl came along, I wouldn`t be that shallow to just walk off. I also would be too strange in interests & behaviour etc to attract some plastic doll :)
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That's the thing though, I strongly believe people are extremely shallow. Like I've asked alot of people what they would think of their spouse if they were 200 more lbs.. they all thought about it and were like hmm. It should be a automatic "I'll love them forever no matter what" thing, but it's not. I once thought I found my soul mate. She left me for my friend who's honestly better looking than me. He talks to her like she's trash all day but she doesn't care. I never talked to her like that but it didn't matter because she's shallow. I've seen the same thing that happened to me happen to alot of different people.

I guess I'll believe it if it ever happens to me.
 
PixiDustr

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My husband was 600 lbs when I met him. I was 115. He had to be that big to hold his heart!
Hepheastus420 said:
That's the thing though, I strongly believe people are extremely shallow. Like I've asked alot of people what they would think of their spouse if they were 200 more lbs.. they all thought about it and were like hmm. It should be a automatic "I'll love them forever no matter what" thing, but it's not. I once thought I found my soul mate. She left me for my friend who's honestly better looking than me. He talks to her like she's trash all day but she doesn't care. I never talked to her like that but it didn't matter because she's shallow. I've seen the same thing that happened to me happen to alot of different people.

I guess I'll believe it if it ever happens to me.
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Hepheastus420

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PixiDustr said:
i met my soul mate on July 21, 1995, we were engaged aug 21, we met in person sept 23, he moved to my state october 7, we were married nov 17, 1995. He died April 2, 1999. I just knew in my heart we didn't have much time. I miss him every day. I know there is an afterlife and we will be together again. He leaves me pennies to let me know he's looking out for me. On my birthday it's usually a dime or a quarter...he always was a big spender! The day he died my sister was sitting with me in my living room a couple of hours after. The tv was on just for 'noise'. He loved TV and this set was his pride and joy, but about a year before he died the red color went out and everything was green and black. While we were sitting there the tv turned off by itself. Then it turned back on. Then it turned back off. My sister and I just looked at each other and said, "Barrie!". And I said to my sister, "Well if it was him the least he could do was make it full color." At that point, I went and layed down and my sister left. A couple hours later I got up and went into the living room my daughter was watching tv. She says to me, "Do you see it?" and I said, "What?" She exclaims, "The TV SET! It's full color!" And it stayed that way for three days until the morning of his memorial service. Two weeks after he died, I had a dream about him. I asked him what it was like to die. He told me he had never felt greater love! No way did that come from my subconscious. My only fear of dying is leaving my daughter and grandson. I'm not afraid to go be with the only man I ever loved.
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Being completely honest, your story gave me goosebumps.. I would be creeped out :). But if ghosts are real, your husband is a very sweet one.
 
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