Girlfriend question, is this normal

[psyclone]

Trust fell off the table when she started to DATE another guy...

Trust no one. Its cliche as hell but also true.

The only thing that I personally trust is that any action taken by ANYBODY is for self-serving reasons.
There are no friends, only people that you use. People that call you their friend are using you for something that they want.

Make no mistake.
Trust no one.

You sound like all the Coke dealers I ever met! (that doesn't mean you're wrong btw) This guy needs to expand his female friend base, and start taking the ladies out and about. His Girl should not mind this at all.

 

[KAOSOWNER]

I would go get tested with the quickness like now i think he is already banging your girl

oooO unhunhunhunhunhahhhhh

 

[joekikass]

Cool you trust her thats great but i would still sniff her panties when she gets home !!

 

[crazy-mental]

v.v.
if your happy with that then fine.
but it was you who posted the question.
i would nt let her go. not with another fellow. fuck that.
we have all dont it. dont let her.
if you love her, it will make you para.

 

[crazy-mental]

no no no no no.
you shouldnt have to be getting para and smelling panties.
sounds like your getting blagged and youre falling for it.

 

[Hotwired]

Ah the joys of love...

ROFL!

That's the problem with most relationships. All this love to go around and not enough trust. The problem with "love" is that it takes forever to learn the difference between what love is and what lust is.

To me, loving someone is not just about the sex but also about all the other aspects of the relationship. There are so many things you have to put aside when you are truly in "love" with someone. Jealousy and mistrust have to be totally put aside for a relationship to work.

Do you worry about your partner cheating when they leave to go "shopping" or "out with his/her friends"? Do you have pictures in your mind of your partner in bed with someone else every time they leave the house? Well fuck that shit! Because if you experience this crap in your relationships then it's time to get the fuck of of it.

We have enough problems in our lives just living and paying the bills. Who needs to have all this added pressure of a mistrusting relationship and worrying all day if the love of my life is fucking someone else.......................



But on to REAL LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!! Mhuhahahahahhahaha

This is what you do my young friend. I know you "seem" to trust her and all but you got to do what you got to do to find out if she's 100% cum free when she gets home.

1) Check her makeup when she walks in the door. If it's perfect and all her lipstick is just right then she's been swallowing that load all night.

2) See if she smells like a clean shower when she walks in. If she does, then she's been sitting on that cock all night.

3) If the above matters don't answer your questions then you have to get resourceful and get her naked and sniff her coochie.

4) You can just outright ask her and see what she says. If you are satisfied with her answer than stfu and fuggetabutit. But seeing how you came here and asked in the first place I get the feeling you don't exactly trust her.

Then here is my last trusty tool to make sure 100% is she has been faithful.

5) When she walks in the door you grab her real quick and surprise her. Make sure you put on the black ski mask and have a good sharp hunting knife. Girls, you can do this to the guys too. Trust me, it works. Your man will scream like a girl

Then you take them to a nice dark room you have set up and put her/him in a chair you have already set in place. Now get the rope or duct tape and tie them to a chair. Once you are done tying your partner take out the small cassette recorder that you have already pre-recorded your questions on. Off course you were smart enough to disguise your voice and make it sound as similar to the guys voice from the "SAW" movies.

This is kind of what it should sound like.................."Hello "name inserted here". We are going to play a game. If you answer all of my questions correctly you will get out of this alive. If you answer any questions with a wrong answer you will get cut with my sharp knife many times and you will slowly bleed to death. Answer every question carefully and good luck."

By this time your partner should be in a frenzied state and will need to calm down a bit. Wait 10 minutes for the breathing to get more regular and then inject them with a nice mind bending substance which of course you purchased a week earlier.

Once your victim.....ooops, I mean partner, starts to get the drugs effects, then you can start asking your questions.

Oh I almost forgot. Remember to do like Dexter does from the Showtime series and cover the walls and floors with plastic!! You wouldn't want all that icky blood on your nice carpet now would you? Cause you know your gonna be cuttin' that bitch up once the lies start spewing from her dirty mouth!!




But really man................no seriously. All joking aside. You don't trust her 100% or you wouldn't open up to a buncha strangers on the internet and ask what you should do. In your heart you already know what to do but you don't have the balls to do it. Honestly I would do #'s 1 thru 4 up above. Don't hurt anyone cause you just hurt yourself in the end.

Good luck!

 

[Oisterboy]

My girlfriend asked me if I would mind if she did something like that once...I said "fuck no. God damn. I'm not gonna stop you, but thats fucking bullshit"...she was actually really relieved. She didn't even WANT to go...so, maybe she was looking for an opt out from you.

I wouldn't let her go. Not because I don't trust my girlfriend, but because I don't trust any other dirtbag fucking guys.

 

[flowergurl]

Wow.
You boys are sooo possessive and jealous. How about just letting her go? You said you trusted her so what the hell is the big deal? She asked you to come along. Maybe the guy is gay, maybe he is mature enough to realize that women make very good friends and most women prefer not to fuck their friends....makes for too many issues later. So maybe...she is just branching out and trying to make new friends. If there is something underhanded going on, maybe she is not the one for you. So quit trying to control her and let her do what she wants. You have to trust your relationship and understand that you cannot control her life. and....next time go along so you can get to know the guy and hopefully quit being so paranoid.

 

[joepro]

fuck the pictures, fuck the trust.That shit is not right. I would personally ask her what the fuck is going through her head to think that it is ok to do that.
Let me put it to you this way: If it walks like a duck, talks like a duck, then it's a duck.
It sounds like a date, it looks like a date, dude, it's a date.

Introduce this friend of hers to the sole of your boot. Then introduce her face to the pimp-hand-of-doom.

No joke man, I've been there. Naive enough to believe the whole "trust her" (sorry mattso) crap, and blind enough to miss what was really happening. Don't fall for the bull-shit.

Put your foot down on this shit quick...thats just my take on it.

or

Get a date with a hot chick and see what she thinks about it...

+REP
good post

 

[goatamineHcL]

no no no no no.
you shouldnt have to be getting para and smelling panties.
sounds like your getting blagged and youre falling for it.

you should be smelling panties for fun

 

[Pizzzh]

Wow.
You boys are sooo possessive and jealous. How about just letting her go? You said you trusted her so what the hell is the big deal? She asked you to come along. Maybe the guy is gay, maybe he is mature enough to realize that women make very good friends and most women prefer not to fuck their friends....makes for too many issues later. So maybe...she is just branching out and trying to make new friends. If there is something underhanded going on, maybe she is not the one for you. So quit trying to control her and let her do what she wants. You have to trust your relationship and understand that you cannot control her life. and....next time go along so you can get to know the guy and hopefully quit being so paranoid.

she's right most my close friends that are girls i don't sleep w/ it would be a little weird

 

[xbravoz]

FLOWER GIRL....maybe he is mature enough to realize that women make very good friends and most women prefer not to fuck their friends.

When will women understand....Guys only hang out with women 1:They have fucked and would fuck again. 2:women they want to fuck....PERIOD
You probably have some guy friend that you think is just a great guy/friend.....Try showing him that pussy of yours and see how long it takes.....for him to show you he can lick your belly button.............(from the inside)

 

[DrWho]

1. let her go. If she cheats on you then she isn't worth it anyway.

2. Maybe he's gay <?>

 

[valuablevariable]

Let me get this back on track, my question isnt "is she cheating", i know she isnt, the question was more would i be over protective and possesive if i were to tell/ask her not to do this or if this is what everybody else would think in my position as well.

Where do you draw the line between giving her some freedom and setting some boundaries?

 

[Unique]

Dude is this really a question??

Unless the first time you met this guy he sucking on a penis shaped lollipop and he was wearing a t shirt saying "I like men"....hes trying to bone your girl, and it appears to me that you are giving him every chance to do so.
Even IF your girl is trust worthy, and it sounds like you even question that, what&#8217;s up with this dude?
Let&#8217;s say he decides to have sex with your girlfriend....regardless if she says yes or not, he prob has 100 pounds on her and there really isn&#8217;t much she could do if he decides hes not such a "nice" guy. There is no reason she should put herself in the situation.
In conclusion....tell her to go find a REALLY gay dude to go shopping with or just stick with the girlfriends. There are no straight male friends with your girlfriend....only guys trying to fuck her.
Personally, if I were the other guy your girl is hanging out with....id have already hit it just to teach you a lesson. Then I woulda wiped the nut on your pillow....that&#8217;s just me tho.

 

[closet.cult]

tell her its o.k. then stop her once shes home and talk a good wiff of that pussy and breath when she gets home. dont let her shower first thing, thats a dead giveaway.

as a rule, people in relationships do not spend time alone with other people. but you too might be progressive and not jealous. ask her to come along and watch. watch her responce.

 

[jamiemichelle]

I had a dealer who posted some comments on myspace that my boyfriend at the time read and flipped out cuz he thought the dude was coming on to me. Things were completely innocent between the dude and I.
So my bf went behind my back and emailed this dude trying to act all hard. This made me completely lose respect for my bf. That was the final straw in our relationship and his ass was booted.
My point is, it could be very innocent. Dont jump to conclusions til you know 100 percent for sure.
I think if I were to be hanging out with a dude for movies/dinner that would be a date.
One of my bf from many years ago had all girl friends. It drove me crazy that he was spending so much time with them and ultimately ruined our relationship. I couldnt stand being disrespected by the chicks in front of my face.
I stand by what I said initially, the only way to find out, is if you could tag along. If you can, then he's good.

 

[valuablevariable]

I had a dealer who posted some comments on myspace that my boyfriend at the time read and flipped out cuz he thought the dude was coming on to me. Things were completely innocent between the dude and I.
So my bf went behind my back and emailed this dude trying to act all hard. This made me completely lose respect for my bf. That was the final straw in our relationship and his ass was booted.
My point is, it could be very innocent. Dont jump to conclusions til you know 100 percent for sure.
I think if I were to be hanging out with a dude for movies/dinner that would be a date.
One of my bf from many years ago had all girl friends. It drove me crazy that he was spending so much time with them and ultimately ruined our relationship. I couldnt stand being disrespected by the chicks in front of my face.
I stand by what I said initially, the only way to find out, is if you could tag along. If you can, then he's good.

Sounds pretty good, im gonna have her know what i think about it all, if i need any backing up on ill just show her the 100 responses i got on the topic.

 

[pandabear]

ya u need to go there and hang with them and see what kind of threat this guys is. if hes ugly then theres even less of a chance your gurl diggs him like that. if he is good looking even if your gurl says she would never cheat and even if she means it, we are all only human and you are begging for tempatation to run its coarse culminating in foreign seman dispersal upon your lady.

he wants to sex her garanteed,

at the same time gurls like it when you are possesive just dont want to over do it.

dont let her tho man trust me is a very bad idea and u will have no one to blame but yourself when she cheats, shit that dude might even try to kiss her and she may diss him the first couple times but not tell u nothin about it. that makes that nigga your enemy and one who has no respect for you

u ever think that maybe she is just with you because of the fact like you said she has no other friends, whats gonna happen when shes got a shit load of them, she may just be waiting for somthing better to come along

how old is she?


red flags man red flags find out where this so called "freind" resides and assainate* him just in case (unless im the guy shes comming to visit, what did you say her name was again?)


*I do not condone the use of killing in anyway

 

[xbravoz]

Dude you should let her read this entire thread...Maybe she'll learn something....maybe she'll apologize and profess that she only wants your Fat Cock in her mouth....Maybe???