xKuroiTaimax
Well-Known Member
Hmm, I think Cannabineer is right after thinking about it.
I was with a guy once who kept telling me about his fantasies and calling me at all hours of the night. He was one of my closest friends- knew me inside out and vice versa. He would only open up to me and he even spent 7 hours in a police station supporting my case for me blah blah. He kept getting me alone and start on me, then stopping to say how 'It wouldn't be right' in much the same 'protective' fashion as Urca's FWB. We did end up sleeping together for a while and still carried on as friends like normal apart from the fact he wanted it kept secret. I think the bottom line is a man trying to cover his back. Something is holding him back that e doesn't want to deal with. In my case, he didn't want to date me, but didn't want to be known as the prick who took advantage of a girl wrapped around his little finger. That happened anyway and now everyone hates him.
I'm not sure what the deal is with Urca's FWB though. He could genuinely be worried about her being uncomfortable or regretting it or there is some reason he feels he doesn't want to go there or he will feel guilty or something for sleeping with her. Maybe to him 'it's all okay' as long as they don't actually have penetrating sex. I could be overthinking it, but that's what comes to mind from personal experience. Cannabineer, I can't Rep you right now
