any1 else have rude parents?

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inlovewiththc

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k it just might be me thinking my parents are rude and its all just in my head. but u guys be the judge.
so about 6 months ago i got an infection in my leg caused me to be paralyzed for a bit and now the healing process is really messed.
my breathing has a horrible pattern and it comes at random, so everytime i breathe loud my parents and brother will cough or make some sort of noise so that i stop breathing hard.. idk why that happens but it does. so i asked my parents why theyre doing that and they say that theyre not doing anything and its all in my head. when i know for a fact that its my breathing which is making them do that and they still deny it.. and even my docters asked my parents if they hear anything and they denyed it. so basically theyre taking the bare minimum with my docters and dont really care about the appointments. like when i was in the hospital cuz i couldnt move my mom was there but i was asking her to leave cuz she wasnt doing anything to help. but she still stayed. i think she just stayed there in the hospital just incase anyone came.. i still think that it was kind of stupid.
so what do u guys think? am i being irrational or are my parents doing the right thing. i hate to say my parents are wrong, but latley they have been real assholes to me and do nothing to my brother. im 18 and hes almost 20. like wtf?
 
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i have been to the docters about my breathing and they say its anxity but it couldnt be, cuz i really dont give a fuck. its just cuz of my accident i twitch and stuff a lot. so im not even able to maintain eye contact because i twitch at the person and i die a little inside..
my breathing really doesnt help because people mock and really get disturbed by it. but its not like i would ask that person why they are mocking me. but i atleast think my parents should acknowledge somethings wrong with me and tell the docters but insted they want me to live with my symptoms without any medical attention and just get thru life like this. which is impossible because ive been by myself for almost 8 months now. within that 8 months i have probly only been out 6 times max.
i really dont think they treat me like a son and more like they absolutly dont give a fuck
 
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inlovewiththc

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what should i do? im in an enviorment where im starting to hate my family. its not good, but i know it happens. and it just hapens to be i dont like where im living. really i need some advice.
 
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inlovewiththc

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tomrow my family is comming over for easter and i still have this issue an i know its going to annoy every1. i really think im going to have a peptic ulcer or a heart attack because im not getting the help that i need
 
DelSlow

DelSlow

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Maybe they are scared of you dying so this is their strange way of coping? By denying that there's anything is wrong with you?
 
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inlovewiththc

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^ no man its like theyre 2faced. they mock and shit when i cant c them but when i c them they dont even make eye contact. they just look down and talk to each other in a different languge. i want to run away but i have no where to go
 
mysunnyboy

mysunnyboy

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Wordz said:
Are your balls paralyzed?
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i believe you are hacking riu

good luck with your parents OP. i think i know how you feel. my parents weren't winners either. just be yourself and persevere despite others. you'll find out later that they are just humans and probably aren't very happy people :peace:
 
DelSlow

DelSlow

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inlovewiththc said:
^ no man its like theyre 2faced. they mock and shit when i cant c them but when i c them they dont even make eye contact. they just look down and talk to each other in a different languge. i want to run away but i have no where to go
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What language? Are you taking medication?
 
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Wordz

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inlovewiththc said:
^ no man its like theyre 2faced. they mock and shit when i cant c them but when i c them they dont even make eye contact. they just look down and talk to each other in a different languge. i want to run away but i have no where to go
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​When you say things like this it leads me to believe there are other problems present.
 
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inlovewiththc

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Wordz said:
​If I was you I'd start smoking in the house. Tell em to fuck off
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they dont even care that i smoke. like i smoke in the bathroom, they wouldnt even know i smoked cuz u wouldnt smell anything. i do it respectfully but they still treat me like a dick. my dad is a drunk and im starting to think my mom is a dumb broad. its really harsh to say but its just how it is. i feel no love in this house
 
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inlovewiththc

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Wordz said:
​When you say things like this it leads me to believe there are other problems present.
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not guna lie i wasnt the best kid but i still didnt do anything to them personally. there are no other problems. i dont do anything now, i quit hazing cuz im on my t-break and waitin for my bud to finish his plants. lol
 
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inlovewiththc

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DelSlow said:
Well, then you have some heartless parents dood. Can any of your friends or other relatives take you?
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i would ask but im too embarresed because of my breathing. and i did have some medication but they stopped working and my parents wont make an appointment because my docter made an appointment to see my in 8 months for a follow up. i have been to other docters but i dont think they wanna fuck around cuz my case is serious and they just want the resident docter to call the shots and meds
 
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