any1 else have rude parents?

cannabineer

Ursus marijanus
When you directly told your parents about the breathing thing, how did they respond?

Also, DelSlow's questions are good ones ... answers? cn
 

inlovewiththc

Active Member
When you directly told your parents about the breathing thing, how did they respond?

Also, DelSlow's questions are good ones ... answers? cn
When i told them about it, they say they dont hear anything
they hear it and i know for a fact they hear it. it happens literally before i fall asleep. i cant even think in my own house cuz they can hear me think. not my thoughts but like when im thinking. my dad is depriving me of sleep cuz he mocks me even at like 3 am he can hear it. today i went to bed at 10am because thats when they went out to buy some stuff. even my dog makes a noise now when he hears this and i think its because he learnt it from seeing my dad do it to much.
 

Orithil

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Parents are merely the biological derivative from whence you came. Personality, attitude, prejudices..these are all built in by life experiences. It's why we're not our parents, and why I think family is far more than blood.

If you think your parents suck, figure out how to get out of that house. I mean, honestly if you're not going to work towards doing something different, there's no reason to complain.
 

inlovewiththc

Active Member
Are these your bio parents? One would think that if you grew up with them speaking a non-English tongue, even from time to time, you'd have picked up the basics. cn
yea since birth. and no just a couple words but i cant understand theyre full on sentences. but i know theyre not good other wise it would just be in english..
 

inlovewiththc

Active Member
Parents are merely the biological derivative from whence you came. Personality, attitude, prejudices..these are all built in by life experiences. It's why we're not our parents, and why I think family is far more than blood.

If you think your parents suck, figure out how to get out of that house. I mean, honestly if you're not going to work towards doing something different, there's no reason to complain.
i have tried, but i have no place to stay and dont want to bother my friends and shit cuz if i did that they would have to sort out my appts and shit and i dont think they need too. my friends are real good buds and theyre there for me, but i need to know how to deal with things on my own
 

Orithil

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i have tried, but i have no place to stay and dont want to bother my friends and shit cuz if i did that they would have to sort out my appts and shit and i dont think they need too. my friends are real good buds and theyre there for me, but i need to know how to deal with things on my own
You know that government that loves to screw us? Use them. Dept. of Human Services, the 911 number. Fuck your parents and what they want, you're an individual that has to do what you have to do...and to hell with the rest.
 

inlovewiththc

Active Member
seek psychiatric help.
i did and the psyciatrist just said i was thinking too much. but hes an idiot. its not my thinking thats bothering me its literally my breathing, cuz when i think hard i breath hard. and its impossible not to think... u kno what i mean
 

DelSlow

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Maybe go to a free clinic? I don't know where you're at but you don't need insurance (I think). Just walk in, but there will probably a long line.
 

Samwell Seed Well

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need to rationalize being positive

you have anxiety becuase you put effort into solving or thinking about events and issues or thoughts that dont have an end

the more you make time to rationalize that life is ok and will get better the easeir it will get

and the more comfertable in your reality you will be

taking away most but not all anxiety

its your job to not let negative or repetativ e thougts consume you . . . .. .

but if you cant then maybe there is somthing else that is at the heart of your anxiety

good luck anxiety is not easy to beat but with exercise and effort you can control it
 

inlovewiththc

Active Member
what does your resident physician say about the breathing? need a cpap?
he said do breathing exercises. and its not helping. cuz its my lungs are weak and no docs want to listen because they think its only when im thinking so they thought it was anxiety. but its really not. 1 docter even prescribed anxity meds and they made me feel sick
 

YaK

just some guy
Arrange a family therapy session. cn
even better! and discuss these things that you mention here, no matter how hard you breathe. Maybe they think you are faking it for attention.

Perhaps try meditation, there are a lot of good books about meditation.
 
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