Well at least you're getting to hear what people really think. To you're face, you'd just get lies. That's an improvement (i guess).
You can't have a real conversation with someone unless they are being honest, otherwise it's all just pointless. Personally, I'd rather people just say there fucked up backwards beliefs rather than just have them think them and lie to your face. That's just my preference though.
i believe ALL men are created equal. i believe ALL men can succeed in life. i believe in black people.