Unethical?

Urca

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Wait. So you have a guy, I'm assuming you're an adult, and you actually havent explored eachothers bodies fully........ WTF?
He's not my guy, he's just the only guy ive ever kissed, touched, etc... but he wont date me. He hasnt fully gone over my body, but i know every part of his. I want to take it further, im just stuck
 

Luger187

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he does. he asks. i almost said yes last time. except for the reason already stated
just do it by yourself without him asking. he will be glad to receive one at any time. plus the spontaneousness of it will catch him off guard
 

Urca

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what are you scared of? hes not gonna pull your head up and tell you to leave if you arent good at it
My brother tells me horror stories of bad bj's, bad lays... I dont want to be anyone's horror story. plus, i gag easily
 

The Cryptkeeper

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No no no no. :) I think we can all tell her to suck his dick already, stop playing with a mans number one priority, sex, and just fuck already. :) You are an adult and Im sure you can handle it right? :D You should really be discussing all these intimate thoughts with the man you get intimate with.
 

Urca

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just do it by yourself without him asking. he will be glad to receive one at any time. plus the spontaneousness of it will catch him off guard
well, next time i see him, i want to do it, just i actually want to be kissed that time. lol
 

Urca

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No no no no. :) I think we can all tell her to suck his dick already, stop playing with a mans number one priority, sex, and just fuck already. :) You are an adult and Im sure you can handle it right? :D You should really be discussing all these intimate thoughts with the man you get intimate with.
um, idk if he would talk to me about it... whenever i bring stuff up, like how i feel or if he thought i looked nice, he avoids the question. Also has told me about other chicks he's kissed while we have been doing this
 

The Cryptkeeper

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um, idk if he would talk to me about it... whenever i bring stuff up, like how i feel or if he thought i looked nice, he avoids the question. Also has told me about other chicks he's kissed while we have been doing this
Well if you can't come to a conclusion after what you've just told us then best of luck to ya. :D
 

Luger187

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um, idk if he would talk to me about it... whenever i bring stuff up, like how i feel or if he thought i looked nice, he avoids the question. Also has told me about other chicks he's kissed while we have been doing this
sounds like you are just one of his girls that hes trying to get sex from. find a new man. preferably one that isnt a douche
 

Urca

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Well if you can't come to a conclusion after what you've just told us then best of luck to ya. :D
haha thats the thing... sometimes its great how we are together, like we just fit, never an awkward moment, we just click perfectly. I know why he avoids that kind of thing... he doesnt want me getting too attached when he wont date me. Btw, im pretty sure all he did was kiss. And he doesnt have other girls. He told me straight up if he got involved with anyone else, that he would tell me, and wouldnt see me anymore.
 

Luger187

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haha thats the thing... sometimes its great how we are together, like we just fit, never an awkward moment, we just click perfectly. I know why he avoids that kind of thing... he doesnt want me getting too attached when he wont date me
...why wont he date you?
 

Luger187

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And he doesnt have other girls. He told me straight up if he got involved with anyone else, that he would tell me, and wouldnt see me anymore.
that tells me he does have other girls. he just doesnt want you knowing because you wouldnt like it and the possibility of sex would most likely go away.
 

Urca

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that tells me he does have other girls. he just doesnt want you knowing because you wouldnt like it and the possibility of sex would most likely go away.
no, its cause he gets cheated on alot, and so he refuses to have a gf, and see me. he HATES cheaters... Once i told him I didnt want to be with anyone else... Thats when he told me all that. Then I asked him if he would care if i hung out with another guy. He said yeah, I dont care, you're not my girl... But i have yet to kiss or be with anyone else
 

Luger187

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no, its cause he gets cheated on alot, and so he refuses to have a gf, and see me. he HATES cheaters... Once i told him I didnt want to be with anyone else... Thats when he told me all that. Then I asked him if he would care if i hung out with another guy. He said yeah, I dont care, you're not my girl... But i have yet to kiss or be with anyone else
then if you like him you should become fuck buddies or something. just use rubbers and dont fall in love with him lol
 

Urca

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then if you like him you should become fuck buddies or something. just use rubbers and dont fall in love with him lol
Oh i have feelings for him, I think he maybe has a few for me. Rubbers are a must, my mom and sister are fertile as hell, my mom had my sister, 6 months later pregnant with twins.
My sister got pregnant her senior year of high school. She lost the baby shortly after she found out.
This year, with a new bf, my sister forgot a condom once. She got pregnant, and had an abortion.
Im like, FUCK THAT. Condoms please!
 
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