Any Words Of Wisdom?

Urca

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Wow being 18 and a virgin these day is almost unheard of..and if weed is the only thing making you happy i feel real sorry for you ...i find doing things for people in need always makes me feel better...
it's not the only thing that makes me happy, it just numbs when im sad or hurt. dancing makes me happy. going to school makes me happy. seeing my fwb makes me happy. reading a good book makes me happy.
 

Urca

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friends with benefits... like we arent dating yet we still fool around with each other
 

DSB65

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friends with benefits... like we arent dating yet we still fool around with each other
BUT ITS NOT THE KIND OF FOOLING AROUND HE WANTS TO DO........friends with benefits...I ALWAYS JUST CALLED IT FUCK BUDDY'S...AND THAT NEVER SEEMS TO WORK OUT..SOMEONE ALWAYS WANTS MORE...
 

Urca

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BUT ITS NOT THE KIND OF FOOLING AROUND HE WANTS TO DO........friends with benefits...I ALWAYS JUST CALLED IT FUCK BUDDY'S...AND THAT NEVER SEEMS TO WORK OUT..SOMEONE ALWAYS WANTS MORE...
i want more but i know better. Shit I turned 18 without being kissed, then I met this wonderful guy and a week later I get to kiss, kinda cuddle, laugh, and enjoy a guy. i take what i can. never had a bf or anything, and every guy i've ever had feelings for and they said they felt the same way has broken my heart everytime
 

DSB65

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You know we all want and need love and affection...but some times you cant rush these things...and a lot of times your going to get hurt trying to find these things...but this is life and you have a whole life ahead of you..
 

Urca

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lol i know, but i really do care about him, not just as the guy who decided he wanted to mess with me, but as a person, a great friend. except for at the moment but whatever. The only reason I wont fuck him is because I know he doesnt feel the same. Plus im not trying to fuck in his car
 

DSB65

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I know your 18 and a grown woman.and a lot of people here have given you some good advice...but ill say it like this..him just wanting to be friends and fuck...and you wanting to be a couple.is just going to cause you heart ache..
 

ganjames

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You're young, you say you haven't had sex. Have you been in a long term relationship before?
Wait until you lose your virginity spend at least a year with your partner just to have it all turn to shit.

Sounds fucked up but I'm sure most of us here have been through it.

dsb65 is right though, he just wants that pussy and he will say whatever makes you happy to get it.
I lost mine when I was 16 by repeatedly telling my girlfriend I wanted to fuck her.. not classy at all but at least I was honest about it lol.
Plus I defiantly had the "I'm 16 and I think I love this chick" feelings for her. she was a doll too (:

But just don't let the things that don't matter get you down, and don't fuck guys when you know they only want the twat.

And buy a rabbit...
 

RetiredToker76

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As far as weed goes, I was a hardcore stoner when I was your age. I was basically doing anything I could that didn't require a needle (or crack, wouldn't touch that.) I ended up dropping everything, including weed, for 15 years without batting an eye. It was the second best decision of my life, I got my head on straight and did some pretty cool shit. The first best decision I made, was starting smoking weed again at 33. Neck, back, and shoulder all quit hurting, migraines quit coming at the rate of 4 a week, and I started sleeping more than 3 hours a night. Now I smoke every day, all day. Only two or three hits for about 3 hours, don't ever really get high, but nothing ever hurts and stress kind of magically isn't. I too miss being blasted stoned, but it's 1) too expensive these days and 2) I have way too much to do to veg out with any regularity.

As to the boys thing. I'll just say this, "Sex is like a can of Pringles; once you pop, you can't stop!"
 

TheGreenThumber

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Its so great being introverted. I love being by myself and have to kick my old lady out sometimes when shes been around for too long. And ill just hit the bong by myself that shit dont bother me.

Smoke weed erry day. I dont do it before work, but other than that I spend every possible second high. Ill get stoned before my wedding if I ever have one. And the day my first child is born.
 

RetiredToker76

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Hey I was eating a canna-butter cookie 20 minutes before my little one crowned and while we were 'walking out' the labor I was smokin a bowl. Hell I had a bag of cookies with me for the 2 days in the hospital after my daughter was born. I came home, with my newborn, smoked a bowl and sat in the recliner. We both fell asleep and woke up 8 hours later, I hadn't shifted my hold on her an inch.

I've seen maybe a total of 2 weeks sober of her whole life, but again I rarely get stoned to the point of vegetation. I'm just hoping we can move to a medi state before she starts school. People are a bit meddling in my part of the country; to the point of constitutionally sanctioned bigotry and oppression.
 

Urca

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you know what the sad thing is? I drank a whole bottle of wine tonight and didnt feel a think. And I am not a heavy drinker or even a frequent drinker, so idk what to do now... I wont smoke but the wine I drank didnt do a goddamn thing
 

RetiredToker76

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Drinking is bad news, especially if you're escaping with it. Can't you do something less destructive, like peeling off your toe-nails with needle nose pliers?
 
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