Should Prostitution Be Legal?

[Morgan Lynn]

It's amazing the different opinions regarding one's gender and how outspoken they are about their sexuality.

I'm glad you just came out and said you would do it. I'm really torn- it's upsetting why some women end up in the sex industry, but at the same time shouldn't they be able to say 'I want to be paid for giving myself to men'?


I don't know. It's cool for men to be sexually charged but not women... Unless sex is their proffesion...

...So logically, if women want freedom, we should all become prostitutes...? 0_o;

I think people look too far into morality. What one person does does not reflect on every single person. We are all different with different views on life and morality. I find regulated prostitution to be fine and I do not find it upsetting for women to enter the sex industry. As long as they are level headed and understand what they are doing and that it cannot be erased.

Personally, I would pose nude for money. I would never have sex for money.

Telling a women she is wronging the entire gender for showing her body is more chauvinistic than anything else. I think most feminists back peddle themselves.

 

[lambofgod]

I think people look too far into morality. What one person does does not reflect on every single person. We are all different with different views on life and morality. I find regulated prostitution to be fine and I do not find it upsetting for women to enter the sex industry. As long as they are level headed and understand what they are doing and that it cannot be erased.

Personally, I would pose nude for money. I would never have sex for money.

Telling a women she is wronging the entire gender for showing her body is more chauvinistic than anything else. I think most feminists back peddle themselves.

...your price?

 

[xKuroiTaimax]

I think people look too far into morality. What one person does does not reflect on every single person. We are all different with different views on life and morality. I find regulated prostitution to be fine and I do not find it upsetting for women to enter the sex industry. As long as they are level headed and understand what they are doing and that it cannot be erased.

Personally, I would pose nude for money. I would never have sex for money.

Telling a women she is wronging the entire gender for showing her body is more chauvinistic than anything else. I think most feminists back peddle themselves.

I agree with your last statement. I couldn't believe how in one thread guys were sharing dirty photos whilst in another they were complaining women were no good skanks. I wonder though if try even regard prostitutes as women. Maybe prostitutes are prostitutes and for sex and women are exclusively housewives who should button up their shirts and cook. It's impossible to have a nice decent, intelligent woman who embraces (and let's others embrace) her body without someone saying something really negative.

But what I meant about ending up in the sex industry being sad was alot of women subjected to sexual abuse shy away from all sexual contact. But also many, having lost control, ownership and respect for their own bodies end up whores. It is all they know to submit to a man's will, or they try to regain control of their sexuality by putting themselves in a line of work where they are saying 'I am here to have sex with alot of men, but at least it's my choice to do this'. I thin alot of prostitutes have a certain degree of self-loathing and a desire for what feels briefly like real intimacy.

And then there's the separate issue of human trafficking...

 

[bumblebeejay]

Should prostitution be legal? YES!!! I trade weed for pussy!

1/4 ounce for a blowjob

1 ounce for full service pussy.....

 

[Luger187]

YES. and not the street walking petrie dishes that we called whores. I mean like legal clean regulated brothels.I'll tell you how I arrived at my conclusion on why legal prostitution is beneficial.

My sister works at an assisted living home. She sees these old men and women who have lost their wives or husbands and are VERY, I repeat, VERY lonely. She constantly gets hit on, they touch her, and masturbate infront of her. My sister and I were on my porch a few weeks ago drinkin a beer and smoking a bowl and she was talking about how these men are so horny. I said "they need hookers". She very quickly responded "YES!". These people are so lonely and, by human nature, like to fuck. We all like to fuck. Just because they are old and need some oxygen doesn't mean they can't fuck. They need clean regulated prostitutes (male and female) to come in and give it to them and satisfy them.


I know I would be absolutely miserable if I knew I would never get some ass again in my life. Wouldn't you?

i totally think thats a good idea. some guys continue to be horny well into their 80s haha. people seem to think everything goes away after like 60

 

[medicalmaryjane]

i don't think there's anyway to make it safe enough for the women to take the risk. what if the condom breaks? it's unsafe but if people choose to do it, that's their business. i would never have sex 4 money and i would never want to sleep with man who have paid for sex. i am sure most men have paid for it at one time or another but to me, that's pretty low if you cna't get laid without paying. women are pretty easy these days.

 

[Luger187]

i don't think there's anyway to make it safe enough for the women to take the risk. what if the condom breaks? it's unsafe but if people choose to do it, that's their business. i would never have sex 4 money and i would never want to sleep with man who have paid for sex. i am sure most men have paid for it at one time or another but to me, that's pretty low if you cna't get laid without paying. women are pretty easy these days.

women do it now with WAY more risk on the streets. they get beat up and addicted to drugs.
its easier to go to a brothel and pay for sex than it is to go to a bar, buy some chick drinks, slip a roofie in one, then drag her to your car, etc.

 

[gfreeman]

I think its hilarious how some things are legal, and some are not. Alot of laws make sense. alot do not.

I think if theres a safe regulated industry, were both parties can be safe. Than so be it. Prohibiting some things only drives them into a darker more dangerous corner. It doesnt eradicate it.
Look at the bunny ranch in NV. idk if its still there but you could come in, and choose from over 20 dames to sit and discuss prices, fetishes and hat not. Completely legit. Alot of it gets the man bad attention for paying for sex, but the woman also has to lower herself into accepting money for sex. so its really one of those, if they want to i guess type things.

Its happening anyway, only the pimps today have girls as young as 12 on there menus and they often get abused and raped. SOoo i ould rather mr nasty pays a decent woman to have sex with instead of mrnasty visiting mr scum to visit the 12y.o whos crack hore mother sold her into prostitution. i mean cmon man, hoes around here get good cash until they hit there "legal" age and by then there so far gone on drugs and stds that there only good for 5/10 bjs. so make your call america, legalize and regulate or prohibit and incarcerate. either way its not goingaway.

 

[medicalmaryjane]

women do it now with WAY more risk on the streets. they get beat up and addicted to drugs.
its easier to go to a brothel and pay for sex than it is to go to a bar, buy some chick drinks, slip a roofie in one, then drag her to your car, etc.

well i guess if those are your only options, i'd pay too but usually people have female friends who they have little flings with or people are in relationships. if a guy dates a girl a few times, she will prbably give it up...

 

[Airwave]

. i am sure most men have paid for it at one time or another

Nope. Not even close. It's only a small minority of the whole that actually pay for it.

 

[zvuv]

I think people look too far into morality.

And it's none of their damn business!

I have confused feelings about whether it's 'ok' for a woman to be a prostitute.

I strongly believe that if a woman chooses to be a sex worker that's her right but I have a hard time feeling neutral about it. My feeling is that an important aspect of sex is intimacy. To sell something that important and precious for money seems like it can't be good for the soul.

OTH look at the other things that people do for money. They sell their time - what is more precious than time; They often have to suffer humiliation and even abuse at work. They fake friendliness and other emotions just to get along or make a sale. How many people spend years in unhappy relationships and having sex with someone they dont like any more? What about people like nurses and doctors who's job it is to be compassionate and caring? They are human too. There must be times that they think, 'this asshole would be better off dead' but treat him with kindness and compassion anyway.

Truth is, that we all have to lie and betray ourselves to a greater or lesser extent just to get along in society, especialy when it comes to making a living. A prostitute just specializes in one area.

 

[Shannon Alexander]

If you look at the cost of running a successful long term relationship it'd probably be cheaper to visit a prostitute a couple of times a week to get your rocks off anyway... Relationships aren't cheap and with all the stuff you end up buying and paying for, for your partner it really is prostitution but on a payment plan...

 

[gfreeman]

lol. after a couple years together sex is a once a week to once a month affair. especially with kids, one barely has sex. between her job, my job, school AND the kids. sex has become nothing but a mere fantasy in which we occassionaly indulge. lol

 

[zvuv]

....i would never want to sleep with man who have paid for sex. i am sure most men have paid for it at one time or another but to me, that's pretty low if you cna't get laid without paying. women are pretty easy these days.

I wonder if this is true? Men tend to talk openly among themselves about sex and I can't say I have ever anyone talk about going to a prostitute except a just a couple of times in internet forums.
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This study states says about 16% and is probably more concetrated in some segments of the population than others, which would explain why I personaly have never encountered it. If it were most men, I'm sure I would have heard more about it.

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or more men had patronized prostitutes during their lives,
recent methodologically sound research provides a very different picture. The National Health and Social
Life Survey, conducted in 1992 using a nationally representative sample, found that only about 16% of men​

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the U.S. had ever visited a prostitute, and that only about .6% of men in the U.S visit prostitutes each
year. Further, the percentage of men whose first sexual experience was with a prostitute declined among​

men who came of age in the 1990's (1.5%) in comparison to men who came of age in the 1950's (7%).

 

[gfreeman]

Because the fact is, prostitutes on the streets now and days are nothing but nasty drug users. i get approached all the time by them at my apartments. there not hot, there past the 30-40s (hard to tell bc they live such harmful lives that they age so fast). most have that nasty beer gut going on. this hoes are not the nice rappervideo dancer girls, these girls are raw, dirty nasty ugly. this is why most men dont fuck a prostitute. and i think all the attractive bitches given up there pussy for cash or drugs, are only giving it up to the drug dealer himself or his close network. but nice pussy doesnt last long in the hoe-game.

we had some young cats picking up whores just to fuck with them. scray thing really, but most people i know just go to the local titty bars where any dancer will go home with you after the right amount of tips and alcohol. Most of the young cats i know do this, and show me there endeavors via there i phone. hoes they pick up from tha titty bar and go home to act a damn fool. fkn sluts. lol

 

[Luger187]

well i guess if those are your only options, i'd pay too but usually people have female friends who they have little flings with or people are in relationships. if a guy dates a girl a few times, she will prbably give it up...

maybe he just wants to cum in something and doesnt want to deal with the other bullshit

 

[Shannon Alexander]

maybe he just wants to cum in something and doesnt want to deal with the other bullshit

I had a girl I could do that with a while ago...It only lasted about 6 months tho, I guess she felt guilty about cheating on her boyfriend...

 

[Specialboy]

Personally, I would pose nude for money.

Hey Morgan do you have a paypal account?

 

[Morgan Lynn]

I agree with your last statement. I couldn't believe how in one thread guys were sharing dirty photos whilst in another they were complaining women were no good skanks. I wonder though if try even regard prostitutes as women. Maybe prostitutes are prostitutes and for sex and women are exclusively housewives who should button up their shirts and cook. It's impossible to have a nice decent, intelligent woman who embraces (and let's others embrace) her body without someone saying something really negative.

But what I meant about ending up in the sex industry being sad was alot of women subjected to sexual abuse shy away from all sexual contact. But also many, having lost control, ownership and respect for their own bodies end up whores. It is all they know to submit to a man's will, or they try to regain control of their sexuality by putting themselves in a line of work where they are saying 'I am here to have sex with alot of men, but at least it's my choice to do this'. I thin alot of prostitutes have a certain degree of self-loathing and a desire for what feels briefly like real intimacy.

And then there's the separate issue of human trafficking...

Things that make a woman a whore to you may not be the same to another woman.

A great example is (pardon my forwardness) anal sex. Some women think anal sex is disgusting and only whores do it while other women love it and find it to be very sensual.


Yes, some abused women (and men) enter the porn industry because they have been psychologically damaged. They believe they need to get that attention and sex in order to be validated. Those types of people should NOT be allowed to enter the industry. Like I said above, if prostitution were legal, it would be regulated. Women and men would be tested once a month for sexual issues and psychological ones. I know it wouldn't always necessarily work out like that. There will always be dirty grimmey assholes that try to control people.

 

[zvuv]

well i guess if those are your only options, i'd pay too but usually people have female friends who they have little flings with or people are in relationships. if a guy dates a girl a few times, she will prbably give it up...

Many men would not agree. Pussy is still a seller's market. You can see this in prostitution industry where the vast majority of hookers are women.

The way men see it, to get laid, a woman just has to put herself in the right setting and say 'yes' when the offer is made. For men it's much more difficult and risky. Many men are shy about approaching women this way and many, especially in my generation ( I am 61 yrs old ) are not comfortable having women as friends. They do manage it but it's a lot of work and and the idea of going out and getting laid tonight is unrealistic.

There is social pressure on men as well as women in this matter. Up to about age 35, it's ok for a man to screw around. Even his married friends get a certain satisfaction from knowing that he is a 'player'. But things change after that. People expect a man that age to be married or in a long term relationship. Playing the field is for boys not men. Also, at that age, most of your friends are married and may think twice about inviting you meet their wives if they see you as a sexual competitor.

There is also the point that Luger made - The Zipperless Fuck as Erica Jong used to call it. Most men want a commited relationship with a woman, but often they just want to get laid. They want a one night stand. Or even a one hour stand. This seems to be much rarer among women and I think it reflects a real difference between male and female sexuality not just cultural pressure.